How do you deal with being alone and isolated all the time?

[Guyfawkes1010]

Honestly ....

I guess by consuming as much information as humanly possible through the internet. I learn about everything from culture to hobbies. Politics, science, gaming, and current events are my favs.

I reflect on it all and explore all the different possibilities that I can imagine. I look for the patterns and connect the dots.

Sometimes the loneliness is crushing. I cry a lot. It hurts. I would have probably eaten a bullet long ago, and actually I tried, but I'm too afraid. Stuck in a hell of my own making.

Its too late now. I'm too old to properly do life. I've passed the ages where its normal and acceptable socially to not have done things like kiss a girl. Or know how to properly interact with woman on dates.

It reminds me of the song




I remember listening to that song as a teen. I guess I sorta knew it would go this way because I was afraid of that being me even back then. But I always told myself I was still young and had time. But before I knew it that was no longer true. And that nightmare became true.

So let this be my warning. Never let life pass you by.

[pyrogen]

Have you though about getting a pet m8? It doesn't mean you have to go overboard like them fur mummy/daddy people

Cats and dogs do lulzy chit all the time. My sister has two meowcats and I have a little giggle every time I see em. Just thinking about them makes me lmao.

Plus if you get a doggo or something you can take them for a walk to keep the both of you healthy

[BLAZEUP]

Have you though about getting a pet m8? It doesn't mean you have to go overboard like them fur mummy/daddy people

Cats and dogs do lulzy chit all the time. My sister has two meowcats and I have a little giggle every time I see em. Just thinking about them makes me lmao.

Plus if you get a doggo or something you can take them for a walk to keep the both of you healthy

but they cost money. even 1 kitty is like an extra 100$/mth. rather spend that on beer

[GaryRidgway]

I dunno. I just do degenerate things by myself.

[Nonsense916]

I can’t


Srs

[Voidgaze]

I find enjoyment in my own company. I have music, my hobbies, gaming, drugs, alcohol lol.

I did the whole barhopping social chit, it's fun but not do it every weekend fun.

I can’t


Srs

[Nonsense916]

I find enjoyment in my own company. I have music, my hobbies, gaming, drugs, alcohol lol.

I did the whole barhopping social chit, it's fun but not do it every weekend fun.

In with my gf rn srs

[Voidgaze]

In with my gf rn srs

[Getter_done]

Thank you for the posts my boyos i appreciate yall.

[blueberryboy]

I find enjoyment in my own company. I have music, my hobbies, gaming, drugs, alcohol lol.

I did the whole barhopping social chit, it's fun but not do it every weekend fun.

Yeah I like having a girl but I can also enjoy my own company

Youtube , music , gaming , reading, walking around, skate boarding ,lifting , watching sports(hockey) , beer , Herb

[Samraiwise]

"What are you thinking, Getter?"



"...thinking about becoming a Buddhist."

[TulsiAdmirer]

Coming to peace with being alone is the ultimate empowerment.

[Kiop]

[crupiea]

By doing what I want when I want to do it. Life couldnt be better.

Damn sure would be nowhere bear as good if someone was hanging around bugging me all day.

Just set goals, have a schedule like a normal person. Thats really the key. Just laying around all day for no reason doesnt give you any direction in life and creates boredom. Doesnt mean you need to be busy and crap all day, hell no, just have some rough schedule you like to stick to.

[Casca]

I like being alone. I'm not a forever aloner. People usually do like me.

I read the foreveralone reddit regularly. There is this thread which is commonly repeated over and over about what other people think of them

https://www.reddit.com/r/ForeverAlon...ne_talk_about/

and how hateful it is when really no one is thinking that, it is them thinking other people are thinking that.

[obmas]

It's called being introverted and there's nothing wrong with it.

Before the pandemic I used to love being around people. But it's complete opposite now. I just prefer to be by myself. It takes too much energy to interact with people I don't like. Especially since everyone is so politically toxic now. It's always Trump this or Biden that or Trudeau blah blah. Just STFU.

Most of my social interactions now come from the Gym. It's great because you're around like minded people, you can acknowledge each other without going into obligated small talk.

[NealIRC]

I like being alone. I'm not a forever aloner. People usually do like me.

I read the foreveralone reddit regularly. There is this thread which is commonly repeated over and over about what other people think of them

https://www.reddit.com/r/ForeverAlon...ne_talk_about/

and how hateful it is when really no one is thinking that, it is them thinking other people are thinking that.

Yo, f- that forum, man. I just started posting there last night, and by this morning, got a 7-day ban from it. Smh.

[Getter_done]

Damn

[Masterchieffer]

Mostly by not being alone and isolated the **** you think ***got

[MinisterOfLust]

I guess im used to it but still sucks once in a while lol, i just dont relate to anybody.

Get a pet.

My cats have treated with more love affection than I could have ever received from my own mother

[Newgirl23]

Hobbies

[JackedieChan]

Realise that youre the coolest person you know

[Ausaric]

You’d think it would get easier as you get older.

[koreannoodles77]

Im an introvert but I can never go full hermit mode. Im very prone to depression and not talking to anyone for long periods of time puts me in a dark place.

Props to you guys that can lone wolf it, I cant

[JIA]

Dude you need to do something about your life's circumstances. We constantly need change and a purpose to strive towards. As men we're naturally competitive and if you don't have an outlet for that you'll live in perpetual misery.

You need to stop isolating yourself, seriously. Need to get a job and get money flowing in to start living your life.

Meetup.com find a group with shared interests.

Social sports clubs.

Join business and skills clubs like toastmasters.

Start lifting again for mental health if you stopped.

Join a crossfit or ju jitsu gym. So many like-minded people there, so many chads and Stacy's that it's unreal.

A big portion of irl friends I met through the misc, but that was before it turned to ****.

Put yourself out there, as you grow older it's easier to turn pessimistic and jaded than it is to remain optimistic.

[davidwills]

Yes i surely not eating this, this available as sample

[havoc00]

drink smoke read tons of articles about stuff i like, watch videos on stuff i like listen to music chill

[akferd]

Get some hobbies and just fuk escorts when your dik wont stay down. There's a million ******** groups around you for every hobby you could imagine.

You could start with an e-bike to get off your @ss and outside. Then start meeting up for group rides

I recently got into dual sport offroad riding. So many people around here are doing that and I had no idea. Legit feel like i've been living under a rock.

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[Jandels]

As most of you know I am a family man. I rarely feel alone. I don't know what prolonged isolation feels like, but I don't think I would like it.

Sometimes I really wish for some alone time to work on my hobbies; music, reading, woodworking, whatever.. but when I actually get alone time I tend to lose all motivation and ldar.

Woodworking just feels empty if I'm not also sternly reminding my oldest not to cut into his vice with the coping saw while shouting at the other one to find my allen keys he took last week.

When I'm not with my boys I'm with my wife mostly but I tend to tune her out.

[Getter_done]

Thanks boyos.