Dumped gf for not being able to respect simple boundaries

[badreligion]

All of them. Number 2 could be a hit or miss but she seeks to talk to random guys thinking it's ok.

It's one thing when a guy does the talking first but she does the talking first often times like my attention isn't enough.

She does have HPD I have no doubt, she just hasn't been properly diagnosed. She has so many other issues besides HPD. In other words she's fooked

https://www.merckmanuals.com/profess...y-disorder-hpd

[RiceBrah93]

Update for the boys:

She's finally moving out. I helped her move 95% of the furniture out of the house cause she basically owns it and I'm left with my bed and my work desk.

Helped her find a new place to live in etc. cause I'm a gentleman. She's gonna live with her sister and apparently rent out the other rooms to some random guys..All the best to her

The ability to walk away is one of your biggest superpowers against women.

[NosyJossie]

Update for the boys:

She's finally moving out. I helped her move 95% of the furniture out of the house cause she basically owns it and I'm left with my bed and my work desk.

Helped her find a new place to live in etc. cause I'm a gentleman. She's gonna live with her sister and apparently rent out the other rooms to some random guys..All the best to her

The ability to walk away is one of your biggest superpowers against women.

How did you find the strength to walk away? srs.

Sounds like a fkn nightmare

[RiceBrah93]

How did you find the strength to walk away? srs.

Sounds like a fkn nightmare

Even though I initiated the breakup, I was crying and emotional af for the past 3 days and even as we would talk, my eyes would start watering a bit.

One of the toughest things I've had to go through for sure. Emotionally it's a terrible decision. Logically, it's an excellent one.

Thinking about the good times you had with each other makes you want to reconcile things but you have to let wisdom take control instead of feelings

[Zere0wn]

Update for the boys:

She's finally moving out. I helped her move 95% of the furniture out of the house cause she basically owns it and I'm left with my bed and my work desk.

Helped her find a new place to live in etc. cause I'm a gentleman. She's gonna live with her sister and apparently rent out the other rooms to some random guys..All the best to her

The ability to walk away is one of your biggest superpowers against women.

good for you man. way to stand up for your boundaries

[Zere0wn]

Even though I initiated the breakup, I was crying and emotional af for the past 3 days and even as we would talk, my eyes would start watering a bit.

One of the toughest things I've had to go through for sure. Emotionally it's a terrible decision. Logically, it's an excellent one.

Thinking about the good times you had with each other makes you want to reconcile things but you have to let wisdom take control instead of feelings

been there. keep your head up. time will heal.

[WiseOldApe]

Even though I initiated the breakup, I was crying and emotional af for the past 3 days and even as we would talk, my eyes would start watering a bit.

One of the toughest things I've had to go through for sure. Emotionally it's a terrible decision. Logically, it's an excellent one.

Thinking about the good times you had with each other makes you want to reconcile things but you have to let wisdom take control instead of feelings

Do you think the next gf in your life will be any different? If you don't grow and change as a person yourself, that is... don't just tell me that you're perfect and she's crazy.. although being female she might be more prone to volatile emotional outbursts... in my experience you usually meet your match in a female partner.

[RiceBrah93]

Do you think the next gf in your life will be any different? If you don't grow and change as a person yourself, that is... don't just tell me that you're perfect and she's crazy.. although being female she might be more prone to volatile emotional outbursts... in my experience you usually meet your match in a female partner.

I was far from perfect, I blame myself for everything. On top of what happened in the OP, she has anxiety, she takes meds for them. She has these outbursts out of nowhere, she'd be in my face and provoke me to anger...I would retaliate and we would have a yelling competition instead of exercising self-control.

Once again, my fault. As a Christian and as a man, I'm definitely not cohabitating with a girl ever again unless I'm married to her.

But I don't even know if Im ever gonna get married.. God knows.

For months on end she would push the idea of marriage and kids on me, I just am not ready and I don't think she's the right mother for my children..sucks but that's life.

[Pterodactyl314]

Good call, she’s right you don’t own her and that’s why you have to end it. You can’t change their behavior.

[BigDaddyBiceps]

Do you think the next gf in your life will be any different? If you don't grow and change as a person yourself, that is... don't just tell me that you're perfect and she's crazy.. although being female she might be more prone to volatile emotional outbursts... in my experience you usually meet your match in a female partner.

Bro his girl was showing her panties to randoms in the pool or some chit. Quit taking the hoes side you mong. Jfc do you ever post anything that's not retarded srs

[OliverHeldens]

Update for the boys:

She's finally moving out. I helped her move 95% of the furniture out of the house cause she basically owns it and I'm left with my bed and my work desk.

Helped her find a new place to live in etc. cause I'm a gentleman. She's gonna live with her sister and apparently rent out the other rooms to some random guys..All the best to her

The ability to walk away is one of your biggest superpowers against women.

Agreed, and congrats man. I recently had to get rid of a chick when she became waaaaaaaay too comfortable and mistook my niceness for someone that she could just walk all over. Bought her a plane ticket to a different location than I was going, and immediately blocked her number.

[RiceBrah93]

Agreed, and congrats man. I recently had to get rid of a chick when she became waaaaaaaay too comfortable and mistook my niceness for someone that she could just walk all over. Bought her a plane ticket to a different location than I was going, and immediately blocked her number.

That's the way to do it man. Emotional strength is something most men don't have. Well done

[OliverHeldens]

That's the way to do it man. Emotional strength is something most men don't have. Well done

It was funny too, because on the way to the airport she was trying really hard to probe for information about "where things stood". C'mon girl, I haven't really spoken to you in 4 days, although we've been in the same bed. Of course this isn't going any further.

[Zere0wn]

that must have been a long and awkward 3 months.

you going no contact now?

[RiceBrah93]

that must have been a long and awkward 3 months.

you going no contact now?

It's been a bipolar 3 months. Cuddles, fights, name-calling, yelling, her begging me to stay, make-up sex, her finally accepting her fate, me starting to have last minute doubts about my decision etc.

Fickle times..but God is good

As for no contact that's another hurdle I need to get through. Wonder if I should go ghost completely for at least the next year or entertain her once in a blue moon.

[Zere0wn]

It's been a bipolar 3 months. Cuddles, fights, name-calling, yelling, her begging me to stay, make-up sex, her finally accepting her fate, me starting to have last minute doubts about my decision etc

Fickle times..but God is good

surprised you stayed strong in that environment

[OliverHeldens]

It's been a bipolar 3 months. Cuddles, fights, name-calling, yelling, her begging me to stay, make-up sex, her finally accepting her fate, me starting to have last minute doubts about my decision etc

Fickle times..but God is good

How many times did you fuk since the incident

[Zere0wn]

i would go full no contact, its hard to move on otherwise

[RiceBrah93]

How many times did you fuk since the incident

A few times a month. She was begging me almost everyday but we were either busy or would always fight and I rejected her advances most of the time

[OliverHeldens]

A few times a month. She was begging me almost everyday but we were either busy or would always fight and I rejected her advances most of the time

Still cumming inside?

[eodl8989]

UShe's gonna live with her sister and apparently rent out the other rooms to some random guys..

dam....

[RiceBrah93]

Still cumming inside?

No cause she's not on the pill and I don't wanna go on baby names

[WiseOldApe]

I was far from perfect, I blame myself for everything. On top of what happened in the OP, she has anxiety, she takes meds for them. She has these outbursts out of nowhere, she'd be in my face and provoke me to anger...I would retaliate and we would have a yelling competition instead of exercising self-control.

Once again, my fault. As a Christian and as a man, I'm definitely not cohabitating with a girl ever again unless I'm married to her.

But I don't even know if Im ever gonna get married.. God knows.

For months on end she would push the idea of marriage and kids on me, I just am not ready and I don't think she's the right mother for my children..sucks but that's life.

Yeah I dunno man, you sound like you're not perfect. All you can do is keep praying and remaining faithful and become in the image of God once again.

Remember that in the Bible it says that God made man in His image, so any time you sin or do something which is not endorsed by Jesus Christ, you fall again and you're no longer in the image of God.

Maybe just keep you d in your pants until you feel ready? That way you avoid events such as those that preceded the posting of this thread...

BTW was this that blonde aussie girl that was racist to you?

[ChinkWithDink]

Anyone else have to go to squattingirls reddit and get something out of their system?

OP, firstly, well done for setting your boundaries and sticking to them.

But next time this happens and the sloot is begging for you back what you need to do is get her to squat for you to take pictures from the Andrew angle. Ostensibly this is so you can show her what the problem is but the actual reason is so you can post those pics to misc for context.

[niospecv]

OP gets cucked by big dik Andrew.

[RiceBrah93]

Yeah I dunno man, you sound like you're not perfect. All you can do is keep praying and remaining faithful and become in the image of God once again.

Remember that in the Bible it says that God made man in His image, so any time you sin or do something which is not endorsed by Jesus Christ, you fall again and you're no longer in the image of God.

Maybe just keep you d in your pants until you feel ready? That way you avoid events such as those that preceded the posting of this thread...

BTW was this that blonde aussie girl that was racist to you?

Thanks bro. It's a hard walk this Christian life but God gives us grace to overcome.

Yeah the blonde Aussie girl but her sister was the racist

[TonyTriangles]

OP gets cucked by big dik Andrew.

Can confirm. I am Andrew.

Op’s girl disrespected him and now she’s taking out in my dink.

[Immichaelski]

That’s the worst op. It’s even worse when you could tell your girl something like how do something on a car and she would be like whatever but all of the sudden Dave comes over and says the same thing and she is all of the sudden into it abd like you should listen. You could learn. To be that **** us the dealbreaker for me. I don’t think you overreacted because it’s normal but I’m to the point where I don’t care. If that is going to happen it’s going to happen.. just don’t let a guy be coming up to her.

[RiceBrah93]

That’s the worst op. It’s even worse when you could tell your girl something like how do something on a car and she would be like whatever but all of the sudden Dave comes over and says the same thing and she is all of the sudden into it abd like you should listen. You could learn. To be that **** us the dealbreaker for me. I don’t think you overreacted because it’s normal but I’m to the point where I don’t care. If that is going to happen it’s going to happen.. just don’t let a guy be coming up to her.

It's such a slap to the face. They would listen to anybody and take their advice, their friends, their hairdresser, some random guy but not their husband or boyfriend. It's such a mystery that behaviour