Meeting a female at the gym (TIPS)

[x-trainer ben]

As a long time gym goer, tips 1 and 4 are key.
Good list.

[Condo41]

Tip #1 is rule number 2: dont hit on girls in the gym.

Rule number 1 is dont hit on girls getting paid

Rule number 2 is dont hit on girls who are sitting down while you're standing up.

If you MUST break rule number 2, heres how you do it. Talk to her about anything gym related like shes a dude. Shes just another gym goer. If you have nothing to say in that regard, dont say sh*t. If you say sh*t without having sh*t to say, you're hitting on her and that's a mistake. You talk normally.

That's it.

[Jaydawg08]

Bumping this because I saw the online dating thread. Meeting someone IRL as opposed to solely online dating is the way to go

[GooBaaa]

What if my girl already goes to the gym with me?

[Dogkrack]

spit the indian copypasta at them, pep nips

[forthenoodz]

Another Jay thread where he gets caught fruading again LOL


https://forum.bodybuilding.com/showt...post1624581331

Do not believe a word this loser says

knew he was a retard, didn't know he's a fraud as well

[Realclout]

Tell her you need an archeologist for a bone and pose like ZYZZZ SRS

[Realclout]

Gonna post some tips here and want any miscers to chime in as well. This is solely if you actively WANT to meet someone at the gym. So my current girl, we met each other at the gym and I cold approached.. She's Puerto Rican and Native American, makes great $$, is a therapist with a master degree. She is more of the cardio type on the stairmaster or treadmill rather than in the free weights section


Tip #1... She has to have noticed you multiple times before you approach her. This is probably the most important tip and the most obvious. Go the gym around the same time, and the people who go around that same time-frame will start to notice and remember you. She admitted it would have been a non starter if she had not seen me before.

Tip #2... Stand out with your gym attire. Doesn't have to be SUPER fancy, but to the point where you look put together and you're wearing something fitted and you look like you know how to dress. It def helps you stand out from the random dudes in there wearing some stringer gym chit

Tip #3... Don't focus solely on the free weights section. For a lot of attractive females, the last place they wanna spend all their time is the free weights section. Bunch of dudes staring constantly, some females like that attention but most not so much. So being able to make your appearance known in other areas of the gym gives you more of an opportunity to cold approach

Tip #4... Casually say "Hello" a couple of days before you decide to full on cold approach. Walking past each other from the locker rooms? Maybe passing each other when filling up your water? Say Hi and see if you get a warm response back.

Tip #5... When finally cold approaching, start with something that can be easily dismissed if they aren't feeling the same. "Hey.. sorry to bother you but you look really familiar. Do you know (random name)/do you go to (random place nearby)." Normally a female interested will continue the convo in some sort of way. Maybe responding with how you do look familiar also, or yeah they do, etc.



Any more tips please place below

Spoiler!

Wait OP is the JESTERMAXXXING fool with a bright green weight belt and super high knee high long ass socks and a dead ass banana hammock with a tank top and a bottle of pre-work out in a blender bottle but the really small one you SLACK JAWED cuck SRS with some ****GY headphones listening to advice on how to talk to the girls at the gym while at the gym and is the complete retard mouth breather people wonder how on earth could be so pathetic and retarded SRS.

[XPmpnII]

honestly OP’s advice rly isn’t bad in all seriousness

[BullittEV]

As a long time gym goer, tips 1 and 4 are key.
Good list.

Youre probably like me and are good at gaining the attention of the chick and opening, but we differ there-you lose it once you show your irrational/emotional side. I take risks saying outlandish comments and sometimes turns them off.

Also, you emotional guys never have pics or your face is edited (OP), so it's tough to make that call. I bet if you have 5+/10 aesthetics and use your native tongue, you'd slay.

OP (not sure if you) seems like the type of guy that uses tons of emoji's in his text messages, so either that chick posted in OP isnt real prefers to wear the pants in the relationship and figured Jdog would be a good floor mat.

[Jaydawg08]

honestly OP’s advice rly isn’t bad in all seriousness

Of course it isn't, because it's probably the only way for you to cold approach at the gym. Most women aren't there to be hit on, but there's always possibilities

[imbeingcereal]

Why lift when it's all about the pepperoni nips?

[XPmpnII]

Of course it isn't, because it's probably the only way for you to cold approach at the gym. Most women aren't there to be hit on, but there's always possibilities

true and let’s be honest.... even tho most of us don’t go solely for women, we still are open to possibilities and DO check out the opposite sex

same goes for women.... so there’s always opportunities

[ChrisLS8]

Just remember this is the guy that has been CAUGHT FRAUDING the women he talks to many times.

[Jaydawg08]

Just remember this is the guy that has been CAUGHT FRAUDING the women he talks to many times.

Frauding and trolling are 2 different things. I thought a "certified Jimmy Rustler" would know this

[guest89]

honestly OP’s advice rly isn’t bad in all seriousness

Its not bad but his strategy would require a couple of weeks worth of waiting for just the right moment to 'talk' to a girl. Brb Chad and Tyrone have already taken their turn while you're feeling out the waters trying to become 'familiar' before you initiate contact....



Assuming you are not an autist your just better off talking to everyone, all the time. Men, women, etc. Without any kind of hidden agenda to try to fukk someone.

[XPmpnII]

Its not bad but his strategy would require a couple of weeks worth of waiting for just the right moment to 'talk' to a girl. Brb Chad and Tyrone have already taken their turn while you're feeling out the waters trying to become 'familiar' before you initiate contact....



Assuming you are not an autist your just better off talking to everyone, all the time. Men, women, etc. Without any kind of hidden agenda to try to fukk someone.

also true

Just be friendly and talk to people with no intentions and without trying to come across as desperate or anything.... no expectations and u might be surprised what comes ur way sometimes in all honesty

[lightsarefallin]

Did not read a single word.

[Jaydawg08]

Its not bad but his strategy would require a couple of weeks worth of waiting for just the right moment to 'talk' to a girl. Brb Chad and Tyrone have already taken their turn while you're feeling out the waters trying to become 'familiar' before you initiate contact....



Assuming you are not an autist your just better off talking to everyone, all the time. Men, women, etc. Without any kind of hidden agenda to try to fukk someone.

This def would require at least a couple weeks I'll admit it. I scoped my current GF for about that long.

[Voidgaze]

Is that her in the pic? Cot dayum she looks cute as fuk.

[Jaydawg08]

Is that her in the pic? Cot dayum she looks cute as fuk.

I decided to no longer PAWG, and be like Muzz. Hopefully you aint PAWGin either! Stay strong!

[Ratfish]

literally nobody on the misc believes that you have now or have ever had a GF srs

[Jaydawg08]

literally nobody on the misc believes that you have now or have ever had a GF srs

Lol I like you ratface. Srs

[TomPaine]

Best tip is to stand our by not being thirsty looking, therefore blending in with every other guy.

My gym had a smoking hot Ukrainian girl who worked out hard while she was there, and dressed like Laura Croft. Guys in the gym would constantly come up to her and hit on her while she was trying to work out, so much that after a time she would simply ignore people that were talking to her face like they weren't even there. It was really pathetic to watch as people tried to hit on her, and she pretended like they didn't even exist, but I understand, because she could never get her workout in with the constant flirtation.

I never approached, but if we made eye contact I would smile or say hi walking past each other. One day I saw she was a few feet behind me coming in the main door, so I held the door open for her. I said hello, I see you in here all the time but we've never officially met, my name is ... She said her name and I said have a good workout and walked away.

That day on the gym floor she came over and started talking to me, with every guy in the gym having stunned looks. I stood out because I didn't come of as thirsty. Obviously looks play a part, but in a large gym like mine, their were obviously attractive guys (nohomo) that she wouldn't give the time of day to.

[AlBHappy]

Misc's version of Queer Eye for the Straight Guy