I think my GF is cheating on me, but I'm not sure?

[Dennis71]

So basically, correct me if I'm wrong of course, she's developed feelings for him...

I thought things may be getting better since she has been basically ignoring him and spending more quality time with me??

Okay. And when you leave?

[Mercworx]

Dont know how old you are but you should have just ended things when she left. 6 months is a long time. Not when you're 38 but it is in your 20s.


End the relationship and move on and after a few months you'll be over this

[Zebarbu]

what does "all over him" mean? When you say "she didn't introduce me", do you mean that when you all were hanging out a few days ago, she just said you were her friend and left out the fact that she's in a relationship?

"All over him" as in touching him, blatantly flirting, laughing, and chasing him around the flat. She even grabbed his had as he was walking away and he was pulling away... all this right in front of me.

"She didn't introduce me" because I already knew about him before I even got here. When he saw me he shook my hand. None of her flat mates were aware I was coming.

[Zebarbu]

Okay. And when you leave?

I leave on the 17th

[skinnyfat88]

They aren't hanging out regularly, like I said, they are avoiding eachother right now.

This is completely irrelevant so long as she goes through with moving into a flat with him once you leave.

[JustMoved24]

Even if she’s not cheating you don’t trust her.

Relationship is over

Give her a goodbye fuk and go NC

Move on

[CirezD]

Even if she’s not cheating you don’t trust her.

Relationship is over

Give her a goodbye fuk and go NC

Move on

This. You don’t need anything else.

[rocketfish]

the fuk, she "met someone" means she been having sex with someone.

for your sanity, just end it before you get hurt even worse

[Ninshark]

"All over him" as in touching him, blatantly flirting, laughing, and chasing him around the flat. She even grabbed his had as he was walking away and he was pulling away... all this right in front of me.

"She didn't introduce me" because I already knew about him before I even got here. When he saw me he shook my hand. None of her flat mates were aware I was coming.

that's pretty strange, even perks my ears up even though I'm a pretty lenient person. How well do you know her? Does she do this to everyone? Like how does she act around her close female friends?

[Zebarbu]

that's pretty strange, even perks my ears up even though I'm a pretty lenient person. How well do you know her? Does she do this to everyone? Like how does she act around her close female friends?

We've been together for 4 years.

No, she only did this with him.

As soon as she told me she 'met someone' I knew it was him, I even knew his name.

[ChillyWetWilly]

We've been together for 4 years.

No, she only did this with him.

As soon as she told me she 'met someone' I knew it was him, I even knew his name.

fuking hell man. Please breakup, this is actually hard to read. I'm physically angry. She's cheating 100%.

Best of luck. Remember, it'll be okay. The breakup will be very hard at first since it's a 4 year relationship, but whatever you do, don't get back with her. I've made that mistake before. Just move on.

[pengh]

posting in roll thread

Pretty obvious. lol I forgot why i never visit this section anymore. No man is this fuking retarded. Unless Indian

[DigDeeper1]

nice try sandman

[Zackad]

Pretty obvious. lol I forgot why i never visit this section anymore. No man is this fuking retarded. Unless Indian

Lol even despite the blatant retardation, his story facts don't add up or make sense.

[Ninshark]

well, looks like today's your last day. If you want to stay with her, since you guys had a long relationship, it makes sense, then before you leave, tell her clearly what your concerns are. Be rational, not controlling or demanding. Express your concerns genuinely and understandably, don't be an insecure ****. Judging by her response, you can decide whether you'd like to keep her or not. choice is hers.

[ChillyWetWilly]

well, looks like today's your last day. If you want to stay with her, since you guys had a long relationship, it makes sense, then before you leave, tell her clearly what your concerns are. Be rational, not controlling or demanding. Express your concerns genuinely and understandably, don't be an insecure ****. Judging by her response, you can decide whether you'd like to keep her or not. choice is hers.

Follow this advice OP. This is exactly what you need to do. Don't wait, do it asap.