I think my GF is cheating on me, but I'm not sure?

[Zebarbu]

OK so we've been together for 2 years.

She left for some work abroad for 6 months. 2 weeks in she tells me she's 'met someone', a guy she never mentioned by name, but I knew who he was.

Ever since then, I've had my doubts.


Anyway, I had planned to go visit her for a couple of weeks some time before she left, and I'm currently there until the 17th.

Apart from the first night, she's distanced herself from him and has been more intimate with me and gone on dates.

(This is the part that makes me think she isn't cheating and/or she wants to stay with me)


Thoughts?

[Ninshark]

OK so we've been together for 2 years.

She left for some work abroad for 6 months. 2 weeks in she tells me she's 'met someone', a guy she never mentioned by name, but I knew who he was.

Ever since then, I've had my doubts.


Anyway, I had planned to go visit her for a couple of weeks some time before she left, and I'm currently there until the 17th.

Apart from the first night, she's distanced herself from him and has been more intimate with me and gone on dates.

(This is the part that makes me think she isn't cheating and/or she wants to stay with me)


Thoughts?

sounds possible she is, but there's no proof. So did you meet this guy yet? Why doesn't she introduce you to him?

[Zebarbu]

sounds possible she is, but there's no proof. So did you meet this guy yet? Why doesn't she introduce you to him?

I have met him, but she didn't introduce me. She was all over him the second night she was here, but then she's distanced herself from him for some (good) reason, and he isn't bothered about her and is apparently going on a date soon.

[GayCumLord]

OK so we've been together for 2 years.

She left for some work abroad for 6 months. 2 weeks in she tells me she's 'met someone', a guy she never mentioned by name, but I knew who he was.

Ever since then, I've had my doubts.


Anyway, I had planned to go visit her for a couple of weeks some time before she left, and I'm currently there until the 17th.

Apart from the first night, she's distanced herself from him and has been more intimate with me and gone on dates.

(This is the part that makes me think she isn't cheating and/or she wants to stay with me)


Thoughts?

why though

[Zebarbu]

why though

Couldn't find any part time work between studies.

[GayCumLord]

Couldn't find any part time work between studies.

well women are hypergamous creatures that base decisions off emotions so theres a pretty high chance she's going to cheat if the right guy comes along. Follow your instincts , this is pretty telling too

I have met him, but she didn't introduce me. She was all over him the second night she was here, but then she's distanced herself from him for some (good) reason, and he isn't bothered about her and is apparently going on a date soon.

[Zebarbu]

well women are hypergamous creatures that base decisions off emotions so theres a pretty high chance she's going to cheat if the right guy comes along. Follow your instincts , this is pretty telling too

So basically, correct me if I'm wrong of course, she's developed feelings for him...

I thought things may be getting better since she has been basically ignoring him and spending more quality time with me??

[GayCumLord]

So basically, correct me if I'm wrong of course, she's developed feelings for him...

I thought things may be getting better since she has been basically ignoring him and spending more quality time with me??

Don't take her seriously is my advice. A woman that is 100% into you wouldn't ever make you feel jealous of another man

[Zebarbu]

Don't take her seriously is my advice. A woman that is 100% into you wouldn't ever make you feel jealous of another man

We still have sex though, so she must be still into me right?

[Kev1972]

We still have sex though, so she must be still into me right?

Does she let you nut inside her? If she's telling you no it's because he's inside her too. Tell her creampie or gtfo!

[GayCumLord]

We still have sex though, so she must be still into me right?

for now, chances are it didn't work out with the other guy but that doesn't mean she's still not actively looking for something better

[Zebarbu]

for now, chances are it didn't work out with the other guy but that doesn't mean she's still not actively looking for something better

I don't know... they're distant now, but she's moving into another flat with some other people, including him.

[DustinTheHuss]

I don't know... they're distant now, but she's moving into another flat with some other people, including him.

Are you trolling us?

If not, then there are more red flags than China.

[Zebarbu]

Are you trolling us?

If not, then there are more red flags than China.

No, this is literally what is happening. She could easily have told them no and moved in with her female friend

[illriginalized]

Easy.

Grab her phone while her phone is unlocked.

Her reaction will tell you the truth.

[radrd]

I don't know... they're distant now, but she's moving into another flat with some other people, including him.

Lol wut? Your turn is over.

[PovertyNWizdom]

I have some bad news OP

[Zebarbu]

Lol wut? Your turn is over.

I have some bad news OP

The guy's a tool and doesn't want anything serious with her... how the **** is she going with him?!!?

[iloveus]

Simple solution: Forget her and find a better girl

[Kev1972]

The guy's a tool and doesn't want anything serious with her... how the **** is she going with him?!!?

That you sandman? How did you sneak back in?

[GayCumLord]

posting in roll thread

[Ninshark]

I have met him, but she didn't introduce me. She was all over him the second night she was here, but then she's distanced herself from him for some (good) reason, and he isn't bothered about her and is apparently going on a date soon.

what does "all over him" mean? When you say "she didn't introduce me", do you mean that when you all were hanging out a few days ago, she just said you were her friend and left out the fact that she's in a relationship?

[skinnyfat88]

I don't know... they're distant now, but she's moving into another flat with some other people, including him.

Admitting she has met someone she wants to date/hookup while she lives abroad & continues to hangout with him regularly and is moving into a house he's also going to be living in?

Even if she isn't physically cheating on you she is showing you your relationship is of little importance to her as it would be expected anyone in your situation would be upset and not be comfortable with what she is doing.

[Rylol]

"Whenever there is any doubt, there is no doubt..."

Either put a tracker on her phone or boot her TF out brah.

[exyl]

Skimmed thread really quick saw “she met someone” and “she was all over him”

Bad roll

[CirezD]

Get with the guy before she does srs. Problem solved if you beat her to it.

[alphamale5010]

Not sure if srs. But if she is moving in with him it’s over. Long distance relationships are usually doomed anyways. Assume they are ****ing and move on.

[AdikinBawls]

I guess if nobody responds to your other roll breads, keep trying and trying until you succeed.

[Zebarbu]

Admitting she has met someone she wants to date/hookup while she lives abroad & continues to hangout with him regularly and is moving into a house he's also going to be living in?

Even if she isn't physically cheating on you she is showing you your relationship is of little importance to her as it would be expected anyone in your situation would be upset and not be comfortable with what she is doing.

They aren't hanging out regularly, like I said, they are avoiding eachother right now.

[Zebarbu]

Not sure if srs. But if she is moving in with him it’s over. Long distance relationships are usually doomed anyways. Assume they are ****ing and move on.

Well, she's moving into a flat with two other people and he'll be there. I would have thought she wouldn't want to since they aren't speaking right now?