would you let a 34 year old boy marry your 20 year old daughter

[Drhunglow]

My parents wouldnt care they were 14 years apart. Now at 30 when I see a 20 year I see a child and that seems super creepy

And you are a 30 year old dude looking at 20 year old women right?

[Silencespeaks]

would you marry a 20 year old though or ltr?

No way

Only if I was 20 myself.

[Silencespeaks]

ITT: Miscers vouching for it because they are the decade and a half older guy

This

It’s the ultimate misc fantasy so that is why everyone is saying yes from the perspective of the guy.

Once misc has ACTUAL daughters and are actual dads then I doubt they’ll be okay with a much older guy going after their young daughter.

[Enguin]

There are enough men in her age group that are about something that if she has to go look at someone near twice her age, she's weak.
Men already die earlier now she gonna get someone near 15 years over her?
So she can increase her chances of taking care of some dementia patient when she is 60. Lol.

[WHChampion]

This

It’s the ultimate misc fantasy so that is why everyone is saying yes from the perspective of the guy.

Once misc has ACTUAL daughters and are actual dads then I doubt they’ll be okay with a much older guy going after their young daughter.

I think if most miscers could choose that future for their daughter over rolling the dice they'd take it ez. Better than some young ******* knocking her up and dashing or her spending those years turbo slooting.

Plus you'd get more time with your grandkids since if he's 34 he probably wants kids now.

[Wyzz]

This

It’s the ultimate misc fantasy so that is why everyone is saying yes from the perspective of the guy.

Once misc has ACTUAL daughters and are actual dads then I doubt they’ll be okay with a much older guy going after their young daughter.

Stfu.

If we had daughters we would just want her to be with someone that has their **** together and will take care of her. Has nothing to do with our current age.

A lot of us wouldn’t even want someone that young because girls are annoying at that age.

I’d prefer my daughter be with a good man than slooting around and becoming one of these childless and marriage-less women I see nowadays

[DSTEE]

There are enough men in her age group that are about something that if she has to go look at someone near twice her age, she's weak.
Men already die earlier now she gonna get someone near 15 years over her?
So she can increase her chances of taking care of some dementia patient when she is 60. Lol.

Strong this lol. Females already outlive men by a few years, but good for her if she wants to spend her last two decades as a widow I guess

[Train57]

of course any unmarried female past 19 is just like soured milk

[Silencespeaks]

Stfu.

If we had daughters we would just want her to be with someone that has their **** together and will take care of her. Has nothing to do with our current age.

A lot of us wouldn’t even want someone that young because girls are annoying at that age.

I’d prefer my daughter be with a good man than slooting around and becoming one of these childless and marriage-less women I see nowadays

No you’re saying that because you identify with the 35 year old guy.

Once you have a daughter you’ll be protective of her and won’t want an older guy after her.

[CodyZellery]

My parents wouldnt care they were 14 years apart. Now at 30 when I see a 20 year I see a child and that seems super creepy

You srs? I'm only two years younger than you and I think I'm still the same generation as 20 year olds.

[Silencespeaks]

You srs? I'm only two years younger than you and I think I'm still the same generation as 20 year olds.

It’s just an illusion in your mind.

I have the same and I’m late forties and still feel the same as 20 year olds srs.

[Kaliconic]

No you’re saying that because you identify with the 35 year old guy.

Once you have a daughter you’ll be protective of her and won’t want an older guy after her.

Yeah, because guys in their early 20s are such noble, upstanding gentleman from whom you definitely don't need to protect your daughter at all. Young guys are oftentimes idiots and haven't established themselves in life at all. They are more likely, not less, to treat women like trash.

[Silencespeaks]

Yeah, because guys in their early 20s are such noble, upstanding gentleman from whom you definitely don't need to protect your daughter at all. Young guys are oftentimes idiots and haven't established themselves in life at all. They are more likely, not less, to treat women like trash.

You’ll feel like it’s gross that an old guy wants to have sex with her srs

You just can’t imagine it because you don’t have a daughter. You can only identify with the old guy.

[isawthesign]

Too much of a power, experience and knowledge gap...

Anyone that thinks this is okay is pure COPE. Why would a youthful 20 year old go out with a 34 year old? They have nothing in common. The guy wants to just smash and the girl wants nice things.

[SirTony]

"would let" ??? Where the phuck do you live in Saudia Arabia or Iran or some sheet like that, both in Europe as well as America age of becoming an adult is 18. After that your daughter can marry who the hell she wants, you can cut ties because of that with her but you won be able to stop it

[Ausaric]

34 year old boy? Are they still boys at that point?

Fuk I’m gonna be 33 soon. Am I still a boy?

To answer your question OP, it’s impossible to say how I would react if I had a 20-year-old daughter. I’d be a different person by then.

My immediate impulse would be that of pure shock and revulsion

[WHChampion]

You’ll feel like it’s gross that an old guy wants to have sex with her srs

You just can’t imagine it because you don’t have a daughter. You can only identify with the old guy.

"old"

34 isn't old. you're old.

[shoelaces]

Nothing rustles miscers more than threads like this. Basically the male equivalent of delusional feminists. Tour is over oldcels.

[Silencespeaks]

"old"

34 isn't old. you're old.

C O P E

lmao

[WHChampion]

C O P E

lmao

when i'm 34 you'll be in your 50s searching petfinder for companionship.

[FarmersSon]

This

It’s the ultimate misc fantasy so that is why everyone is saying yes from the perspective of the guy.

Once misc has ACTUAL daughters and are actual dads then I doubt they’ll be okay with a much older guy going after their young daughter.

Have daughters. Pretty much agree. 34 and 20 wouldn't be terrible, but I would prefer them to marry people closer in age. Younger people aren't as set in their ways so they can grow with each other more. Also better chance they have more time together rather than him die when she's 60.

That said, I'll give my advice, and they'll do what they want. After they decide I would try to be supportive.

My sister married a much older fellow (+25 years). Family was against it. He's a nice guy, and they seem happy. They have two kids. It's not the choice I would have made, but I am happy for them.

[Omnivium]

34 is oddly specific. The 34 year old is you isn't it op?

[Drhunglow]

34 is oddly specific. The 34 year old is you isn't it op?

It's his friend and his other friend's daughter

[ESlong]

What business would a 34yr old have with a 20 yr old? Context of where and how they met would be important.

[Wyzz]

No you’re saying that because you identify with the 35 year old guy.

Once you have a daughter you’ll be protective of her and won’t want an older guy after her.

Maybe. I agree that I have no idea what my mindset would be in different scenarios.

But if they are serious about each other and I get a good read on the guy and he’s not a piece of **** I wouldn’t be opposed to the idea.

It wouldn’t be ideal because 20 is very young in today’s world. But if it means she doesn’t become a single mom because the guy is legit then go ahead.

[BigElephant]

I'm fine with her being with someone of any age assuming he treats her well, takes care of her, doesn't abuse her, etc.

I would want them to have a few other feature:
- Be healthy, mentally stable (ie no major disorders, no trans, etc)
- Stable job, steady income, able to support her
- Can be any race, but no children (ie no popping out baby Tyrones)

[saltypits]

I’d even suck his dick to convince him.

[BDSMBBW]

if the boy is very well educated and successful and never married previously and he and your daughter are very much in love.

From a dad POV the age difference is just way too much. The mentality and mindsets are going to be totally different - a 20 yo girl is still growing.

maybe if daughter was 25ish sure.

Let me put it in perspective for you - lets subtract 4 years from that age.

How would you feel if a 30 year old was going to marry a 16 year old.

[FarmersSon]

I agree, 20 is very young. 25 and 39 is better than 20 and 34. But still not my preference.

Just lol at thinking you'll be telling your 20 year old child what they can do though. it's bad enough when they're 10...

[guest89]

As opposed to what? Dating a 20 year old fukk up with nothing going for him? Or a dude that wants to go 'out' every weekend with the boys?



Assuming he's 34 with his schit together and is ready to settle down/raise a family it seems like a good deal.