Im dating a single mother but its stressing me what to do?

[onemaisu]

me 30 gf single mother 28
long distance 2hours drive
dating for 5months
we always video call until we go to work everyday and until we meet.
we meet once a week.
she already meet my family


gf do love me and show she doesnt want to lose me so do i. shes very affectionate but a little possesive sometimes.
problem is i dont know what to do.
its giving me stress and emotional anxiety lately. but am afraid to end it yet because may be its my fault.

detail:
she use to give me attention
now shes kinda not. shes always talking and care and worry for me. now she doesnt even talk that much and doing a lost face.
she kinda cold and rude lately. we use to sleep together in a video call now whenever i will sleep she will turn off the camera while connected and it will be like that for 2hours. yes i tried to pretend asleep just to know how long her camera is off.

the problem is she saw my old videos partying with a girls which is 5years ago.
it was effimg 5years ago. she start crying then saying i cant imagine a life without you etc. and yet next day shes cold. and get very angry easily and she also say whatever . she seems losing attraction.
but when i ask her maybe you want some time to think she start crying again and guiltrip me and saying is that our rela is about bla.bla. i mean what the fck she want me to do she wont even talk i cant
even sleep.


she also say that she love me but shes afraid future with me.
she also say shes having a problem financial yet when i said ill help you she guilt trip me.


before that we were fine. but now i feel im losing my mancard. i use to not give a **** about her when shes busy. but lately im being too attached. yet the last thing i want to do is shower her attention.

sometimes i feel she already looking for someone and yet i dont see any sign cause we are always video calling.
something really not right.

its draining me but i love and do care misc.
i just want to know what the **** is wrong.
is this the end?

sry for long post.

[iloveus]

It's common sense not to date single moms lol

Also anytime a woman stresses you out just next her.

[skinnyfat88]

2 hours of video calling?

Waste of time. Y'all are needy and insecure and need to be on your own to grow up.

You've also made her the center of your world and she's subconsciously losing respect for you because of it/

[tripod29]

There is nothing good about this. Instead post a pic of her and then NC. Srs, vry srs.

[skinnyfat88]

I will also point out you titled this thread "I'm dating a single mother..." which implies one of two things.

1. You view this trait as one that brings her value down but are willing to settle because you don't believe you have the value to attract the type of women you want. Or

2. You don't necessarily view her as "less-than," but you think she needs help/saving and by doing so she will change her views that are giving you trouble and create an idealistic dynamic where she is forever grateful to you and give you everything you want in a relationship in return.

Both these mindsets are unhealthy and are unlikely to get you the type of relationship you want. You're either okay with her being a single parent or not but if you treat her differently/change your expectations of her because of it just save yourself time and move on.

[Guyfawkes1010]

Your first mistake is dating a single mother lol. Shes single for a reason.

[Jasonw1178]

She sounds like a borderline cluster B. Run. Don't look back. Just run.