Met this gorgeous attorney girl. She checked off everything I was looking for. Things were going so good. Had our second date Friday night and it went really good.
Today she told me she’s dealing with personal stuff having to do with a previous relationship and that she’s not ready to date, but that I’m a really handsome, smart, funny, etc. guy and that we can be friends. I basically said no to the friendship and wished her luck.
I’m absolutely shattered, misc. it’s been 9 years since I’ve been this broken. Not even my divorce had me like this (mainly cause I initiated that). obviously going NC and going to focus on myself just like I have for a while. This feeling is the worst
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10-03-2022, 04:12 PM #1
Hold me, misc. I was the rebound.
EL PASO★STRONG
8-3-19
Procedures I’ve had. Feel free to ask about them:
- LASIK surgery (2007)
- Septoplasty (2018)
- Gum Graft (2019)
- Gynecomastia/Liposuction (2021)
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10-03-2022, 05:03 PM #2
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10-03-2022, 09:39 PM #4
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10-04-2022, 12:34 AM #5
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10-04-2022, 12:37 AM #6
I hope this helps you opie : Don't dwell on the past, don't fantasize about her or the potential that she had. You don't know that woman, chances are she's as much of sloot than any other.
I got dumped right after the "honeymoon phase" who lasted 4 months, earlier this summer. It sucks because I only have good time to remember about but truth is it was not the real her.
The real her was the girl who cowardly dumped me by text and refused to talk about it on the phone.
Now pick yourself up and move on. It's all we have got to do.
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10-04-2022, 05:28 AM #7
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10-05-2022, 07:57 PM #16
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10-07-2022, 05:09 PM #17
Yes, met her off Hinge. She was displaying high levels of attraction too. I think the reason I was really hurt (I’m doing better now) is because I only met her good side. We had made some plans and really hit it off. So imagine riding that endorphin-high emotion, then from one day to another, it’s dead. Thanks for the encouragement, and yes I know it was only 2 dates. I’ll be fine. Her loss.
EL PASO★STRONG
8-3-19
Procedures I’ve had. Feel free to ask about them:
- LASIK surgery (2007)
- Septoplasty (2018)
- Gum Graft (2019)
- Gynecomastia/Liposuction (2021)
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10-07-2022, 05:32 PM #18
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10-08-2022, 08:19 AM #19
did you get any action, bj or some finger banging?
she dumped you because you didn't make her pussy tingle
she gave you a chance - and you failed to capitalise on this. another guy has since slidden into her DMs
if you had her gagging on your cawk in the back of the car after the first or second date she would still be messaging you
srsSubjecting yourself to self imposed discipline is the surest way to increase the quality of your existence
Never accept defeat
Cobra Kai Crew
The opposite of courage, in our society, is not cowardice but conformity
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10-28-2022, 11:07 AM #20
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11-09-2022, 01:26 PM #22
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12-22-2022, 12:18 PM #23
Update
So we stopped talking for about 1.5 months. I reached out and asked her how her 5K race went in mid-November, added each other on social media. We’d talk every now and then, mainly replying to stories (both of us) or memes. I really was treading carefully.
Last week we started talking more, set up a hangout for this past Tuesday to go see some Christmas lights around downtown (I was surprised she was down). We had a blast, good conversation, dinner. Great personal conversations. I told her the story of my divorce, and she told me some personal stuff too. We opened up. But I’m still fixated on what she told me back in September about her not being ready. And then she has her thing with her dad having cancer (diagnosed in mid-October) which sucks and obviously that can take a lot out of someone mentally. So basically like where I’m at is, “what’s next” or was it just a friendly hangout. You know? She could’ve easily said no to hanging out. But she said yes. I’m not new to this, I know when a conversation is based on interest. No I didn’t hold hands or kiss, since I didn’t know what tf it was, even though it did feel like a date. FuuuuuEL PASO★STRONG
8-3-19
Procedures I’ve had. Feel free to ask about them:
- LASIK surgery (2007)
- Septoplasty (2018)
- Gum Graft (2019)
- Gynecomastia/Liposuction (2021)
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12-26-2022, 07:20 AM #24
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12-27-2022, 02:21 PM #26
Option 1: Ask her if she's ready/interested in actually dating.
Option 2: Setup another hangout and make a move.
Not sure slow-playing with more IG smalltalk makes sense as I think if she claims she's "not ready"," you can get your answer and move on (and still revisit at any time without investing in constant smalltalk via IG).
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12-27-2022, 04:48 PM #27
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01-02-2023, 05:02 AM #28
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01-10-2023, 08:51 AM #29
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01-10-2023, 10:14 AM #30
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