Gf threw out the marriage word

[bsrkoacar2]

We've been together for over 3 years. I just moved in with her in her beach front Miami beach condo. She went through a bad divorce like 8 years ago. Dude was an alcoholic and went crazy and tried to take everything from her. So she had a bad experience with marriage. She's got 3 Miami beach condos, lives in one, rents one, and bought one for her mother. All ocean front. We've talked about it before and it's always been, "I don't want to get married but I want to put my condos in your name as long as we are together. But I just cant go through another divorce so if it ends we walk away with what we entered the relationship with." She wanted to meet with an attorney and write a contract.

I plan to be with her forever and sounds like a fair deal to me. I'm not with her cause of her wealth, I genuinely love her and connect with her but I'd appreciate her doing that... Doesnt bother me cause I don't really care about marriage, were not gonna have kids.

Recently she said something like "if we get married." And was caught a little off guard cause shes said she loves me but doesn't want to get married again multiple times throughout the relationship when we've talked about it.

[RW2]

Why no kids brah? The world needs more non-woke people and people who lift. Is she wife material beyond the wealth aspect? I know people are gonna spout off the divorce statistics, but you control your life and don’t have to be a statistic.

Three years is a good amount of time to vet a woman to make sure she’s not gonna change and take you to the cleaners, especially in your 30s. What’s your hang up about getting married?

[bsrkoacar2]

Why no kids brah? The world needs more non-woke people and people who lift. Is she wife material beyond the wealth aspect? I know people are gonna spout off the divorce statistics, but you control your life and don’t have to be a statistic.

Three years is a good amount of time to vet a woman to make sure she’s not gonna change and take you to the cleaners, especially in your 30s. What’s your hang up about getting married?

I 100% believe she is a good person and has 0 red flags. She was raised right and surrounds herself with really stand up people. She came from poverty and worked hard to get out of it and become successful Yeah I'd say she is wife material. Id be open to it but haven't really thought about it much till this point now that we are actually living together. I just accepted a good job and moved in 2 weeks ago. It's a good life being with her. Before I met her I really hadnt traveled much outside of the USA. Now I've been to Europe and Asia as well as Alaska which was on my bucket list. We have an expedition planned for south america and Antarctica next year and we want to go to Vietnam and Thailand after that. I feel she really improves my life.

[OnlyHope]

One thing I noticed is that people who should be marrying and having kids are the ones who don't and the people who shouldn't be having kids have the most. Please stop being a ****gggot and put your bish in line or find someone who is as life is too short.

[bsrkoacar2]

One thing I noticed is that people who should be marrying and having kids are the ones who don't and the people who shouldn't be having kids have the most. Please stop being a ****gggot and put your bish in line or find someone who is as life is too short.

Idk I just never wanted to have kids personally. Maybe cause I had a terrible childhood but just don't feel the desire.

[UdonGheophed]

My wife owns a 1.6 million dollar piece of property. We have been married 10 years. I have never once even spoken of it as mine (we otherwise share all assets and bank account). If we discuss it, it is "hers." She has even asked me if we should sell it and other advice. I have always told her no. She can rent it and keep it in her name.

Want to know why?

Because I love her. Period.

Dear Diary. Make up your mind.

[volleys]

We've been together for over 3 years. I just moved in with her in her beach front Miami beach condo. She went through a bad divorce like 8 years ago. Dude was an alcoholic and went crazy and tried to take everything from her. So she had a bad experience with marriage. She's got 3 Miami beach condos, lives in one, rents one, and bought one for her mother. All ocean front. We've talked about it before and it's always been, "I don't want to get married but I want to put my condos in your name as long as we are together. But I just cant go through another divorce so if it ends we walk away with what we entered the relationship with." She wanted to meet with an attorney and write a contract.

I plan to be with her forever and sounds like a fair deal to me. I'm not with her cause of her wealth, I genuinely love her and connect with her but I'd appreciate her doing that... Doesnt bother me cause I don't really care about marriage, were not gonna have kids.

Recently she said something like "if we get married." And was caught a little off guard cause shes said she loves me but doesn't want to get married again multiple times throughout the relationship when we've talked about it.

Don't get married. Marriage should only be reserved for those looking to have kids. Don't be retarded. There is no reason to get the government involved in your relationship except if your goal is to spread your seed.

[bsrkoacar2]

My wife owns a 1.6 million dollar piece of property. We have been married 10 years. I have never once even spoken of it as mine (we otherwise share all assets and bank account). If we discuss it, it is "hers." She has even asked me if we should sell it and other advice. I have always told her no. She can rent it and keep it in her name.

Want to know why?

Because I love her. Period.

Dear Diary. Make up your mind.

I don't see it as mine. I never even thought of ot expected her to do that but she brought it up. 6m+ in assets isnt a small gesture ... I guess I'm comparing it to marriage in a way cause marriage is generally 50/50. Not why I'm with her, I'm with her cause I love her as well. Like I said, she improves my life.

[ectobruh]

Just lol at marriage. Plus she already had a divorce? Guess who's next.


You!!!

[bsrkoacar2]

Just lol at marriage. Plus she already had a divorce? Guess who's next.


You!!!

Nah she was loyal to the guy. He just turned into a raging drunk and cheated on her. She didn't date until she met me.

[UdonGheophed]

I don't see it as mine. I never even thought of ot expected her to do that but she brought it up. 6m+ in assets isnt a small gesture ... I guess I'm comparing it to marriage in a way cause marriage is generally 50/50. Not why I'm with her, I'm with her cause I love her as well. Like I said, she improves my life.

If you love her, be with her. If not don't. Not complicated. Her money shouldn't be a factor. Chances are she will protect her assets against a divorce anyway.

If she is willing to get married and not protect her assets then you have a simple choice. Get married with the pre conceived notion you hope to steal her assets someday if things don't work out or advise her that her assets should be protected and proceed from there.

I get what you are saying. It is the the age old story of love or money. It isn't about her, it is about you. What kind of man are you?

[ectobruh]

Nah she was loyal to the guy. He just turned into a raging drunk and cheated on her. She didn't date until she met me.

Good luck. I would never

[AVIK777]

3 beachfront properties??

[Coal Man]

3 years dating and no attempts to go further. Ya dun goofd OP.

Obviously the marriage worthy women would want to settle down at that point.

[mr.left hook]

We've been together for over 3 years. I just moved in with her in her beach front Miami beach condo. She went through a bad divorce like 8 years ago. Dude was an alcoholic and went crazy and tried to take everything from her. So she had a bad experience with marriage. She's got 3 Miami beach condos, lives in one, rents one, and bought one for her mother. All ocean front. We've talked about it before and it's always been, "I don't want to get married but I want to put my condos in your name as long as we are together. But I just cant go through another divorce so if it ends we walk away with what we entered the relationship with." She wanted to meet with an attorney and write a contract.

I plan to be with her forever and sounds like a fair deal to me. I'm not with her cause of her wealth, I genuinely love her and connect with her but I'd appreciate her doing that... Doesnt bother me cause I don't really care about marriage, were not gonna have kids.

Recently she said something like "if we get married." And was caught a little off guard cause shes said she loves me but doesn't want to get married again multiple times throughout the relationship when we've talked about it.

SHE will Own you Because you bring less to the Table. Drop a seed in her for safety play their Game. OP is gonna learn the hard way

[Ratfish]

*ex-gf

[SuicideGripMe]

Don't get married. Marriage should only be reserved for those looking to have kids. Don't be retarded. There is no reason to get the government involved in your relationship except if your goal is to spread your seed.

This x2.

[mr.left hook]

I 100% believe she is a good person and has 0 red flags. She was raised right and surrounds herself with really stand up people. She came from poverty and worked hard to get out of it and become successful Yeah I'd say she is wife material. Id be open to it but haven't really thought about it much till this point now that we are actually living together. I just accepted a good job and moved in 2 weeks ago. It's a good life being with her. Before I met her I really hadnt traveled much outside of the USA. Now I've been to Europe and Asia as well as Alaska which was on my bucket list. We have an expedition planned for south america and Antarctica next year and we want to go to Vietnam and Thailand after that. I feel she really improves my life.

THIS Guy... she already is divorced once she's build a wall around her. Good luck Homie

[mr.left hook]

3 beachfront properties??

g4p?

[AVIK777]

g4p?

Maybe she sold her azz to some pajeet millionaires

OP pls respawn

[Sevenlionz]

Misc Miami beachfront property meetup?

[BigDeeps01]

This all happened

[24HrParking]

can you post a pic of her at least

[Nicklol]

Shes rich as fuk

[LargePeter]

If a girlfriend throws out the marriage word, throw out the girlfriend

[AVIK777]

If a girlfriend throws out the marriage word, throw out the girlfriend

3 beachfront properties tho, life on ez mode

[kurent]

(...) Doesnt bother me cause I don't really care about marriage, were not gonna have kids. (...)

Then what are you even doing together? She also doesn't want kids? If she said that, let me tell you, she is lying. Doesn't want to get married? She doesn't want to scare you. Even if she had a bad marriage she wants a good one. Hinting at marriage = hinting at children.

I have never seen, heard or met people who really really REALLY genuinely don't want children. They are either scared, haven't found the right partner, or are planning to be the first human on mars or the ones who will cure cancer. And I'm guessing the only thing better then landing on mars or curing cancer is seeing your child do those things.

Having kids is the greatest thing you can do in life, SRS, double SRS. You just need a good partner and not be broke. Sounds like you have both.

[Brommando]

You'd be a good father champ, consider having kids maybe just a little bit

[ithappenss]

Idk I just never wanted to have kids personally. Maybe cause I had a terrible childhood but just don't feel the desire.

congrats you've been indoctrinated. it's natural to want to have kids

[bsrkoacar2]

If you love her, be with her. If not don't. Not complicated. Her money shouldn't be a factor. Chances are she will protect her assets against a divorce anyway.

If she is willing to get married and not protect her assets then you have a simple choice. Get married with the pre conceived notion you hope to steal her assets someday if things don't work out or advise her that her assets should be protected and proceed from there.

I get what you are saying. It is the the age old story of love or money. It isn't about her, it is about you. What kind of man are you?

The money isn't a factor. It's a good life with her. I enjoy her and like traveling and boating together. It just works. Haven't had a gf where it's worked this well before.