tfw when you get bored of girl

[smashedurgfx10]

been around 6 months. not even fukking anyone else rn but im about to call it quits

just cba with her anymore. her moods/emotional outburst are a pain in the a$$
sex is 7/10
was never really that into her and she keeps berating me about 'where this is going' im like bish, nowhere. adios

would rather jack off srs

[RagnarChadbrok]

Then end it. You know it ain't gonna get better, only worse. Not your first rodeo. On to the next one

[BoyoOfPeas]

you will regret it in like 2 weeks if you don't get sexors from somewhere else interim. 100% guarenteed

[smashedurgfx10]

you will regret it in like 2 weeks if you don't get sexors from somewhere else interim. 100% guarenteed

i dunno i haven't smashed her for a week and im not missing it yet srs

[EndofGame]

ye it happens and it gets to the point it feels boring

[simonsaysgoham]

Then end it. You know it ain't gonna get better, only worse. Not your first rodeo. On to the next one

Hahaha. Don't do it (unless you're actually sick of her). Grass is greener brah srs

[FreemanMorgan]

Hahaha. Don't do it (unless you're actually sick of her). Grass is greener brah srs

Whole life ahead of him. Why waste hers and his time?

On to the next brother.

[hendrixfreak70]

My computer just updated (srs) and still no pics.

[Obafemi1]

Negged for no pics *******

[moosik85]

Lol you think that any other girl would be different. They are all the same mate

[Nicklol]

I know dat feel

brb "can I call you?" "can we video call" every few hours

brb only actually physically visited every 1-2 weeks and i was always horny

[smashedurgfx10]

I know dat feel

brb "can I call you?" "can we video call" every few hours

brb only actually physically visited every 1-2 weeks and i was always horny

dude are you me

we only actually meet once or twice a week so barely any time to smash, but she wants constant emotional attention on texts and calls

[AncientYouth]

ok i'll say it...................Try men

[Kev1972]

In the same boat except sex is 9/10.

But she's got nothing going on in her life doesn't work, lives with parents, doesn't even have a car. Like if I broke down someplace she couldn't do anything for me. But man she's fun in the sack.

I just don't want to give up the daily on demand great sex and end up with someone responsible that's a starfish. Last 4 girls I was with before this weren't any fun. Either had worse bodies and/or were not very feminine and submissive. She always cooks, cleans, does my laundry when she stays over, but I don't really need all that.

[smashedurgfx10]

In the same boat except sex is 9/10.

But she's got nothing going on in her life doesn't work, lives with parents, doesn't even have a car. Like if I broke down someplace she couldn't do anything for me. But man she's fun in the sack.

I just don't want to give up the daily on demand great sex and end up with someone responsible that's a starfish. Last 4 girls I was with before this weren't any fun. Either had worse bodies and/or were not very feminine and submissive. She always cooks, cleans, does my laundry when she stays over, but I don't really need all that.

exact same. doesn't work/drive/livs with parents

fuark lol

[Jax05]

Pics loading for you brahs?

BRB gonna update forum and check back.

[CoolKnees]

I know dat feel

brb "can I call you?" "can we video call" every few hours

brb only actually physically visited every 1-2 weeks and i was always horny

So.. what do you guys talk about?

[skinnyfat88]

been around 6 months. not even fukking anyone else rn but im about to call it quits

just cba with her anymore. her moods/emotional outburst are a pain in the a$$
sex is 7/10
was never really that into her and she keeps berating me about 'where this is going' im like bish, nowhere. adios

would rather jack off srs

Was never that into her but led her on for 6 months?
Let her go. You'll both be happier.

[backinthegymbro]

I remember when i was bored of my gf. Stopped putting in any effort. Then she left and suddenly i missed her more than anything. Not realizing what i had.
It's true what they say. You don't really know what you have until it's gone.

[BoyoOfPeas]

I remember when i was bored of my gf. Stopped putting in any effort. Then she left and suddenly i missed her more than anything. Not realizing what i had.
It's true what they say. You don't really know what you have until it's gone.

same thing happened to me

was with a 7/10 girl in looks, had no social media, worked, cooked, cleaned, very submissive in bed and always down for kinky sht, but I got bored and we finally split up. still missing her sometimes even tho it been 2 years

[DBoyDaRealest]

I been there. Gets boring and you get desensitized. Happened a couple times with fwbs right around 5 or 6 months.

Last time it happened I went monk mode and deleted Tinder/Bumble and took about a 1-2 month break from going out with girls while I meditated and got into some better routines and did some thinking.

Decided I was ready to have a serious girl again after being single for 2.5 years, dated a girl for 1 month with that idea, got sick of her, and met my actual gf of the last 2 years immediately after.

Funny how life works.

[Toker095]

Try men

[RagnarChadbrok]

same thing happened to me

was with a 7/10 girl in looks, had no social media, worked, cooked, cleaned, very submissive in bed and always down for kinky sht, but I got bored and we finally split up. still missing her sometimes even tho it been 2 years

This happens to me too. On one hand, all you can do is make the decision you think is right, stand by it, and keep moving forward. On the other hand, know that data on a woman's body count vs marital stability? And how we were all like "haha dumb women, doesn't apply to us though."? I'm pretty sure it does now. I'm pretty sure myself and other mansloots are fked in terms of long term commitment and maintaining interest in one girl

[DBoyDaRealest]

This happens to me too. On one hand, all you can do is make the decision you think is right, stand by it, and keep moving forward. On the other hand, know that data on a woman's body count vs marital stability? And how we were all like "haha dumb women, doesn't apply to us though."? I'm pretty sure it does now. I'm pretty sure myself and other mansloots are fked in terms of long term commitment and maintaining interest in one girl

oh its absolutely true. if you are an average dude who gets lucky enough to have decent or enjoyable sex with an early serious compatible partner, you are golden.

you'd exist in that sweet spot where you feel lucky to have a girlfriend, actually enjoy the sex so you aren't wanting more, and you aren't being tempted regularly by other women.

guessing the same makes sense from a female perspective but part of me isn't convinced that they are sold on committing to their first sexual partner like a guy would be

[RagnarChadbrok]

oh its absolutely true. if you are an average dude who gets lucky enough to have decent or enjoyable sex with an early serious compatible partner, you are golden.

you'd exist in that sweet spot where you feel lucky to have a girlfriend, actually enjoy the sex so you aren't wanting more, and you aren't being tempted regularly by other women.

guessing the same makes sense from a female perspective but part of me isn't convinced that they are sold on committing to their first sexual partner like a guy would be

Idk man. That's the talking point, "don't marry a virgin, she'll cheat out of curiosity." And I'm sure plenty do. But the data on cheating and divorce tells a clear story, virgins are waaay more loyal than any other body count category. And two of my gfs were virgins, they were loyal to a fault

But yea man, you're right. Lots of my friends from high school are examples of this. They were never great with the ladies, but they found pretty decent girls young and settled down. Now they think I'm basically a God who somehow can pull tens on demand, and I must be way happier than them. Truth is though, I'll probably never love a girl like they love their girls again. I'm probably not capable, and if I am I'll lose interest eventually no matter how hard I try.

Now conversely, if their wives ever cheat and leave them, and take half their sh*t, they're gonna be destroyed. maybe rope it. If I get cheated on and left, I really couldn't give a fuk at this point. On to the next one, there's always another. Vulnerability is a double edged sword

[DBoyDaRealest]

Idk man. That's the talking point, "don't marry a virgin, she'll cheat out of curiosity." And I'm sure plenty do. But the data on cheating and divorce tells a clear story, virgins are waaay more loyal than any other body count category. And two of my gfs were virgins, they were loyal to a fault

I think those studies are dated and don't account recent shifts in dating dynamics or the fact that I assume everyone I'm having this discussion with is an attractive, fit individual, also dating other attractive and social women. Ofc its easier for the 50 percent on the other side of the bell curve to remain loyal and skew that data, they don't have the same options.

It boils down to demand really - a 7/10 male can get a cute girlfriend and realistically avoid cheating without much effort. They won't be bombarded with DMs or approaches at college or the bar.

A 7/10 girl, even if she's a virgin with her first boyfriend and truly wants to be loyal, is so much more in demand, different levels of magnitude. Like if the guy equivalent got 5 invitations/dms/approaches from women in a year, the girl is closer to 50-100.

Hard to turn down EVERY single advance, and some dudes won't let up on girls that have a boyfriend. I have seen it so many times. Girl has serious boyfriend at young age, goes to school or first job and is chipped and chipped away by a couple of dudes until she gives in. Nature being nature.

[RagnarChadbrok]

I think those studies are dated and don't account recent shifts in dating dynamics or the fact that I assume everyone I'm having this discussion with is an attractive, fit individual, also dating other attractive and social women. Ofc its easier for the 50 percent on the other side of the bell curve to remain loyal and skew that data, they don't have the same options.

It boils down to demand really - a 7/10 male can get a cute girlfriend and realistically avoid cheating without much effort. They won't be bombarded with DMs or approaches at college or the bar.

A 7/10 girl, even if she's a virgin with her first boyfriend and truly wants to be loyal, is so much more in demand, different levels of magnitude. Like if the guy equivalent got 5 invitations/dms/approaches from women in a year, the girl is closer to 50-100.

Hard to turn down EVERY single advance, and some dudes won't let up on girls that have a boyfriend. I have seen it so many times. Girl has serious boyfriend at young age, goes to school or first job and is chipped and chipped away by a couple of dudes until she gives in. Nature being nature.

This is too real, and I've done it to too many girls. But as the man it's your job to identify who these threats are and deal with them, defend your territory. Unless your girl is actively trying to cheat, she's going to bring these guys up in conversation. Then you do what you need to do. Example with my ex.

Had this coworker named Robert trying to chip at her. So her coworkers and I all went out for drinks one night. I acted buddy buddy then was like "Yo Robert, let's walk brother. I'm gonna show you something cool." Once we stepped outside I said "So you're making moves on my girl huh?" He instantly tried to deny it and gaslight me, but I cut him off and said "Don't bullsh*t me player, I understand how it works. And I understand it's not personal. But understand that if this friendly game doesn't stop now, I'm going to break your legs and rip your eyes out. Nothing personal. Understood?"

Was there a more tactful, legal way to handle this situation? Maybe. I definitely couldn't think of one, and it worked

[DBoyDaRealest]

This is too real, and I've done it to too many girls. But as the man it's your job to identify who these threats are and deal with them, defend your territory. Unless your girl is actively trying to cheat, she's going to bring these guys up in conversation. Then you do what you need to do. Example with my ex.

Had this coworker named Robert trying to chip at her. So her coworkers and I all went out for drinks one night. I acted buddy buddy then was like "Yo Robert, let's walk brother. I'm gonna show you something cool." Once we stepped outside I said "So you're making moves on my girl huh?" He instantly tried to deny it and gaslight me, but I cut him off and said "Don't bullsh*t me player, I understand how it works. And I understand it's not personal. But understand that if this friendly game doesn't stop now, I'm going to break your legs and rip your eyes out. Nothing personal. Understood?"

Was there a more tactful, legal way to handle this situation? Maybe. I definitely couldn't think of one, and it worked

Lmao I feel you on that. I'll never be the dude to chip away at a girl with a boyfriend. Not my style. Not when there are so many more options out there without the added resistance. Either something happens when I first meet a gal or it doesn't, no long plays.

Also not a fan of constantly defending territory. I make myself the prize every day by hitting gym, doing good in career, having cool hobbies outside of work, expanding social circle, etc. I'm not doing this chit on top of swatting flies.

No disrespect, but if I had to say something to the guy, then I already lost and showed my cards and insecurity. I expect the gf to not reciprocate flirting and advances, 100% her responsibility.

Other dudes owe me nothing, but I would prefer that after knowing who I am or meeting me or seeing how my gf acts around me or talks of me, that they feel they have zero shot and its not even worth trying anymore.

My first serious girl through highschool/college I had to swat flies, not worth it.

[Bigdumogre]

99% of the woman I’ve been with I got bored with and usually after banging them a dozen times I want something new. But there is always one that you had that you still miss and wish you could hit it one more time.

[ESlong]

Your bored because you lack variety buddy boyo.

Do you listen to the same song day in and day out? Watch the same episode of a programe or only view one peice of art in a meseum?

You have to gain a new female friend to rotate with, no need to drop her buddy boyo.