I Really Wanna Lose 3 Pounds

[katya422]

No I can’t cook won’t cook. They are just weird they don’t even really eat meals together but everyone just kind of gets their own food. Today I was starved since lunch so finally at like 9:30 pm I toasted a croissant lmao. Then later they made a frozen pizza. I’m going to lose tons more weight here lol

There are tons of snacks btw in the pantry but nobody eats them so I feel rude asking for them lol

I imagine that your hosts are under the seemingly false impression that a woman nearly 50 years old is capable of feeding herself.

Imagine the cheek. They probably think that you can do other normal grown up things like bathing and laundry.

You should come clean and let them know that you are helpless and need to be fed or else you will perish of starvation. lol

[Silencespeaks]

118.8 lbs

At least I’m not losing anymore it’s stable so that’s good.

[Silencespeaks]

I imagine that your hosts are under the seemingly false impression that a woman nearly 50 years old is capable of feeding herself.

Imaging the cheek. They probably think that you can do other normal grown up things like bathing and laundry.

You should come clean and let them know that you are helpless and need to be fed or else you will perish of starvation. lol

Um I think it’s normal to offer your guests food or to go out to eat together etc. I’m a guest so no I don’t feel comfortable just going in their pantry and taking whatever.

[RocknRollMuscle]

Made it to 1200 calories today so at least I’ll survive.

One Gatorade

Two burgers

One popsicle

yeah good luck with that calorie restriction method. That's worked so well with everyone. Who was metabolic adaption, weight regain when you go back to normal calories?

funny if OP had gone carnivore from day 1, they'd lost that 3lbs and more by now. And felt 1000x healthier. #lowinsulinnotcalories

[katya422]

Um I think it’s normal to offer your guests food or to go out to eat together etc. I’m a guest so no I don’t feel comfortable just going in their pantry and taking whatever.

IME it depends on who you are visiting and for how long.

Short visit? Like a weekend?

Yes, there will probably be some sort of plan around eating at least 2 or 3 times.

Staying more than a couple of days?

Might expect to eat together once a day.

I'm sure your hosts don't expect you to just not eat any food unless they put it in your hand and tell you it is okay for you to eat now.

My in-laws habit has been:

- late breakfast
- early dinner
- snack at night

Never any expectation to "eat together" outside of dinner, and not even always that.

[Legz422]

Um I think it’s normal to offer your guests food or to go out to eat together etc. I’m a guest so no I don’t feel comfortable just going in their pantry and taking whatever.

For me it would depend on who I'm staying with. My moms beach house I can eat whatever I want. If it's something I'm not sure about I'd ask. I take a lot of food with me when I go there so don't normally have to go into her snacks. If I had to stay at my brother or sisters I'd ask first. I wouldn't just go in their pantry and start eating their stuff.

Next time you have to go stay there just load up on snacks and stuff to take with you.

If I had someone staying here I'd tell them to feel free to eat whatever and make sure they were fed well.

[kimm4]

When I have people over my house staying for visits I always tell them to help themselves to any food/drink they want. Fridge/pantry feel free to help yourself.

[kimm4]

I imagine that your hosts are under the seemingly false impression that a woman nearly 50 years old is capable of feeding herself.

Imaging the cheek. They probably think that you can do other normal grown up things like bathing and laundry.

You should come clean and let them know that you are helpless and need to be fed or else you will perish of starvation. lol

LOL'd!

[Silencespeaks]

For me it would depend on who I'm staying with. My moms beach house I can eat whatever I want. If it's something I'm not sure about I'd ask. I take a lot of food with me when I go there so don't normally have to go into her snacks. If I had to stay at my brother or sisters I'd ask first. I wouldn't just go in their pantry and start eating their stuff.

Next time you have to go stay there just load up on snacks and stuff to take with you.

If I had someone staying here I'd tell them to feel free to eat whatever and make sure they were fed well.

Yeah next time we go to the store I will get groceries for myself but it will still be weird for me to eat delicious snacks while they are eating a bowl of plain rice lmao

It’s okay anyway I’m just glad to see them and spend time with them because I had not seen them for a full year.

[Silencespeaks]

When I have people over my house staying for visits I always tell them to help themselves to any food/drink they want. Fridge/pantry feel free to help yourself.

Yeah same and we go out to eat. Here we just stay home and eat a bowl of plain rice lol

[Silencespeaks]

Made it to 1150 cals today

Breakfast 2 small slices of banana bread

Lunch Shake Shack fries and chicken bites at the mall

Dinner none

[Silencespeaks]

yeah good luck with that calorie restriction method. That's worked so well with everyone. Who was metabolic adaption, weight regain when you go back to normal calories?

funny if OP had gone carnivore from day 1, they'd lost that 3lbs and more by now. And felt 1000x healthier. #lowinsulinnotcalories

Please read all 33 pages before commenting sir.

[Silencespeaks]

These are my daily calories since Sunday when I arrived at my family’s house.

1415

748

1074

1351

1399

1152

[Cass40]

Enjoy your burgers! lol



Yeah, 4-5 days at the beach house with my mom is more than enough for me. I couldn't do weeks.



What were you trying to get to? Are you back to lifting?

I am trying to get to 113lbs.

I was trying to get back to lifting but my schedule is crazy. I picked three day full body routine because I thought if I miss a day, it's still full body. So some weeks I lift three days, then two days, and last week zero.

[Cass40]

And SS..that family wants u gone that's why they're not feeding u

[Silencespeaks]

And SS..that family wants u gone that's why they're not feeding u

No I actually just told her I’m probably leaving soon and she begged me to stay longer.

[kimm4]

And SS..that family wants u gone that's why they're not feeding u

LMAO!!

Come over SS I ordered chinese for dinner. Getting ready to eat now LOL...

I made strawberry shortcake for dessert!!

[Adam16121]

This thread really opened my eyes to the struggles of female miscers. I can lose 3 pounds in one visit to the toilet, but this challenge is 20 pages worth of conversion to others.

[4ea]

losing 3 lbs is easy, you can do that in a couple weeks

[Silencespeaks]

LMAO!!

Come over SS I ordered chinese for dinner. Getting ready to eat now LOL...

I made strawberry shortcake for dessert!!

Omgggggg that sounds amazing

I’m starving srs. I’m going to try to sneak to the kitchen tonight for some cake.

[Silencespeaks]

Okay I’m gonna go for it. Wish me luck misc

[Cass40]

Okay I’m gonna go for it. Wish me luck misc

Good luck that one of the never eating fatties is not stealing cake the same time.

[miscallday12]

Okay I’m gonna go for it. Wish me luck misc

fat fuq

Good luck that one of the never eating fatties is not stealing cake the same time.

god u are so beautiful

[Silencespeaks]

Good luck that one of the never eating fatties is not stealing cake the same time.

Mission failed

They are still awake. If they finish that cake before I get to it I’m going to rage.

[Silencespeaks]

SUCCESS

I snagged two small pieces

[Legz422]

I am trying to get to 113lbs.

I was trying to get back to lifting but my schedule is crazy. I picked three day full body routine because I thought if I miss a day, it's still full body. So some weeks I lift three days, then two days, and last week zero.

Sometimes you just can't fit it in. Just try to get back to it this week.

I was 129.2 which was a relief. I thought I'd be higher because of beach weekend and even after I got home I ate some junk. I had gotten chips and tostitos for my son while he was here watching my doge and there were a lot left. I should have made him take them with him when he left but I ended up eating them. lol I also didn't do any cardio this week so pretty happy with where I'm at. Now time to get serious and get back to 125.

Mission failed

They are still awake. If they finish that cake before I get to it I’m going to rage.

SUCCESS

I snagged two small pieces

lol So they don't eat real meals but eat cake?

[DustinTheHuss]

SUCCESS

I snagged two small pieces

Haha

I'm going to see my Dr. as it's hard for me to even get down to 2,000 calories a day. I'll have around 2,300. I wake up hungry and I'm trying to eat more fruits and veggies raw. She increased one of my medications back because I tried decreasing it but got severe anxiety for 6 weeks so I said I'll take weight gain over being miserable 24/7. There's another psych med that causes weight loss I may need to add in. This is such a nightmare. I don't know why it's so hard to eat 2,000 calories when I ate 800 calories a day a year ago?!!! I have increased my exercise, too, though.

[rwatson123]

To drop 3 pounds, you need to create a deficit of 10500. So everyday, decrease your calories by 350 per day on average. If you're eating 3000 calories a day, drop to about 2700

[Silencespeaks]

118.4 lbs

I’m STARVINGGGGGGG

[Legz422]

118.4 lbs

I’m STARVINGGGGGGG

Go out and get food! lol