Insane ego problem with girl

[smashedurgfx10]

Texting some sloot on hinge
She's got that passive b*tchy attitude that girls think men like but we don't

Decide to try and fuk anyway cos she's still a 7/10

Say let's get coffee she says OK
Get number
Text back and forth for a bit, then she has to work

We never confirmed the place or time but we agreed a day (3 days out)

I text her a couple more times but she asks noting about me. Closed answers. I'm thinking I won't bring up the coffee cos she acting like an entitled sloot

Day comes around I thought fuk it - say just checking we're still on for today.

Says she has plans, cos i never confirmed with her (we confirmed the day) i say OK cool.

Then she comes back with these long paragraphs about she doesn't wanna sound rude but her standards are that the date is confirmed x days out, preferably AT THE TIME, blah blah blah, and how she has a line of guys who will EXCEED her standards lmao. I call her unrealistic and she flips out.

I say that if yoi wanted to know what's up up could have just texted me - i took the initiative to suggest coffee and a day, all you had to do was bring it up. She goes into another rant about standards. I wish her all the best and deleted number


Jist for clarity- I normally confirm the date plans in advance. Always in fact. But she was making no effort in convo with me so i didn't bother. Now it's apparently she wasn't making effort cos I didn't confirm the plans.

But what tf is with this kind of attitude? I've never encountered it this badly before. We've never met. I owe her nothing. She wants me to read her mind and perform to her standards.. super weird.

[Murph0408]

oh please. do you even want to be around that in person. i don't care what she looks like at that point. i am not here to work for you, i am not your direct report. this is an equal thing we're doing. she sounds insufferable.

[smashedurgfx10]

oh please. do you even want to be around that in person. i don't care what she looks like at that point. i am not here to work for you, i am not your direct report. this is an equal thing we're doing. she sounds insufferable.

No I absolutely don't

I think this is the first time a girl has flaked ok me and I didn't feel 1 shred of regret.. I'm genuinely happy she has made her personality so glaring

I just don't understand how someone can have such an insufferable ego?

What made me lol is I was expecting (as an early 20 something girl, who is decent looking) her to just NC me after I said OK cool, to her not wanting to hang out. I was prepared for that.

But then she launches into a massive spiel with really long paragraphs about how I didn't meet her standards

This surely means she was pretty hurt/upset I didn't contact her lol.

[Evolutionary1]

run

[blueberryboy]

I just don't understand how someone can have such an insufferable ego?

By having a long list of expendable simps like you that want to take her out.

Bro...you didnt even meet this girl. I wouldnt let a girl i havent smashed or even met throw me off in the slightest...& even if i did they still wouldnt

From my experience you want to exchange a bit of banter up until the date.
For all she knew you would flake.

[blueberryboy]

The only thing that would discourage my persuit on her tbh was when she mentioned what other dudes do in accordance to her

[Voidgaze]

Decide to try and fuk anyway cos she's still a 7/10

That was your fist mistake.

I text her a couple more times but she asks noting about me. Closed answers.

Should've went NC here.




She only acts like that because she probably does have a line of dudes waiting and they all are validating her chit tier behavior.

The only thing that would discourage my persuit on her tbh was when she mentioned what other dudes do in accordance to her

So you would've put up with the passive aggressive bitch attitude and one sided conversation?

[FAPhaggot]

Fuk her. No one is worth putting up with that level of chit just to get a coffee.

[NMS3]

Any attitude from some sloot on a dating app is an easy ghost/un-match

[blueberryboy]

That was your fist mistake.



Should've went NC here.




She only acts like that because she probably does have a line of dudes waiting and they all are validating her chit tier behavior.



So you would've put up with the passive aggressive bitch attitude and one sided conversation?

True ghost her

She could have confirmed the date with you

Next her bro

[FAPhaggot]

Ask her why shes still single if she has a line up of top tier men. then lol and block her

Ho lee fuk, this would have been the sloot finisher.

[alltrapbrah]

Dear lord she must be hot.

[Evolutionary1]

Ask her why shes still single if she has a line up of top tier men. then lol and block her

rekt it's over

[chrsschb]

The bitchy attitude and lack of communication would be an immediate NC. Stop acting desperate, they don't care about you.

Ask her why shes still single if she has a line up of top tier men. then lol and block her

And this.

[smashedurgfx10]

For everyone saying I could have said 'xyz' to ether her - yes I could have done

But I just wanted to play it cool.
Insulting her would just make it look like I was more upset than I really was.

The bitchy attitude and lack of communication would be an immediate NC. Stop acting desperate, they don't care about you.



And this.

Aware me on how I acted desperate

I literally say 'OK cool' when she said she had plans

[BullittEV]

For everyone saying I could have said 'xyz' to ether her - yes I could have done

But I just wanted to play it cool.
Insulting her would just make it look like I was more upset than I really was.



Aware me on how I acted desperate

I literally say 'OK cool' when she said she had plans

nah she was a entitled kent

it would be funny to contact her again like nothing happened or have a friend message her saying you thought theyd get along

[skinnyfat88]

IMO it's good she has high standards/expectations/doesn't want to meet guys who don't "meet" that or interest her enough because people should value their time.

What's bullchit is she thinks it's 100% up to you to communicate all of the confirmations and refuses to take the initiative to do that herself.

[dusky99]

Brad Pitt Rule. Would a girl flake on Brad Pitt?

[smashedurgfx10]

What's bullchit is she thinks it's 100% up to you to communicate all of the confirmations and refuses to take the initiative to do that herself.

completely.

aa soon as she said this i knew it was game over. cos i was with a girl before who behaved the same way and it was literal hell.

[miscallday12]

beg her for forgiveness, smash and dash = profitz