Guys in their 30’s dating girls in their 20’s

[G1adi4tor]

At a lake by my house, since July.

Ok what were you guys doing at a lake?

[roosky11]

Depends more on the girl than it does me. Age is age. Some girls are bothered by the difference and some aren't. Others who are younger are still openminded without it being annoying. Just got to choose wisely and find a young girl who mentally matured earlier.

[dingler]

Ok what were you guys doing at a lake?

Paddle boarding and cliff jumping, there's a spot where everyone in town goes to watch each other cliff jump. The lake is called causey, outside of Huntsville, Ut.

[EgoActor]

girls in their low 20s don't have enough experience and haven't matured. you won't want to be stuck waiting for them to experience life

[Techriding101]

girls in their low 20s don't have enough experience and haven't matured. you won't want to be stuck waiting for them to experience life

yeah nothing like a 'mature' woman who has experienced 10 years of cawk

[BrightThru2014]

Friends are in their early 30s, I don’t think anyone is dating or seeing anyone above the age of 26 (mostly 24-26).

[Zere0wn]

I'm not at all caught up on societal norms. I'm only caught up on thinking that on a primal level she'll sense that I'm "old" and will always be tempted to stray.

Especially true if she has girlfriends and they all have boyfriends their age. If we ever wanted to hang out as a group I'd be like an outlier and she knows that and might be embarrassed.

I don't think this is the case. often the boyfriends even look up to you, as long as you're not a piece of ****.

[blueberryboy]

Fuuuuuaaarkk I'm 29 and still like girls in the 20-25 range

[sg1976]

im 34. a female 25 and up... I wouldn't even think about any problems.
less than 25, closer to 22 or less... yea that's too young.

22 or less would almost guarantee a break up with that age gap.

[EgoActor]

yeah nothing like a 'mature' woman who has experienced 10 years of cawk

better than a girl who refuses to do any house chores and only pays 1/3 of the bills. zero independent living skills.

[ApathySquared]

How? Where do they meet? Is the guy basically funding a nice lifestyle for her?

Because I don’t want that. I want a girl 22-26 that I have a connection with and who wants to be with me. I don’t want some parasitic business exchange type of relationship.

You can spot the gold diggers a mile away, they're more than happy to let you know what they want. But the majority I've run into seem to have a good head on their shoulder and don't expect the world from you. You run into them anywhere, just do things that girls that age do. I get approached a lot at the gym, so there's some there. Church, work, checkout lines, really anywhere. If you're better than 70% of dudes out there (just be relatively fit, clean, look well dressed, etc) you shouldn't have an issue.

Most of the time it's your own self doubt that's in your way. If there was a guy exactly like you, who saw every situation he was in as as super positive (to the point he was delusional), he'd be pulling the girls you can only dream of by the end of the week.

[Techriding101]

better than a girl who refuses to do any house chores and only pays 1/3 of the bills. zero independent living skills.

lol try men

[Paulrut23]

Don't listen to this moron. You can find women who are well read, educated, and not blinded by groupthink politics.

If you run in civilized circles you'll meet women who are awesome to date.

All the people on this site do is use dating apps - which attract trash of both sexes - quality people don't need to use an app to talk to people because they aren't social autists.

Fukkin retards.

99.99% of every SINGLE GIRL has used a dating app before or in the past...usually the non-trashy ones are the hardest to get on those apps ofc

[northernlights7]

Well, I can tell you that dating women my own age never did anything to assure my success with any of them. Also, I can't imagine how dating a mid-20's woman would be any less fun than dating a mid-30's woman lol

[EnderG60]

From 30-32 I dated anywhere from 19-36. Met my now wife at 33 and shes 2 years older than me.

18-25, Just for banging. They have no idea who they are yet and will annoy the crap out of you if they open their mouth.
25-30, This is the primary age range. Usually human by now and starting to realize they need to settle down but still young and fun.
30-35, Past prime, but have their chit together and usually very chill and happy for attention. Big plus is if they have past the 30 mark without getting fat as crap youre in the clear there.

My coworkers wife is 11 years younger than him, no issues but she is kinda dumb. Girl I "dated" before my wife was 13 years younger than me.

Do what you want as long as its legal.

[1slo5oh]

I was 34 when I met my wife (she was 25)... Honestly the age difference worked out perfectly. I stumbled across her when she had already obtained a College Education , had never been married , no kids, & a few crazy Ex's that kept stalking and trying to get in my kool-aid.

Easy to deal with crazy Ex's... just ignore them and eventually they go away.

Had she been any younger and we may not of connected as well just due to where we were at in life... Had she been older then there is a fair chance it came with significantly more baggage... idk..

I just got lucky and happened to be in the right place at the right time... it was fate.. and you cant fk with fate

[Girthantoklops]

Been dating a girl thats 20 yrs old (I'm 31) for about three months now. Havent spent a dime on her so far. She comes over a few nights a week and brings me dinner and snacks, and we watch movies and phuck. Havent even taken her on an actual date yet come to think of it. Oh and she gives me massages and cleans up little stuff around the house every now and then. And shes a dimepiece. Compared to my last ltr who was a year older than me, this girl is super phucking easy to deal with.

Only annoying thing she does is get moody around that time of the month, and she asks questions about "what are we" and so on. Cant fault her! Oh and my boys break my balls about her being young, and ill take those jokes while they hang out with their sour grapes old ladies lol.

[Azzurri]

I was seeing a hot 20 year old when I was 37 last year.

I mean it's fun for what it is, but to be honest they're too young for a real relationship.

I'd say once they're a year or 2 outta college is probably the best time to get them.

[Noahbro]

I was 25 & and my wife was 20 when we first met. It was a cold approach at my local university which I didn't even go to. lol

[Fang2]

As a man, you are young until you turn 40. Once you're 40, you're slowly decomposing until you die.

[drvillain]

I havent dated my age since high school, so maybe I'm use to it. Mine looks up to me and respects me so its really easy. I can kind of mold her like clay so its nice. Shes interested in my interests or at least supports them.

It also helps that she doesnt have her own social media profiles.


Con: I get sent tiktoks every now and then. Luckily not the worst trash on there

[Polaris]

I'm not much on being in relationships, but the few really serious ones I've been in as an older adult have all been with like 5-10 years younger. Wasn't really an issue. If you think older women aren't often just as vapid, immature, etc. then you may be disappointed. Additionally, there's obviously younger generally = less baggage.

[CellyTech]

I've dated a few different girls in their 20s when my ex and I split. It was no different than being with someone my own age.

[RagnarChadbrok]

I’m 27 and only fuk 18-22, so similar gap. No issues, wouldn’t even consider a girl my age

[OliverHeldens]

I’m 37, have never dated a girl older than 31. I tend to get along best with immature girls in their mid 20s. Age difference doesn’t seem to matter much. I actually seem to get along best with select girls from 20-23 years of age, but only some.

[OliverHeldens]

I was seeing a hot 20 year old when I was 37 last year.

I mean it's fun for what it is, but to be honest they're too young for a real relationship.

I'd say once they're a year or 2 outta college is probably the best time to get them.

A couple weeks ago I had a little vacation fling with a 19 year old, and I’m 37. She was actually the one pursuing me mostly, but she wanted me to play games and chase her and I just wasn’t going to do that. Something about young girls really gets my juices flowing though….

[BrightThru2014]

From 30-32 I dated anywhere from 19-36. Met my now wife at 33 and shes 2 years older than me.

18-25, Just for banging. They have no idea who they are yet and will annoy the crap out of you if they open their mouth.
25-30, This is the primary age range. Usually human by now and starting to realize they need to settle down but still young and fun.
30-35, Past prime, but have their chit together and usually very chill and happy for attention. Big plus is if they have past the 30 mark without getting fat as crap youre in the clear there.

My coworkers wife is 11 years younger than him, no issues but she is kinda dumb. Girl I "dated" before my wife was 13 years younger than me.

Do what you want as long as its legal.

I think this is mostly correct.

[ThaRoostah]

I think its human nature for the most part. Women mature and then decline more quickly then men. Many of them in the age range you are talking about can't get their needs fulfilled by most guys their age.

[seksi]

OP take the black pill. It's all about the face, chemistry comes later.