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09-13-2022, 10:49 AM #31
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09-13-2022, 12:59 PM #32
What im describing has never once happened to me. I have never met anyone just out in the wild socially who has ever shown any interest whatsoever. Unlike the vast majority of men I know who have had that happen at least once. If it hasn't that means something is seriously wrong with you. For myself, it is obvious that I am on the extreme low end of looks and height.
The only thing that has happened to me is getting 2 matches over the course of 7 years and swiping on thousands and thousands of women. On pure volume alone, 2 out of thousands and thousands over 7 years is as bad as it gets.
There's nothing to improve. Most men are average and will be average no matter what they do. They will get average results no matter what they do. Yes, if you are below average or have some serious negative like fat or too shy, you should fix those but if you dont have any obvious clear flaws, at that point its just a numbers thing.
Keep in mind the OP isnt even average himself, he's 6 foot tall and had already smashed double digit women even when he claimed to be struggling.Last edited by BigBallsMcgee; 09-13-2022 at 01:14 PM.
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09-13-2022, 01:34 PM #33
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09-13-2022, 08:22 PM #34
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09-13-2022, 09:22 PM #35
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09-14-2022, 12:34 AM #36
Yeah i remember OP used to make several threads a week when he was struggling, so it's good to see that he's doing much better.
Life has been good to me as I get along with my daughter so much better. I was severely depressed when I was first on here as she was challenging and I had to deal with a lot of BS from young guys with dating. Dating men my age is a disaster and never goes past the first date, so I'm starting to think that a relationship is just not for me.Make It a Great Day! Just call me Dusty. It's a Clown 🤡 World out there.
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09-14-2022, 06:21 AM #37
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09-14-2022, 10:07 PM #38
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09-15-2022, 06:06 AM #39
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09-15-2022, 09:26 AM #40
When I was 30 and single I just dated mid-20s girls. A lot of girls 30+ are looking for a guy who's got himself together and wants to get married and have kids in the next couple of years. Or at that age you get some girls who are divorced/coming out of really long term relationships.
I wasn't in as big a rush so it worked better for me to date girls in the 24-27 range, talking to girls much younger than that felt like a chore. I dated girls of all different races black, white, asian, pakistani. You've just got to get yourself out there, I never bothered with any of the apps except Meetup.com, mostly just had a wide social circle and never turned down an invite to a party.
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09-15-2022, 09:32 AM #41
You never date girls in High School or College? That's the easiest time.
There's a big world out there outside the apps, you need to just get out there and speak to some women. There's plenty of guys out there below average in height and looks who end up with half decent girls you just need to have confidence.
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09-15-2022, 09:47 AM #42
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09-15-2022, 10:14 AM #43
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09-15-2022, 10:54 AM #44
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09-15-2022, 07:43 PM #45
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09-18-2022, 07:19 AM #46
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09-19-2022, 12:09 AM #47
Your issue is that you haven’t thought about how to take this one step forward. If you’re as below average as you say you are then there’s no point swiping on thousands of 5/10 hoping that someone is going to overlook you being a 3/10.
You need to focus on fellow 3/10s and then phase 2 is working your way up. There’s no point going about things the same as an average man when you’re not average (same applies to chads). Your average man existing point is true but you don’t build on this.
You’re a problems but not solutions guy.
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09-19-2022, 08:19 AM #48
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09-19-2022, 10:55 AM #49
Thing is, the online numbers game for you, even when swiping on everyone, is futile. Women online have the leverage to match with guys 1-1.5 points above them. This is why even average guys struggle with it. You might as well play the slot machines. It doesn't hurt I guess, but can't be your only strategy.
What you need to do is hone in on real life prospects at your looks level who you slowly build value with. I know you'll just say it won't work, but had to put it out there.
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09-19-2022, 11:48 AM #50
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09-19-2022, 05:01 PM #51
I've been single for 4 years, but have always had at least one girl interested in me.
I even remember in elementary school, older kids and the kids in my grade were bullying me, even the girls made fun of me.
But there was one girl who had a crush on me.
Have ALWAYS had some girl interested in me. Always.
But it's usually not most of them.
So, I guess I'm just average.Catholic
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11-03-2022, 04:48 AM #52
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11-04-2022, 08:15 PM #53
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11-04-2022, 10:22 PM #54
What's marriage for?
Marraige was an alliance between families for political/economic purposes
Children were raised by our ancestors together as tribes.
Originally, to get married was for financial or political gain.
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11-20-2022, 05:07 PM #55
Its funny you mention height in the spoiler. I've been 6'0 since like 10 grade, and re-meeting women throughout life, they all ask "did you get taller". Its the most bizzare wild ****, and its happened at least 15+ times in my life, so Im wondering if women just rank certain men in "manlet status" if the attraction isnt there. Very bizzare, but like I said, I've heard it that many times lmao
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