Dumped gf for not being able to respect simple boundaries

**TomPaine** · 03-20-2023, 03:09 PM

Originally Posted by RiceBrah93

A girl can be hot and not be retarded at the same time. It's possible

Sorry bud, science has already proved you wrong on this point.

**HarryfromCali** · 03-20-2023, 03:10 PM

Sloots gonna sloot brah, this is a story as old as time

**RiceBrah93** · 03-20-2023, 03:10 PM

Originally Posted by kimm4

Oh for christ sakes stop grasping. Both are at the edge of the pool and she squatted down to hand the guy some paperwork. Is she a friendly person trying to make a new neighbor feel more welcome? Did she overdue it maybe...I personally don't know the girl. This world is a ****ty place right now and I don't know about the rest of you but I go out of my way to make people feel good...even people I don't know. It's nice to get people to smile for once...

I'm out good luck OP.

The guy was in the pool all wet, she was outside the pool. Not a good idea to hand him some paperwork...

**Gronnie** · 03-20-2023, 03:14 PM

Originally Posted by RiceBrah93

A girl can be hot and not be retarded at the same time. It's possible

Yea but she wouldn't be with you in that case.

**Gronnie** · 03-20-2023, 03:18 PM

If you stay for 3 months without taking her back you are 100% getting false accusastions of abuse or rape. GTFO if you are serious about dumping her.

**MikeLowrrrey** · 03-20-2023, 03:40 PM

Originally Posted by sooby

You're better off roping than explaining slooty behaviour logically to a western woman. just lol. just lol at these chit tests and these games. i honestly think it's just better from the start to set your boundaries and what you don't want to be crossed. and what the consequences are. if she don't like it then bye felicia. op literally said he explained it but she saw nothing wrong.

you can forgive one-off slooty behaviour bc women gonna women. As long as she understands and respects what you said and doesn't try to emasculate you for it. and she doesn't do it again. why even bother to salvage it if she doesn't understand and is going to do it again?

Actually you're all wrong, you can easily explain sloot behavior, just very subtly flirt with other women in front of her face.

**juice323232** · 03-20-2023, 04:27 PM

OP, what do you think would have happened if you weren’t there? Imagine how much more forward she would have been with this guy.

**129iq** · 03-20-2023, 06:32 PM

Originally Posted by Olympia2018

Not sure how this has reached 4 pages but to OP

Bro your girl literally was yelling for him when y’all pulled up, and then begged to go to the pool where this shirtless man is lol

And then left your ass inside to go talk to him.

Hell the fuk noooo bro.

It’s one thing if she flirts with other men in front of you,

It’s a whole NEW thing if she leaves you to go flirt with another man while you’re sitting inside with your dik in your own hand while she’s chatting him up at the pool

Make it very clear “woman like you deserve to be single”

And absolutely do not give this girl any more time of day

Coming from a dude who’s been with thousands of woman I can promise you her intentions were not harmless or clueless and she 100% took advantage of you to cheat on you right in front of your own eyes

The whole “you don’t own me” bish if we’re in a “relationship” you do own her, if she feels like you “control, insecure!!” Card homie fukn run backwards from her

That’s some stupid slot sht right there

Thousands of women? How is that possible?

**129iq** · 03-20-2023, 06:35 PM

Originally Posted by kimm4

Oh for christ sakes stop grasping. Both are at the edge of the pool and she squatted down to hand the guy some paperwork. Is she a friendly person trying to make a new neighbor feel more welcome? Did she overdue it maybe...I personally don't know the girl. This world is a ****ty place right now and I don't know about the rest of you but I go out of my way to make people feel good...even people I don't know. It's nice to get people to smile for once...

I'm out good luck OP.

Didn't u have sex with a guy with a bf once? We know what u think of other's relationships

**RiceBrah93** · 03-20-2023, 06:48 PM

Originally Posted by 129iq

Didn't u have sex with a guy with a bf once? We know what u think of other's relationships

Sloots always defend other sloots because they see it as a personal attack on them and their behaviour when you call out another sloot

**JayDigital** · 03-20-2023, 06:59 PM

You did the right thing, brah. If you're not ok with your woman behaving in that manner, she needs to know. If she can't abide, time to say goodbye.

I made it very clear to my now wife very early on in our relationship. If she didn't/couldn't respect what I needed in a woman, and the same applies vice versa, we would both just be wasting our time. Good to sort this type of stuff out early and set shiet straight.

Too many "men" these days are too afraid to set it straight in fear of losing the chick, when that's the best thing that could happen, unless you're just looking to play games.

**bananastand11** · 03-20-2023, 07:08 PM

Things that happened.

This.

Pick one.

**friesbruh** · 03-20-2023, 07:10 PM

props for dumping her sloot a**

she clearly disrespected you and crossed the line by running inside and throwing on some skimpy dress to then go and find swimmer guy

she had either hooked up with him already, wanted to, or did it on purpose to p*** you off. no adult is that absent-minded so as to think that wouldnt p*** off their bf.

she belongs to the streets.

**Destor** · 03-20-2023, 07:18 PM

Originally Posted by juice323232

OP, what do you think would have happened if you weren’t there? Imagine how much more forward she would have been with this guy.

I bet she would have pulled her panties to the side and demanded Andrew eat her out right next to the pool

**Hartley110** · 03-20-2023, 07:24 PM

"Our values clearly don't align. This behavior isn't something a potential lifelong partner would think is okay. And your response isn't acceptable and shows a lack of respect, let's pack your things."

**kimm4** · 03-20-2023, 08:15 PM

Originally Posted by 129iq

Didn't u have sex with a guy with a bf once? We know what u think of other's relationships

Yes I had sex with a guy that had a gf (I was single at the time) over 35+ yrs ago. You make it a point to bring it up every time you see me post.

Not sure what your issue is but time to move on...

**whitepaper** · 03-20-2023, 08:49 PM

Did Op post pics?

**RiceBrah93** · 03-20-2023, 09:07 PM

Originally Posted by friesbruh

props for dumping her sloot a**

she clearly disrespected you and crossed the line by running inside and throwing on some skimpy dress to then go and find swimmer guy

she had either hooked up with him already, wanted to, or did it on purpose to p*** you off. no adult is that absent-minded so as to think that wouldnt p*** off their bf.

she belongs to the streets.

Nah she hadn't hooked up with him and she was already wearing that short dress before we came home. What bothers me is her squatting in that dress at the edge of the pool while talking to the guy instead of sitting on a pool bed and closing her legs.

Completely uncessary

**Nicklol** · 03-20-2023, 09:42 PM

Yeah, that sht would be the fukn end of it

I remember a few occasions when I first started dating where the girl was lighting up making small talk with random guys on our date. I think a male waiter before, some outdoor guide for a kayaking place and even some bus driver. She seemed to excited to go out of her way to say thank you to one. Both of them turned out to be big sloots so surprise surprise. Never ignore sht like that.
Also other obvious ones like she mentions how she thinks some famous guy is hot etc.

and her response is definitely a defensive one/ red flag. (if this is even real thread)

**RiceBrah93** · 03-20-2023, 09:48 PM

Originally Posted by Nicklol

Yeah, that sht would be the fukn end of it

I remember a few occasions when I first started dating where the girl was lighting up making small talk with random guys on our date. I think a male waiter before, some outdoor guide for a kayaking place and even some bus driver. She seemed to excited to go out of her way to say thank you to one. Both of them turned out to be big sloots so surprise surprise. Never ignore sht like that.
Also other obvious ones like she mentions how she thinks some famous guy is hot etc.

and her response is definitely a defensive one/ red flag. (if this is even real thread)

I wish I was strong enough to next her at the start when she was showing red flags, I wish all guys are. But at the same time it's hard because some girls put on their best appearances, cooking, cleaning, being sweet to you, buying you chit everyday during the honeymoon phase, so it clouds your judgement

You live and you learn.

**Fred87nc** · 03-20-2023, 10:28 PM

Originally Posted by kimm4

Oh for christ sakes stop grasping. Both are at the edge of the pool and she squatted down to hand the guy some paperwork. Is she a friendly person trying to make a new neighbor feel more welcome? Did she overdue it maybe...I personally don't know the girl. This world is a ****ty place right now and I don't know about the rest of you but I go out of my way to make people feel good...even people I don't know. It's nice to get people to smile for once...

I'm out good luck OP.

yeah you go out of your way to suck off your neighboor to make him feel good because you are a dumb whore, you stupid sloot

**MiscValuePlayer** · 03-20-2023, 10:34 PM

Something tells me "Andrew" is actually named Chad and OP is afraid to admit it because he knows what it means

**immune18** · 03-22-2023, 09:19 AM

Good man, have some reps. More and more men seem to be standing up to this feminist bs and manning up.

**VGTired** · 03-22-2023, 09:33 AM

OP, you're such an insecure soyboy, your gf is right lol.

Imagine getting so butthurt over your girl talking to some dude in a pool.

Only reason I say you don't taker her back now is because she now knows how weak and beta you are. She will have no respect for you forever.

Next time you get lucky to find yourself a chick, grow some balls and man up and stop being such an insecure ****. No self-respecting women will find you attractive.

**FastBack6** · 03-22-2023, 09:35 AM

Originally Posted by RiceBrah93

You think I'm attracting these hoes because of something in me?

People say that but it’s not real. “You attract what you are”

No, you attract people who are interested in how you look. Chicks aren’t swiping profiles going “omg I’m going to match with him, I can tell we have similar insecurities and attachment styles!”

The fact of the matter is, most western women are damaged beyond repair. So it’s likely that if you get to know one, that’s what she’s going to be. You did the right thing here. She clearly liked the dude and was showing you zero respect by going to talk to him. I’d have dumped her ass too if she did it again or refused to see how it was wrong.

**VGTired** · 03-22-2023, 09:39 AM

Originally Posted by OneLegSquats

Very insecure op, she likely lusts for a man who's sure of himself and knows what he wants

This

**FastBack6** · 03-22-2023, 09:56 AM

Originally Posted by yewotm8

Women misbehave because they want you to discipline them, not because they want you to run away like a cuck.

Funny enough, many of the times that I’ve laid the law down on women, they call me an ******* and run off to someone who will put up with their crap.

**FastBack6** · 03-22-2023, 10:16 AM

Originally Posted by RiceBrah93

A girl can be hot and not be retarded at the same time. It's possible

Extremely rare. Hell I’ve never met one. If a girl is a 7+ the phone never stops buzzing, based on my experience. It’s hard mode to keep them interested.

**EagleOfWar** · 03-22-2023, 10:25 AM

Originally Posted by FastBack6

Extremely rare. Hell I’ve never met one. If a girl is a 7+ the phone never stops buzzing, based on my experience. It’s hard mode to keep them interested.

This. Even in the 90’s the super hot girls were always a roller coaster. Dudes hitting on them everywhere they go, they lose interest quickly. Can’t imagine trying to date those same types except with a smart phone and dating apps today. You can be a giga Chad but as soon as they get the least amount of bored they’ll be open to advances from another Chad.

**FastBack6** · 03-22-2023, 10:49 AM

Originally Posted by EagleOfWar

This. Even in the 90’s the super hot girls were always a roller coaster. Dudes hitting on them everywhere they go, they lose interest quickly. Can’t imagine trying to date those same types except with a smart phone and dating apps today. You can be a giga Chad but as soon as they get the least amount of bored they’ll be open to advances from another Chad.

Yea it’s crazy town. I dated a real good looking one for a little while, mid 20’s. She was cute as-is and in shape and when the makeup went on she was a solid 8. Hot.

She’d get random DM’s on like a Tuesday afternoon from some dude she knew years ago or even went to high school with that would say “hey I really miss you” or “we never really hung out in school but I really liked you back then, you want to meet up for drinks tonight?” And this would happen often. There was always someone hitting her up and trying to get it in. One time she even said “all the dudes I wanted back then didn’t want me, but now they sure do!” with a smirk. I knew she was community property then….

Thread: Dumped gf for not being able to respect simple boundaries

Thread Tools

Search Thread

Bookmarks

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions