2 girls flaked on a first date for this weekend. Dating in the US is fuked

[sf813]

Some of you know that I recently got back from an international trip and the difference is night and day: https://forum.bodybuilding.com/showt...hp?t=184852233

I'm back in the US and had set up 2 first dates for Saturday and Sunday. We confirmed and all I had to was select the time and location of the meet. I don't know what happened or if it's the venue I suggested (a local cheap brewery that's within walking distance for me and pretty close to them as well) but they both gave some excuse to flake.

One said her boss is making her fly out of the country on a one way ticket and not sure when she'll be back. Maybe April she said.... lmao, u serios? I unmatched her

The second asked if we can get coffee or dessert instead then later on suggested next weekend instead. I said yea maybe next weekend is possible but I'm not messaging her further

Now I have no plans for this weekend except misc, fap, and tv

Sucks because times like this make me miss my former casual dating girl and we would have a blast together, and wish she would come over but I cut that off 3 months ago

[SmokesLetsGo]

Now I have no plans for this weekend except misc, fap, and tv

it is the best man

[kingHanley]

I’m married now , don’t miss dating. You’ll make it boyo.

[AlfBundy]

Lol one way ticket out of the country. Brutal

[N0rds]

Lol one way ticket out of the country. Brutal

Literally did a 360 and nope'd outta OPss life

[Humungus]

Yeah girls are ridiculous on the apps. Just a nature of the gender imbalance. They have so many matches and dudes trying to meet up with them it's pretty much a given they're gonna flake/be a pain in the ass.

Don't take that chit personally. All you can do is make a really good impression the ones you do meet.

[Torrr]

Your #1 problem isn't girls flaking, it's " no plans for this weekend except misc, fap, and tv"

How do you not have any hobby that you enjoy?

[theory816]

Lmao

It’s not that it’s fkd. It’s because you’re weird for having 2 dates already set up. They can smell the desperation

[LuigiMiami631]

1st problem is apps.

2nd problem is, you just need to be confident bro.

[sf813]

Lol one way ticket out of the country. Brutal

Lmao, I had never heard that one before

Hope that girl stays single forever and dies as a cat lady

[BrianDaMan]

MiscerLonely gave some great advice. Have you tried cold approaching at the zoo or grocery store?

[anonkunbrah]

Try using a Chad's photos next time

[Luc1fer]

We confirmed and all I had to was select the time and location of the meet.

That isn't really confirmation, it's a flaky commitment. Next time set the time and the place, it'll decrease the chances of flaking.

[skier!]

her boss is making her fly out of the country on a one way ticket and not sure when she'll be back.

rekt

In all seriousness OP these women have better options. That's how these apps work

[WoofieNugget]

You went 0 for 2 and are ready to say all dating apps in the US suck? Be prepared to be single for a while.

Hitting a home run in one game and then striking out in the next is pretty common.

[Onlinedatingcel]

Unless you're an absolute gigachad don't bother with dating.

[sf813]

That isn't really confirmation, it's a flaky commitment. Next time set the time and the place, it'll decrease the chances of flaking.

After chatting a bit, we confirmed the day of the date is what I meant

[DeputyDong5]

agreed. The reward to effort ratio is sad. I've never had a girl flake. I did have one girl leave half-way into a few margs... she was a 5 in person so I didn't really care. Ended up chilling with some NZ bros that were there for a wedding.

[sf813]

Your #1 problem isn't girls flaking, it's " no plans for this weekend except misc, fap, and tv"

How do you not have any hobby that you enjoy?

Misc, fap, and tv are hobbies

[Luc1fer]

After chatting a bit, we confirmed the day of the date is what I meant

Ye I’m saying you have to set the exact time and place

[OliverHeldens]

Some of you know that I recently got back from an international trip and the difference is night and day: https://forum.bodybuilding.com/showt...hp?t=184852233

I'm back in the US and had set up 2 first dates for Saturday and Sunday. We confirmed and all I had to was select the time and location of the meet. I don't know what happened or if it's the venue I suggested (a local cheap brewery that's within walking distance for me and pretty close to them as well) but they both gave some excuse to flake.

One said her boss is making her fly out of the country on a one way ticket and not sure when she'll be back. Maybe April she said.... lmao, u serios? I unmatched her

The second asked if we can get coffee or dessert instead then later on suggested next weekend instead. I said yea maybe next weekend is possible but I'm not messaging her further

Now I have no plans for this weekend except misc, fap, and tv

Sucks because times like this make me miss my former casual dating girl and we would have a blast together, and wish she would come over but I cut that off 3 months ago

There's no bigger buzzkill than going on a tear in another country then coming back to the US trying to extend the streak and getting slapped hard back to reality.

[DeputyDong5]

There's no bigger buzzkill than going on a tear in another country then coming back to the US trying to extend the streak and getting slapped hard back to reality.

What other countries have you experienced this in?

I spent a lot of time in Europe 2012-2014 and it was about the same effort there as here, perhaps slightly easier.

[BigDeeps01]

They just found some better dink that’s all

[DeputyDong5]

They just found some better dink that’s all

and this is actually the simple answer to the problem with OLD. I've been guilty of it, too.

[OliverHeldens]

What other countries have you experienced this in?

I spent a lot of time in Europe 2012-2014 and it was about the same effort there as here, perhaps slightly easier.

Colombia, Cuba, Panama, South Africa, Tanzania, Thailand, Philipines. If you could massage parlors/strip clubs, Japan.

[InstantLoser]

Look how much time I save by simply being a complete pussy and not asking girls out to begin with. OP and I arrived at the same place despite totally different energy expenditures.

[DolphinPilot]

They just found some better dink that’s all

you've never heard of OP and his all-night sex festivals?

https://forum.bodybuilding.com/showt...hp?t=184852233

[NMS3]

I can’t even land a date in the first place. Heck, I can’t even hold conversations with sloots anymore. It’s impossible with the standards sloots have today.

[imbored21]

I can’t even land a date in the first place. Heck, I can’t even hold conversations with sloots anymore. It’s impossible with the standards sloots have today.

u srs? u are shredded bro

[MikeLowrrrey]

Yeah girls are ridiculous on the apps. Just a nature of the gender imbalance. They have so many matches and dudes trying to meet up with them it's pretty much a given they're gonna flake/be a pain in the ass.

Don't take that chit personally. All you can do is make a really good impression the ones you do meet.

This y'alls problem. Fuk you want to impress a woman you don't know for?? If she was a woman that came from a good middle/upperclass background with good connections, THEN it makes sense to really shoot your shot. But you're talking about trying to impress a random woman you don't know anything about on a dating app.

Just stop. Get off the apps and get some hobbies that make you happy. Do all the side quests, that way when you reach the boss you can one shot them.