Is a sign of deep insecurity
For me personally I tell my girlfriend she can talk to whoever she wants and do whatever she wants because I am confident in what I have to offer as a life partner.
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12-28-2023, 07:59 AM #1
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Being jealous/possessive of your gf
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12-28-2023, 08:01 AM #2
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12-28-2023, 08:04 AM #6
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12-28-2023, 08:09 AM #8
Had a confusing sort of situation the other day. There is a restaurant near my office where my colleagues and I will occasionally grab happy hour drinks and sometimes food. The bartenders there are familiar with us and generally know what drinks to make us before we ask. I've spoken a lot to one of the guys who works there and who always seemed super cool in the past. I've met his fiancée before too, since she will come in and hang at the bar when he's working.
I was in there the other night, and that guy and his fiancée were a few seats down around the corner of the bar from me. She said hi to me and started talking about work-related stuff, asking me questions, etc., because she has prior experience in my industry. At one point when she was mid-sentence, he looked mad, leaned in toward her, and said something that cut her off completely (not sure what), and then she didn't say another word to me. I suspect he was pissed that she spoke to me as much as she did. Very weird. You're engaged, bro, and we're just talking about work stuff, not flirting with each other in front of you. Calm down. My feeling is that he feels she's out of his league and is very nervous as a result.
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12-28-2023, 08:09 AM #9
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12-28-2023, 08:12 AM #10
than that's just another brainwashed netflix whore who tries to be masculine and pushes all high value men out of her life. she ll constantly complain shes just not happy and have numerous dogs or cats. being a man is dominating a woman. its biology. nice guys finish last.
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12-28-2023, 08:18 AM #11
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Telling someone what to do and expecting them to obey is called being a tyrant. Do you consider yourself sk?
Now, it is okay to have boundaries or things that you would LIKE for them to do, and if they don't adhere then you can walk away.
Sometimes my girl has good advice to give to me. I am stronger because of her. The fact of her obeying every thing I say is laughable to me unless I have good, práctical advice to give her.
Anything else is just a tyranny. And for your news, if you were a High value male you wouldnt feel the need to say you were540 pound deadlift
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12-28-2023, 08:18 AM #12
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12-28-2023, 08:44 AM #14
no point in worrying about things out of control. if they wunna do it they gunna do it. confidence and security within oneself is everything srs even if u are one ugly motherfuker like myself you have no choice but to confident or you will never make it as a man in the dating and relationship world
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12-28-2023, 08:46 AM #15
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12-28-2023, 11:03 AM #18
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12-28-2023, 11:14 AM #19
This. It is all about balance and there is obviously a spectrum.
You can't be a control freak. For example, not letting your gf go to the bar alone with her girlfriends and/or colleagues after work on a Friday. Very insecure look. Girls will sense it, lose all attracting for you, and lose all respect for you.
Plus, you gotta have more trust in your relationship than that and security in yourself as a high value partner that she won't want to cheat on. Otherwise, why are you in the relationship to begin with? It is doomed to fail anyway.
But every relationship should have clear boundaries. You can't be scared to set them and put your foot down. It isn't "controlling" to do so. That is sloot talk. Feminist propaganda to try and weaken and emasculate men, brow-beating them into accepting cuck status, and shaming them if don't.
Gf wants to hang-out 1 on 1 with other men (especially ex-bfs, or anyone that has previously shown sexual interest)? An alpha male will grab his balls and shut that bs down immediately. If you don't, you won't have her respect.
It isn't "controlling" to tell her no to that sort of stuff, and that if she disobeys, the relationship is immediately over. She can still do it if she wants to. You're just making the consequences transparent and known up front. It's her choice to make. Only sloot logic spins that as "controlling".
But if your gf wants to do that kind of stuff in the first place, she should be your ex-gf...::-Miscers Who Actually Lift Crew-::..
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12-28-2023, 11:20 AM #20
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12-28-2023, 11:39 AM #26
OP, you're employing a socially engineered form of rationalization and justification for your weak and cuck mentality. Your mentality is that of someone who's very useful for pushing feminism.
This was how they broke down the wall of tradition and ushered in feminism. They psychologically gaslit men into tolerating degeneracy by attacking his masculinity with sophisticated mental manipulation.
"oh, you won't date a whore? are you insecure? you're not a real man! a REAL man can handle a woman with a high body count! you're just insecure!" is the classic and most easily relatable form of gaslighting that was used in the past to weaken men.
Except now, you're gaslighting yourself into being a cuck, without there even being a woman present to do the work. Congrats, you low IQ retard.
As men, it is in your nature to be possessive. Somewhere along the way, the West has managed to invert this truth and portray it as some sort of character flaw. They've since weaponized this method of manipulation to allow females and cucks to be absolute degenerate.
Congrats on falling for the fkn psy-op, you retard.
There's absolutely no shame in jealousy and needing to possess the female you're with. It's pure masculinity. After all, do you not feel the need to possess and protect the house you live in? The land you're on? The country you live in? The car that you drive? Absolutely yes to all of that. So why is it different now with the woman you possess?
When someone steps on private proper -- YOUR PROPERTY -- surely that gets a rise out of you? The instinct to protect, defend, and ultimately go on the offense, SHOULD kick in. This is the same with women. If you know your woman is cheating, you SHOULD be angered, you should want revenge, you should beat the fukk out of your woman and the f4gg0t that she's cheating with. Why? Because they've disrespected you.
"jealousy is weakness" is pure cope. Weak f4gg0ts tell themselves that because they're afraid to take real actions against disrespect.
It should be that your woman would not cheat on you NOT because she respects you, but that she fears the fkn wrath that would come her way, and the guy she's cheating with. Everyone involved should fear the potential for violence that you dish out.
My woman does not cheat on me because she knows I would corner both of them in the act and put the beat down on both of them. I would then record the video of both of these dirtbags slumped on the ground, as I proceed to piss on both of them, then send the video to all their family members. This would psychologically ruin both of them, forever. They can never carry on that relationship, knowing the traumatic and absolutely humiliating experience of being pissed on, as a couple.
It's the same tactics the cartel uses to intimidate people; they purposely desecrate the corps, and then send the picture/videos to the families/rivals so that it absolutely mentally breaks them. It robs them of viewing their loved ones as humans. So, too, will two people not be able to go on in a relationship, knowing that they've both shared being pissed on. They can never look each other in the eyes again to make love. They will never share an intimate moment with each other again.
edit: /psychopath mode lulz.Last edited by ChangGang; 12-28-2023 at 11:45 AM.
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