Dumped gf for not being able to respect simple boundaries

[Babayagawick85]

There are a bunch of red flags here so good job ending it. Now just don't fold when you're horny and got no other pussy.

Rushing to get dressed is one and squatting what else is there? Lol

[Trillical]

Before proceeding to dumping I may have tried to firmly and logically explain why her behavior was unacceptable. I think a lot of the times women subconsciously push boundaries in relationships, and feel happy when they get appropriate push back with the man establishing parameters for acceptable and unacceptable behavior. If it continued after the talk, I would support the break up (because she's irredemably irresponsible/disrespectful, or possibly just not sufficiently attracted/interested in you), but I think it's a bit premature a this stage.

Yeah no, she literally cucked OP. If OP was to still accept her then he's a cuck imo. Clearly OP aint a cuck because he dumped her.

Again OP stick to your guns, Fuk dat hoe bro.

[MEDITATE]

everything about you shouts retard "srs"

[SamIAm1892]

Hey bro, fight fire with fire.

[Barteh]

This. Miscers are too quick to jump the gun on this type of chit. They just want everybody to leave their girlfriends for being SLOOTS.
Also ops gf is young, so she enjoys that little drama. You wont find a young sloot who doesnt. 1 things for sure being too radical & making quick decisions without proper convo is never a good thing.

He tried to have the convo and she completely disrespected him. That's probably an even bigger red flag than her (in the best case scenario) just being too social.

[Austin317]

If you're serious about the breakup, you can't stay there 3 months, that's a ****load of time and she will make your life a living hell. You gotta get out of there.

This.

OP get out or kick her out. There’s only two options there. Srs.

[mike.hunt]

Rushing to get dressed is one and squatting what else is there? Lol

she has a cooter between her legs

what other flags u need brah?

[SelfSerg]

Before proceeding to dumping I may have tried to firmly and logically explain why her behavior was unacceptable.

You know damn well how that would have gone. Most women (and this one qualifies based on her behavior) just get more irrational when you try to explain something logically to them. Women base most of their thoughts on emotion and how something makes them feel. Attempting to have any discussion whatsoever based upon logic or her seeing it from his perspective is going to go badly.

[300Lane1]

Should change your username to CuckRice.

[xbluexhawkx]

mirin

I am laying down the law on my woman right now

[chrsschb]

You dont know how OP actually went about confronting her "trying to have a convo". Ive never legit tried to have a convo & not succeed with a woman, but plenty of times ive gotten a chitty reply like that after being agressive.

I have. A lot. OPs scenario sounds a lot like my ex. Didn't matter how I approached her. Good, bad, nice, mean, didn't matter. It was my fault and she'd try gaslighting me to make it even worse.

[sooby]

Before proceeding to dumping I may have tried to firmly and logically explain why her behavior was unacceptable. I think a lot of the times women subconsciously push boundaries in relationships, and feel happy when they get appropriate push back with the man establishing parameters for acceptable and unacceptable behavior. If it continued after the talk, I would support the break up (because she's irredemably irresponsible/disrespectful, or possibly just not sufficiently attracted/interested in you), but I think it's a bit premature a this stage.

You're better off roping than explaining slooty behaviour logically to a western woman. just lol. just lol at these chit tests and these games. i honestly think it's just better from the start to set your boundaries and what you don't want to be crossed. and what the consequences are. if she don't like it then bye felicia. op literally said he explained it but she saw nothing wrong.

you can forgive one-off slooty behaviour bc women gonna women. As long as she understands and respects what you said and doesn't try to emasculate you for it. and she doesn't do it again. why even bother to salvage it if she doesn't understand and is going to do it again?

[8PointBuck]

0 pics, did not read a word, negged.

[kimm4]

So she squatted in a dress and handed some guy paperwork at the pool.

I'm thinking break ups are usually for things much worse but carry on...

[Jms89]

Andrew, plz

You sound like you are fighting with trust issues. Shouldn't be with a dame if you don't have her under control from the jump. Gotta lay the law down before yall are even dating.

[RagnarChadbrok]

So she squatted in a dress and handed some guy paperwork at the pool.

I'm thinking break ups are usually for things much worse but carry on...

You don’t get it, but we don’t expect you to. Undoubtedly you not getting it is a symptom of being the type of woman who is miscing in her middle age

[kimm4]

You don’t get it, but we don’t expect you to. Undoubtedly you not getting it is a symptom of being the type of woman who is miscing in her middle age

Who are you?

It's ****in stupid...I'd hate to see when a real problem happens.

Jesus christ people grow up...

[Noahbro]

good choice OP sometimes women need to be checked with reality. Too many cuck men think this is normal female behavior and let them walk over them, hence the reason why women think they can get away with this.

[Olympia2018]

Not sure how this has reached 4 pages but to OP




Bro your girl literally was yelling for him when y’all pulled up, and then begged to go to the pool where this shirtless man is lol


And then left your ass inside to go talk to him.


Hell the fuk noooo bro.





It’s one thing if she flirts with other men in front of you,

It’s a whole NEW thing if she leaves you to go flirt with another man while you’re sitting inside with your dik in your own hand while she’s chatting him up at the pool






Make it very clear “woman like you deserve to be single”



And absolutely do not give this girl any more time of day






Coming from a dude who’s been with thousands of woman I can promise you her intentions were not harmless or clueless and she 100% took advantage of you to cheat on you right in front of your own eyes




The whole “you don’t own me” bish if we’re in a “relationship” you do own her, if she feels like you “control, insecure!!” Card homie fukn run backwards from her



That’s some stupid slot sht right there

[RagnarChadbrok]

Not sure how this has reached 4 pages but to OP




Bro your girl literally was yelling for him when y’all pulled up, and then begged to go to the pool where this shirtless man is lol


And then left your ass inside to go talk to him.


Hell the fuk noooo bro.





It’s one thing if she flirts with other men in front of you,

It’s a whole NEW thing if she leaves you to go flirt with another man while you’re sitting inside with your dik in your own hand while she’s chatting him up at the pool






Make it very clear “woman like you deserve to be single”



And absolutely do not give this girl any more time of day






Coming from a dude who’s been with thousands of woman I can promise you her intentions were not harmless or clueless and she 100% took advantage of you to cheat on you right in front of your own eyes




The whole “you don’t own me” bish if we’re in a “relationship” you do own her, if she feels like you “control, insecure!!” Card homie fukn run backwards from her



That’s some stupid slot sht right there

Yep

[Goat_187]

Didnt read thread, but good call op.


cliff on thread? is Andrew balls deep?

[RiceBrah93]

She's doing everything she can to try to get me to stay. Tryna get us to see a relationship therapist now, saying all these "get you back lovey lines". I'm keeping my frame.

FYI she's done disrespectful chit like this in front of other men in the past, not necessarily along the lines of disloyalty but this is not her first strike.

[RiceBrah93]

So she squatted in a dress and handed some guy paperwork at the pool.

I'm thinking break ups are usually for things much worse but carry on...

Lol typical woman logic. She was squatting for minutes while taking to him when she could've sat on a pool bed like a girl with a bf who knows how to carry herself decently.

[Barteh]

She's doing everything she can to try to get me to stay. Tryna get us to see a relationship therapist now, saying all these "get you back lovey lines". I'm keeping my frame.

FYI she's done disrespectful chit like this in front of other men in the past, not necessarily along the lines of disloyalty but this is not her first strike.

I was just gonna point that that if this was just a one time incident it would be very minor to break up over it, but if it's a pattern then it's fine to draw the line here.

[RagnarChadbrok]

She's doing everything she can to try to get me to stay. Tryna get us to see a relationship therapist now, saying all these "get you back lovey lines". I'm keeping my frame.

FYI she's done disrespectful chit like this in front of other men in the past, not necessarily along the lines of disloyalty but this is not her first strike.

Nah, if we’re letting level heads prevail it’s obviously done. If she’s this way as an adult it’s just how she is, exerting effort persuading and policing her is a waste of effort. Girls like her are for fwb, for a gf role find a woman who already knows how to act

The fact is, no matter what she says with teary eyes, it’s not that deep. She tried to cheat on you in front of your eyes, and when you tried to talk about it she defaulted to belittling and gaslighting you. There’s no coming back from that.

That’s not to say you have to be mad, I wouldn’t be. I’d feel bad for her if anything, and tell her we can still be friends and fuk but she’s not what I want in a relationship. Of course that’s if I didn’t live with her, you just need to get her out

[OneLegSquats]

Very insecure op, she likely lusts for a man who's sure of himself and knows what he wants

[FarmersSon]

She's doing everything she can to try to get me to stay. Tryna get us to see a relationship therapist now, saying all these "get you back lovey lines". I'm keeping my frame.

FYI she's done disrespectful chit like this in front of other men in the past, not necessarily along the lines of disloyalty but this is not her first strike.

Just lol at anyone who would consider going to a therapist to save a relationship with someone they're not married to. For clarity, not loling at OP, unless he gives in. I just can't believe such a thing exists.

[kimm4]

Lol typical woman logic. She was squatting for minutes while taking to him when she could've sat on a pool bed like a girl with a bf who knows how to carry herself decently.

Oh for christ sakes stop grasping. Both are at the edge of the pool and she squatted down to hand the guy some paperwork. Is she a friendly person trying to make a new neighbor feel more welcome? Did she overdue it maybe...I personally don't know the girl. This world is a ****ty place right now and I don't know about the rest of you but I go out of my way to make people feel good...even people I don't know. It's nice to get people to smile for once...

I'm out good luck OP.

[tricepertops]

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She said she purposefully handed him the papers irl so she didn't have to exchange numbers and message him details

The pool part could be innocent (in theory) but this part reveals her slooty thinking. Right call OP. The question is how to deal with situations like this when every girl's the same but you want to maintain a relationship for longer than 5 minutes.

[Cite]

She's doing everything she can to try to get me to stay. Tryna get us to see a relationship therapist now, saying all these "get you back lovey lines". I'm keeping my frame.

FYI she's done disrespectful chit like this in front of other men in the past, not necessarily along the lines of disloyalty but this is not her first strike.

Her response to you checking her is toxic af and it's like she tested you to see if you'll respond negatively or ignore her comments. If you had dismissed it, she would have control over you in the relationship. You did the right thing. I know it's tempting to get back with her but just know that sloot gonna do the same or worse later on. These hoes ain't loyal