when to text girl after first date ?

[Ondle]

Had a date last night I’d say went it was whatever. I was a bit shy and nervous lol. But it went on for 3 hours…. I texted her on the evening when I got back home just to make sure she got home safe.

Should I hit her up today or wait a bit?

[Polaris]

6 months minimum. You don't want to be too eager or appear needy.

[Ondle]

6 months minimum. You don't want to be too eager or appear needy.

lol

[backinbusiness]

You already text her, it’s entirely in her court now. If she never replies it’s done. Girls don’t just “forget” about texts if they are interested

[DolphinPilot]

I always cringe at the "did you get home safe? " texts.

[Ondle]

You already text her, it’s entirely in her court now. If she never replies it’s done. Girls don’t just “forget” about texts if they are interested

Yea she replied when I asked if she got home. She said yes and thanked me for dinner. I didn’t reply to that…

[Ondle]

I always cringe at the "did you get home safe? " texts.

I just said “home?”

[baroninyba]

Always tell the date to text me when she gets home srs she always does

[NestBra]

3hrs no smash?

Im pretty sure its a wrap

[NestBra]

You already text her, it’s entirely in her court now. If she never replies it’s done. Girls don’t just “forget” about texts if they are interested

Yep

[BalognaNbeans]

When is the next Olympics?

[friesbruh]

am getting major beta vibes from you.

you seem needy and overly caring for a broad you barely know. its not your job to check in to make sure she got home and if all you said was "home?" that's fukkin weird srs. what are you her babysitter? or mother? if anything was going to happen then either 1) she should have called or texted you first or 2) you should have said something witty, not "home?" fkn LMAO

if all she said back was "yes, thanks for dinner" then that's not high-interest IE move on and do not text again.

[naich]

-paid for dinner
-concerned for safety
-hesitant on the next move

I can smell the low T from here brah.

Go with your gut, either she is interested and will say yes to whatever or you are one of the hundreds that go on read and get "forgotten".

[DolphinPilot]

I just said “home?”

And how is that different?

[DesiredUserphag]

wtf is a "date"? did you smash? if not, she don't wanna hear from you boyo. doesn't wanna hear from you if you got a tiny package either SRS

[Ratfish]

how was the smooch

[tripod29]

It's over boyo. She has zero interest. Srs, vry srs.

[Ondle]

-paid for dinner
-concerned for safety
-hesitant on the next move

I can smell the low T from here brah.

Go with your gut, either she is interested and will say yes to whatever or you are one of the hundreds that go on read and get "forgotten".

So what can I say right now to see if that’s the case and see if she is interested ?

[ElonFan96]

I always cringe at the "did you get home safe? " texts.

You're viewing it through the eyes of a male you fgt, for a woman it's nice

[Barteh]

If she's interested it doesn't matter if you text today or in a few days.

[Ondle]

If she's interested it doesn't matter if you text today or in a few days.

Ok gotch any idea what I can text though? Should I quickly set up for a 2nd date?

[NestBra]

So what can I say right now to see if that’s the case and see if she is interested ?

Theres not much to do anymo except hailmary & ask her either for drinks = will probs fail.
Or str8 up ask if she wants to FUKK. Id go with last 1 so its quickly over with & u can not fumble some other bish.
You shouldve escalated more on the date & went for atleast a kiss. Do that with the next girl u get a shot with. If she digs it ask to go to her place & give her a stabbin
Already kno u sleep on one of them racecar beds so that aint a option

[NestBra]

If its late there send her smth in english with this premise "look i was a geek yesterday how about ill come over tonight?"
If she goes like lolwut, say u got a 9 inch dick
When u get there say u lied

[YUL]

I just said “home?”

Damn. You just ensured she won’t text you back

[Ondle]

Damn. You just ensured she won’t text you back

She replied to that lol

[Itzblunted]

6 months minimum. You don't want to be too eager or appear needy.

Ye op you should wait until you’re at least dead and they’ve already read the eulogy before you respond

[Sinan09400]

Tell me when you get home safely means I liked you and wanna see you again in man language.

At end of first date I usually ask like wanna dine somewhere next time. If Im asking I know the answer will be yes cos if we didnt click on first date I would be like "thanks, have a good night" and then ghost

[Itzblunted]

Just think - "what would Charles Bronson do?"

Hed probably be like?


Ye, that just happened…


And I had to witness the whole thing

[Barteh]

Ok gotch any idea what I can text though? Should I quickly set up for a 2nd date?

Yeah that'd be my style. I don't like texting a lot in between dates.

[juice323232]

None of this stuff matters. If she is interested in you then you can’t make a mistake really. If a girl is interested in you she won’t become uninterested depending on how soon you text, she will make it easy for you because she wants to move forward.