Do You Agree That if You Care About a Girl’s Sex History = Insecure?

[ChristmasFnatic]

Like if we wanna know how many cocks a girl took, a lot of women and even men would accuse us of having low self esteem or insecure or frail masculinity.

Agree or not?

[Banderistan]

i just don't want sloppy seconds

I wouldn't use some dude's fleshlight so why would I want used goods?

[Spetznaaz]

Personally i think it's something that we evolved to care about, probably to ensure we are raising our own children.

[phaginator]

It was literally the norm to have a virgin bride for most of human history and in almost every civilzation...for good reason.

Only now do cucks want to compromise because the average man is so deprived of pussy these days he'll drop any standard.

[Visel]

I tend to ask all my LTRs / FWBs their kill count, and it's almost always double of mine, despite the fact they're always younger than me.

Girls are dumb, and sex is constantly on the table for them 24/7 365. I don't blame them for a high kill count, tbh, I think I'd do the same if I were them.

[yieldtonothing]

i just don't want sloppy seconds

I wouldn't use some dude's fleshlight so why would I want used goods?

good thing all you'll ever have to worry about is not using some other dude's fleshlight

[TooAnabolic]

Sluts are gross and less valuable than gals who don’t belong to the neighborhood

[BillTheBro]

The word "insecure" gets thrown around so much.

If you suspect your girl has a high bodycount, you will justifiably be insecure about the resilience of your relationship. This doesn't necessarily indicate a lack of self confidence.

[Kcrack]

They call you "insecure" as a shaming tactic because they don't want to be accountable for their actions. When in reality, we're just disgusted. No man with any self respect wants to wife up the village whore, it's that simple.

[phaginator]

Having standards =/= insecure.

[Vorago]

Have never asked anyone their body count, srs. Might do it as a joke someday, but generally it doesn't affect me on any level. My pen0r does not understand concepts such as monogamy, even when I was super religious.

I remember whining to my dad when I was a teen about why I was only allowed to marry one girl and not two. He laughed and said, "you can barely shut one of them up, why would you want two?"

[piramparam]

Yeah. But its hard to deal with

[Bodhy]

No, sometimes its warranted. For example, if a girl has had 40 dicks before you, you can surmise her pussy ain't tight and you're gonna be playing STD Russian Roulette. Plus, if you think you might be getting serious with a girl and she might be wife material, it might be worth knowing if she's sampled over 40 dicks before.



But if she's had under 5 dicks, that's a good sign and something you should know.



So it's not about being insecure, it's important information to have. I don't want to wife a girl who's been cocked more times than Elmer Fudd's shotgun.

[northernlights7]

Personally i think it's something that we evolved to care about, probably to ensure we are raising our own children.

This.

Furthermore, what *isn't* grounds for a dude getting labeled as "insecure" these days, anyway? At this point, that term has been so overused to justify sloots slooting for so long, it's lost all meaning.

[Brommando]

Like if we wanna know how many cocks a girl took, a lot of women and even men would accuse us of having low self esteem or insecure or frail masculinity.

Agree or not?

You will find out that every instinct/action we take is because we are insecure . Btw what if a man is insecure ? Women are insecure n sheet , I thought feminism was about dropping the "man up" norm

[Condo41]

I just sat "fine then I'm insecure, I dint cobr care and that won't change"

[Cleveland33]

nope, it's a personal choice/feeling

[Evolutionary1]

This is feminism teaching the opposite of the truth once again...

[Thebigzub]

Always seems like a one way conversation when it comes to this......how many ham wallets have you stuck your crank in?.....does that make the Ol lady insecure?

[samsbolton]

not really an issue in my preferred age range

[sapdori]

Nope, has nothing to do with insecurity. I've banged hundreds of girls and I still wouldn't wanna get into a srs relationship with a girl with more than 3~5 body count. A girl who's been fked by many different dudes = low value.

Why would I want to invest my time and money in a girl who was easily accessible by any Joe Schmo?

[ProSaibot]

Is women wanting a dude with a 6figure income considered insecurity? No

Men too have the right to want a high-value women. Usually the requirements are that her vagina hasn't been plowed by half of Detroit. If she passes this, then it is highly likely she doesn't have mental issues and would be a good wife.

[WoofieNugget]

It's part of the vetting process. I don't want to be with a girl who's shown to be insanely promiscuous or has a history of cheating, so I'll find out if she has. Actual body count doesn't really matter unless it's an insanely high amount. If a girl has had a regular dating life and a couple of periods of being slightly slutty, no big deal. If she's the type who has had a different guy every week then I'm not interested in her.

[Ironmanlet]

I don’t disagree that it is something we “evolved”, but it is still egotistical insecurities.

The feeling of being hurt when rejected is a result of instinctual “need” to survive and procreate. It doesn’t need to control us though.

Of course there can be legit concerns about STDs which we should watch out for, but that isn’t what we are talking about.

We are not talking about the logical approach. We are talking about the emotional response we get when we learn two other consenting adults had sex and we were not involved.

Why would anyone think that was their business? lol

raw ego.

[BasedLiberal]

If you care about a girl's history, you're insecure.

[G-Profit]

No, not insecure. Its a primal feeling of rage, disgust, and sadness that most women will never be able to understand. In fact, I'd say the more "alpha" you are the more you likely care about such a thing with a girl you think is worth taking serious.

I have a very high body count myself (120-140 ish) but me and my current gf do not talk about details or ask notch counts. Like all girls, I know she went through a slut phase when she was young and has some stupid tattoos she is getting removed etc but I can tell she has some regret and learned from it.

I try to be forgiving when I rage thinking she gave it up to some dudes for free. Then I just remind myself I've fukced dozens of dudes gfs/wives with ease when they were in their slut phases. Don't ask the #, you will probably just think she's lying or you will be disgusted srs.

If she is showing up as a great girl with you who is submissive, loyal, up for whatever you want sexually then maybe give her a shot. Just be cautious for signs of slootery.

[sapdori]

No, not insecure. Its a primal feeling of rage, disgust, and sadness that most women will never be able to understand. In fact, I'd say the more "alpha" you are the more you likely care about such a thing with a girl you think is worth taking serious.

I have a very high body count myself (120-140 ish) but me and my current gf do not talk about details or ask notch counts. Like all girls, I know she went through a slut phase when she was young and has some stupid tattoos she is getting removed etc but I can tell she has some regret and learned from it.

I try to be forgiving when I rage thinking she gave it up to some dudes for free. Then I just remind myself I've fukced dozens of dudes gfs/wives with ease when they were in their slut phases. Don't ask the #, you will probably just think she's lying or you will be disgusted srs.

If she is showing up as a great girl with you who is submissive, loyal, up for whatever you want sexually then maybe give her a shot. Just be cautious for signs of slootery.

Believe it or not, there are many decent girls with a low bodycount. If it bothers you that much, you are just settling cause you know you'll have a difficult time pulling well-adjusted prime sloots at this point in your life.

[katya422]

The word "insecure" gets thrown around so much.

If you suspect your girl has a high bodycount, you will justifiably be insecure about the resilience of your relationship. This doesn't necessarily indicate a lack of self confidence.

It's part of the vetting process. I don't want to be with a girl who's shown to be insanely promiscuous or has a history of cheating, so I'll find out if she has. Actual body count doesn't really matter unless it's an insanely high amount. If a girl has had a regular dating life and a couple of periods of being slightly slutty, no big deal. If she's the type who has had a different guy every week then I'm not interested in her.

I mean if a guy is looking for some sort of relationship and not just to smash then preferring someone who has a low body count [at least since college] just seems sane.

Sort of like if you aren't a big drinker you wouldn't want to date a barfly. Yeah, she might not have an alcohol addiction and she might cut back on drinking or stop when she is in a relationship with you, but you have to know she might get thirsty again.

It's a risk.

But you know how miscers say "but it's okay for Chad"? Same for guys I bet. If she is hot enough to you or the chemistry is great you might decide it's worth the risk.

[AgentSkyhawk]

If you care about a girl's history, you're insecure.

That chit switched up like that princess peach painting in super mario 64 after getting 8 stars gawd damn! XD

[ChangClan]

the label "insecure" has been one of the most successful psychological manipulation tool in the jew's psyop against the White Western man, and by extension, all Western men.

It's literally childish reverse psychology and gaslighting to get men to drop their guard, standards, and dignity, so it can allow women to have free reign to destroy society.

A complete inversion of the Truth. Once a man with the standard and the utmost respect for himself for not getting with a whore, a single accusation of "insecurity" has him doing Olympic level mental gymnastics to justify his weak and pathetic decision to give in.

I can understand this type of basic bitch psychology working on women (they are the retards of the two sexes), but to actually hear this accusation of "insecurity" out of Western White boomer cucks? LMAO.

Western women have become chaotic whores because the men allowed it. Why and how did the men allow it? Because it meant they were the most securest of the secure men lulz.