Got my esthetician‘s Snapchat (33k reps)

[chivasregal]

Got a facial this week, we vibed super well. Was making her laugh and she was making me laugh. Talked about IF, gym, my surgery, sports. So at the end i said “hey I’m trying to meet people with positive vibes and you seem cool, can I get your Snapchat?” (Yes I use Snapchat. I think it’s a fantastic tool for getting numbers). She was like “yeah yeah of course!”

She’s super pretty. But idk how to proceed. I sent her a message about how i don’t have IG (she had asked if i have one) and how my friends are trying to get me to get one. She replied, but then I kinda froze and left her on read. From experience, leaving women on read can actually be a good thing, but it can obviously backfire.
Knowing she’s going to probably give me another facial next month, should I just keep the friend vibe going getting to know her? Or try to hang out and make a move? Normally I wouldn’t ask that, but since I know I’ll see her again in a business setting — similar to dating a coworker or something — idk how to proceed.

[Ninshark]

but it can obviously backfire.
Knowing she’s going to probably give me another facial next month, should I just keep the friend vibe going getting to know her? Or try to hang out and make a move? Normally I wouldn’t ask that, but since I know I’ll see her again in a business setting — similar to dating a coworker or something — idk how to proceed.

Everything will backfire if you're not close yet. Nobody likes it, it's either a dick move (toxic) or a pussy move (cowardly).

as for what you should do - both. keep talking to get to know her AND make a move to hangout and get her to know you.

[Tuga88]

If what you've said is accurate then this woman is interested.

If you spend a month "snapchatting" with her and dont make a move she will think you are a beta ******* and friendzone your ass.

Or you could make a move and smash.

Don't be a pussy.

And if it doesn't work out so what?

Plenty of other women out there giving facials.

[elterrible987]

OP is a straight guy with an esthetician? wut



anyway idk a lot of those sloots will use those sites to promote their businesses, so she may just want to get as many followers on their as possible. even if she never talk to you again, just having higher instigram followers will give her business a look of legitimacy.

You just need to keep it flirty and get her to meet in person on a date, then you know for sure shes interested. you should make your move soon op

[LtGoose]

OP is a straight guy with an esthetician?

No such thing. OP is talking about a dude

[Legz422]

Why do you guys make everything so difficult?! If you like her, ask her out. If she says yes, great! If she says no, then at least you didn't waste much time and on to the next.

[iloveus]

1. Get her TikTok

2. Get her Twitter

3. Get her IG

4. Get her Kakao

5. Get her NetScape/AOL

6. Get her Reddit

7. Get her 4Chan

8. Get her WhatsApp

9. Get her ********

Next time you see her then get her phone number

[skinnyfat88]

The social media slowplay game has never interested me.

Be direct and not afraid to fail once in a while.

[iBryan]

women know within 5 minutes if they want to date you, you playing the slow game is just wasting time and energy. It's best to be straight forward and direct from the very beginning.

[adamsz]

"she" gave you a facial?

uhhh ok bro

u aint gotta lie to kick it

[DustinTheHuss]

The social media slowplay game has never interested me.

Be direct and not afraid to fail once in a while.

It's awkward if he sees her regularly and she turns him down.

If he went just went one time, then he could easily ask her to hang out.

[chivasregal]

Thanks for your replies. So i probably won’t see her again since she does facials during the morning on weekdays and I only went during the morning this week cause I’m off from work.

Been messaging her on SC. We average about 2-3 messages a day. I’m not trying to get to know her through texting. I know it needs to be done in person. I’ll pull my move and I’ll update as soon as I do.

[NitrogenWidget]

Divorced from with you had a restraining order against because you used to get your ass kicked by her.

Then you grew some tits

LMFAO

this.
maybe if he was on tv or something getting a facial seems like part of the job description but a dude getting one because he wants to?

just lol. she probably thinks he like dudes.

[dolvioblue]

Thanks for your replies. So i probably won’t see her again since she does facials during the morning on weekdays and I only went during the morning this week cause I’m off from work.

Been messaging her on SC. We average about 2-3 messages a day. I’m not trying to get to know her through texting. I know it needs to be done in person. I’ll pull my move and I’ll update as soon as I do.

Don’t men usually give women facials?