How many kids do you have?

[Silencespeaks]

0...only low IQ people are having kids right now.

I don’t think it’s about IQ but about people who are willing to just go for it regardless of all the risks and burdens.

If you think through the risks and burdens then you’ll never have kids. To have kids you have to just YOLO it and assume everything will be fine in a bluepill way.

[Silencespeaks]

get some new material

It’s not material it’s my actual life.

[Silencespeaks]

None. I’m useless as a female

I may adopt in the future, like an older kid/special needs that’s been in foster homes and needs a permeant home. But I would have to be in a place I can give them a lot of time.

Still don’t know if you’re trolling but if you’re not then I think you need counseling srs. You sound really depressed lately. Counseling helped me a lot during my divorce because it helps you focus on yourself and sort out your feelings. Take care of yourself srs.

[snailsrus]

Still don’t know if you’re trolling but if you’re not then I think you need counseling srs. You sound really depressed lately. Counseling helped me a lot during my divorce because it helps you focus on yourself and sort out your feelings. Take care of yourself srs.

Im joking about the useless as a women thing though I feel like it. I mean I lost a marriage because I can’t do the thing I’m biologically supposed to be able to do…

I’m serious about wanting to adopt though, but my health would have to be better. I go to counseling, I have a therapists that works with people with chronic illness/terminal. And I do aa meetings everyday, work with my sponsor once a week and sponsees. I wanted a cancer support group locally but they closed them all down because of Covid

[Silencespeaks]

Im joking about the useless as a women thing though I feel like it. I mean I lost a marriage because I can’t do the thing I’m biologically supposed to be able to do…

I’m serious about wanting to adopt though, but my health would have to be better. I go to counseling, I have a therapists that works with people with chronic illness/terminal. And I do aa meetings everyday, work with my sponsor once a week and sponsees. I wanted a cancer support group locally but they closed them all down because of Covid

See this confuses me because I could’ve sworn you used to post about you wanting a child in your marriage but your husband being against it because he already had three and didn’t want any more. Am I just confused?

[maori-rap]

Zero. Never will have kids. It is just not in my dimension.

I'm okay with just having a niece and nephew.

[Samraiwise]

One and precious.

[tehgosu]

that we know of?

[DustinTheHuss]

One girl

[KathleenRyan]

None. Not sure if I'll regret it, especially once my parents pass. I feel like I'm too jaded to have a child, I don't think I could raise them in a healthy way with modern clown world.

Also, the honest truth is even if I wanted a kid I don't know if I'd want my current GF to be the one I have them with. I'm complacent enough with out relationship as just the two of us, but obviously throwing in the variable of having/raising a child changes a lot, and I don't think that would translate well with her.

[mgftp]

Zero.

Always thought I'd "mature" into wanting some but still haven't and I am 40. I could see the appeal of having adult children when I am in my 60s/70s assuming they turned out well, but the thought of raising them for 18 years still seems like an absolute nightmare to me. Luckily my wife and I continue to be on the same page.

[Polaris]

Zero, and don't want them. I've definitely been strongly pressured to by some exes, but fortunately haven't caved.

[usera]

I have 5 Kiddos from 11-20 years old. They are not for everyone, but could not imagine happiness without them. Their accomplishments dwarf the happiness that you glean from anything that you did on your own. They drive you nuts sometimes, make you worry like you have never worried before and stress you out when they are in a crisis, but the joy my kids have given me has outpaid the sacrifices 100 to 1.

Seeing my boys grow into men, real men that work, care about their sisters and mother, enjoy life and don't do tik tok dances is all I will need for the rest of my life to be happy. Your heart grows after having kids but make sure that you and your lady are 100% on the same page, my wife and I always wanted them, if either one of us was wavering even a tiny bit, some of those tough days would have been unbearable.

[DesiredUserphag]

Zer0 and I'll never have them. SRS. Can't imagine a quicker way to wanting to blow my brains out. I've spent my whole life trying to get rid of BS/Drama/Stress/etc and kids would destroy that.

[Silencespeaks]

Zero. Never will have kids. It is just not in my dimension.

I'm okay with just having a niece and nephew.

I love my nieces and nephews but at the same time they annoy me so much and I don’t like being around them for more than a couple of hours. They’re just so needy and draining.

Everyone says it’s different with your own kids but idk what if it’s not? What if I only enjoy being around my kids for 2 hours but instead I have to deal with them 24/7 lmao.

[Silencespeaks]

None. Not sure if I'll regret it, especially once my parents pass. I feel like I'm too jaded to have a child, I don't think I could raise them in a healthy way with modern clown world.

Also, the honest truth is even if I wanted a kid I don't know if I'd want my current GF to be the one I have them with. I'm complacent enough with out relationship as just the two of us, but obviously throwing in the variable of having/raising a child changes a lot, and I don't think that would translate well with her.

Yeah clown world worries me too so much. It’s easy to isolate them from clown world when they are small and you can still control everything they do. But once they are teenagers they will make their own decisions and will be heavily influenced by friends and social media no matter what you do.

What are the odds they get through that clown exposure unscathed without any issues and without tattoos etc? Very low odds I think.

[snailsrus]

See this confuses me because I could’ve sworn you used to post about you wanting a child in your marriage but your husband being against it because he already had three and didn’t want any more. Am I just confused?

Ive told you like 6 times he always wanted another kid. We had names picked out. I was hesitant because of his kids being jealous/he had three kids and four seems like a lot of kids to take care of. He’s literally trying to find a chick that wants a baby asap cause he wants a daughter. He only has boys and isn’t getting any younger

[mgftp]

Ive told you like 6 times he always wanted another kid. We had names picked out. I was hesitant because of his kids being jealous/he had three kids and four seems like a lot of kids to take care of. He’s literally trying to find a chick that wants a baby asap cause he wants a daughter. He only has boys and isn’t getting any younger

What kind of deranged man wants a daughter?

[Polaris]

What kind of deranged man wants a daughter?

Well not to mention, what if he does have more and it/they all end up being boys? He sounds like a real moron tbh.

[KathleenRyan]

Yeah clown world worries me too so much. It’s easy to isolate them from clown world when they are small and you can still control everything they do. But once they are teenagers they will make their own decisions and will be heavily influenced by friends and social media no matter what you do.

The issue isn't limited to just getting them to grow up aware of, and untainted from clown world. The problem is raising a kid by traditional standards to be a "good person" these days will actually hinder them in real world applications/life. If I raised a child to be a critical thinker, work hard, take responsibility, etc - it would actually hold them back and just make them aware of the misery of the world as they got older.

That's what kills me. I can't see any way out of it.

[SpermWhale]

2, boy and a girl

[MyBaddBrah]

1 daughters.jpg soon

[DustinTheHuss]

What kind of deranged man wants a daughter?

Most men I know adore their daughters. They end up being daddy's little girls. Most men don't think like Miscers about sloots and stuff. They just don't understand TikTok and Snapchat and don't know about OnlyFans. I had to explain OnlyFans to a bunch of teen Moms and they looked like they were going to faint.

The issue isn't limited to just getting them to grow up aware of, and untainted from clown world. The problem is raising a kid by traditional standards to be a "good person" these days will actually hinder them in real world applications/life. If I raised a child to be a critical thinker, work hard, take responsibility, etc - it would actually hold them back and just make them aware of the misery of the world as they got older.

That's what kills me. I can't see any way out of it.

I've seen people try to protect their kids from clown world by homeschooling and that just backfires LIKE CRAZY. The kids finally go to a regular high school and go wild drinking, doing drugs, shoplifting, promoting liberalism, etc.

I sent mine to a Christian school and now she's questioning Christianity. Sigh. Well I did the same in college and stopped going to church or thinking about religion and fell into the whole "I want to look good in a bikini" and drive a fancy car hole and then came back to religion when I got pregnant. It was just an empty materialistic mindset that our world promotes. So you never know what seeds you plant for your children.

But mine is WAY more stable than her homeschool friends in terms of partying. She has a steady boyfriend whereas a lot of the other girls sloot around. Or so I know. I could totally be in the dark as I had no clue that the outside refrigerator was full of alcohol for kids to take. I thought it was all for my husband and his alcoholism. I couldn't figure out why so many of the teens were over at our house.

-Dumb me.

Their parents are way more strict I found out and I'm in my own world on my computer or watching TV so I didn't see them sneaking the alcohol out from the garage. Facepalm.jpg

[Cass40]

Ive told you like 6 times he always wanted another kid. We had names picked out. I was hesitant because of his kids being jealous/he had three kids and four seems like a lot of kids to take care of. He’s literally trying to find a chick that wants a baby asap cause he wants a daughter. He only has boys and isn’t getting any younger

Yes I remember you saying this. SS is stubborn and just never admits she's wrong about anything.

[KathleenRyan]

Their parents are way more strict I found out and I'm in my own world on my computer or watching TV so I didn't see them sneaking the alcohol out from the garage. Facepalm.jpg

You out here miscin with a bunch of autists while teenagers are getting yucky with your outdoor fridge lol.

Parenting is always a "best guess", "best effort" type of deal I guess. Like you said, there's no guarantees how they'll turn out since they have a mind and life of their own, but can only do your best as a parent to guide them.

I just don't know how to "guide" them in the world today since nothing makes any sense anymore. Do you teach them to be a clown and fit in, which would objectively make them a chitty/weak person - Or do you teach them old world values, make them a stand up individual, which would ostracize them and likely leave them frustrated with their lazy/degenerate peers?

[jamalfudge]

Ive told you like 6 times he always wanted another kid. We had names picked out. I was hesitant because of his kids being jealous/he had three kids and four seems like a lot of kids to take care of. He’s literally trying to find a chick that wants a baby asap cause he wants a daughter. He only has boys and isn’t getting any younger

So much WTF in one post

[Silencespeaks]

Yes I remember you saying this. SS is stubborn and just never admits she's wrong about anything.

O rly

[GuineaDago585]

Hopefully none

[Titansfan08]

More than you can afford pal

[Legz422]

Yes I remember you saying this. SS is stubborn and just never admits she's wrong about anything.

Many of us remember what SS remembers.