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    20 things to master before you turn 40

    Time management
    Being happy with what you have
    Establishing a regular sleep schedule
    Making small talk at parties
    Finding and sticking to an exercise routine you enjoy
    Finding your career 'sweet spot'
    Negotiating
    Selling yourself
    Saving for retirement
    Investing in relationships
    Saying 'no' to people
    Keeping a clutter-free home
    Practicing hobbies
    Making new friends
    Failing — and getting back up again
    Managing stress
    Lifelong learning
    Cooking
    Knowing your personal values
    Forgiving yourself for your mistakes
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    Originally Posted by MEDITATE View Post
    Time management
    Being happy with what you have
    Establishing a regular sleep schedule
    Making small talk at parties
    Finding and sticking to an exercise routine you enjoy
    Finding your career 'sweet spot'
    Negotiating
    Selling yourself
    Saving for retirement
    Investing in relationships
    Saying 'no' to people
    Keeping a clutter-free home
    Practicing hobbies
    Making new friends
    Failing — and getting back up again
    Managing stress
    Lifelong learning
    Cooking
    Knowing your personal values
    Forgiving yourself for your mistakes
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    Clean, organized and clutter free home is a good one and one that I'm currently trying hard af at.
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    Originally Posted by notbadnotbrad View Post
    Before 40?

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    Clean, organized and clutter free home is a good one and one that I'm currently trying hard af at.
    it's important i think dude. your room/workspace represents your mind
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    I definitely have and practice those, the only one I don't and do not agree with is making small talk at parties.
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    Phew! I thought it was gonna be a list of things I don’t do.
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    Originally Posted by MEDITATE View Post
    weak will detected
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    Time management
    Being happy with what you have
    Establishing a regular sleep schedule
    Making small talk at parties
    Finding and sticking to an exercise routine you enjoy
    Finding your career 'sweet spot'
    Negotiating
    Selling yourself
    Saving for retirement
    Investing in relationships
    Saying 'no' to people
    Keeping a clutter-free home
    Practicing hobbies
    Making new friends
    Failing — and getting back up again
    Managing stress
    Lifelong learning
    Cooking
    Knowing your personal values
    Forgiving yourself for your mistakes
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    it's important i think dude. your room/workspace represents your mind
    Yeah for sure. There's levels to it as well. For example most people can easily understand that dirty dishes piling up for days and food scraps left laying around is disgusting and instantly outs you as being a low class person. What I've noticed is higher class people keep their ish pristine, whether it's their home, their car, their boat or themselves with their grooming and how they dress etc... so while dirty laundry piled up and disorganized closets etc..may not be AS filthy as food scraps it will still out you as being lower class to people who's personal conduct is just at a higher level.
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    Those are nice things to say but reality is that 90% of men will be married with kids and just barely make it to 40 without a bankruptcy and divorce.

    Basically if you can achieve just those two things, you will be ahead of the curve.

    Life isnt the same as an instagram list.

    After 40 and once the kids are bigger and the wife has left you, life gets much better and you can actually focus on these things to improve yourself and your lot in life.

    Basically spending time alone will help you pretty much attain the majority of that list. if you choose not to ever marry of have kids you can get there faster of course but you will have had much less life experience.
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