I (27m) met a beautiful woman (28f) online. Video chatted for a few days and planned out a date. Hit it off really well. We talk about expectations, I'm looking for a relationship and so is she, but she wants to date someone that'll give her a kid eventually, because it's her dream to be a mother. Conversation and atmosphere goes so well, we move from our original date location to the beach, then a hotel and had sex for 2 days straight. She was crazy for me and wanted to be with me all day every day for the next week and a half. Dated for another 2 weeks, she started displaying snarky/irritated behavior, criticizing a lot of my actions, asking if I was mad/upset/okay. I ignored it at first but then I reacted to it. Blamed it on my arrogant, cocky behavior, two days later blamed it on my low emotional intelligence, two days later blamed it on my anger, two days later blamed it on certain quirks that I have. One day I snap and tell her its her, not me, and that she has changed from the person I initially met. She replies that she has lost me already, that i view her as a villain and she has zero chance to redeem herself in my eyes. Also tells me that I was off the rails and that I had a melt down for zero reason.
Everything is about the same for another week. We meet up sporadically and have sex. Call her up one day, ask to hang out the following day that she has off. She says no, wants to rest. Next day I call her midday, she's mad that I didn't message/call her earlier in the day because she wanted to hang out. Later that night I try to explain how the events unfolded, that it wasn't my fault and she's the one that wanted to take the day off according to the phone call a day before. She tells me we're not on the same page, and that its not going to work. I call her and talk for an hour. We say how we feel, she tells me she doesn't feel the same as day one and that she's been chasing that feeling for the past few weeks. Also blames it on my emotional intelligence again, and my quirks (says she is weird when it comes to quirks, that anything could bother her). Says she is going to give dating a break. By the end of the phone call, all the tension is gone and it sounds like the conversations we had on our first date. We hang up, she immediately sends me two texts, acting bubbly and nice with cute blushing emojis. I haven't replied since.
I just want to message her sometime next week and see if she's willing to give it another chance. There is also possible pregnancy as I never used a condom and she took one plan B in that time.
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10-26-2022, 09:22 PM #1
So close to breaking no contact, want to get back with ex
Last edited by brbgoingindry; 10-26-2022 at 09:55 PM.
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