Why I still can't get laid?

[eod8989]

No idea how people meet people now days let alone get a GF srs

You probably just have high IQ and autism like myself that's why you can't relate to anyone

[DustinTheHuss]

You have a gf?

If it's not working then you're hot so you can move on and find someone else?

[Rebel012]

You probably just have autism like myself that's why you can't relate to anyone

Fixed.

[devopsengineer]

Honestly the one thing everyone can do is just talk do loads of different women until one likes you - no matter how terrible your attractiveness to women is its inevitable one will like you

Wrong. No guarantee one will like me.


Also, triying over and over again makes me feel like crap.

[Sacharine33]

Hi OP

I'm afraid to say I need to know more:
- What do you look like? Please describe in detail or post a pic
- What pics do you use in your profile?
- How do you converse with women online?
- How do you approach them IRL?

See, there's a lot to this...

[808Handyman]

Ask him to give you some pointers then. And take you out to parties or bars or something and be your wingman.

Yeah I learned a lot from my cousin. I was just letting opie know that if my cousin can pull it off, anyone can.

[ChrissJ]

Worst thing you can do is listen to someone who says "approach and talk to a girl" If you're not the confident/talkative type. Don't pretend to be someone you ain't. Without pics etc its just everyone having to guess why you can't get girls lol.

[GayCumLord]

So I have been working on myself.

I built a big house, I have my own IT consulting company. I make good money. And it will be even better. In free time I study and finish certifications. I go to gym regularly.

But I am still kisless virgin. And women are very standofish when I try to talk with them. Online they seldom even respond, if they respond, chat goes nowhere. I get very few matches. Maybe one a month.

Seems like some bug in the matrix.

Doesn't make a whole lot of sense...What's your bodyfat and do you actually look like you lift?

[AdikinBawls]

I looked few of those agencies, they have propaganda on their page how they married some couples. In most cases, the girl is lookng retarded on the picture, really troubled. Also ugly and fat. When she is not too retarded, then the guy is from Wiena (I am not from Wienna) and the chick is from Albania (and I don't want albanian chick).

You don't have room to have standards like that lol. Get yourself a decent-looking Albanian chick and don't genocide her.

[backinthegymbro]

Op has no friends, most likely no social life. probably autistic with zero social skills. thinks ''going to the gym'' is gonna help him get laid. Probably still looks like a nonlifter.
thinks having a job/money equals having women throw themselves at you lmao. how dense can you be?

do you go to places to meet women? did you work on your personality? do you get outside your comfort zone? what progress did you make so far to increase your value besides making money and going to the gym? how many women did you ask out? how fluent can you talk to women? how funny are you?
it's always the same incels who wonder why they can't get laid.

[devopsengineer]

You don't have room to have standards like that lol. Get yourself a decent-looking Albanian chick and don't genocide her.

No thanks, jeff. Also, I don't live in Wienna, so I don't qualify.

[CYBORG1]

Keep working on yourself. Find one or two hobbies that you actually enjoy and get good at them. Put yourself into situations where more women are around. Network. Take a course on public speaking. Try not to feel entitled to a supermodel just because you are successful. Try your best not to get cynical or jaded or resentful toward women in general. Sleep with a few escorts or try sugar babies. Definitely put yourself onto multiple dating apps. Looksmaxxx by getting a better hair cut, wearing better fitting clothes. Have a professional photographer take glamour shots of you that you can use for your business and for your dating apps (along with regular photo with other people where you're smiling). Start speaking to everyone you come into contact with, men or women. It will be weird at first but it will get you used to talking to people. Just keep at it and you'll find someone. Don't give up. Good luck!

[dgfergus]

Girls want some one they can connect with not assets (unless your a millionaire, then there are gold diggers but you don't want them). Personality is their first impression, you don't have that, its game over.

[devopsengineer]

No Latinas blacks and Asisans here.

Ok there are a few Chinese. And there are Gypsies, but nobody lets Chinese and Gypsies to the party.

Also no parties. COVID lockdown.

Also, when there is no lockdown, nobody would invite me to the party.

[Immichaelski]

It’s hard op. I look good. I work 2 jobs. I treat females with respect. I’ve had a few bad rejections and they mess with you. Now it’s all about social media and who looks cool.

[navid93]

Nobody can really give a real answer because there are so many variables, we don’t know what you look like or how you act in social situations.

[PovertyNWizdom]

Location: Serbia

Serbian women lay you bro

[DoYouEvenNEM]

To be honest every Eastern European / Slavic thread are western men with stereotypes (who think it's a White Philippines) without ever living there.


I've lived for 2+ years in Eastern Europe. I financially mogged local men and was taller than them. Still got ghosted, flaked on, most matches were 25+ (if not 30+), etc. Very hard to find girls who were DTF. Slavic guys older than 30 almost never take care of themselves (overweight, bald, tacky dresses) so it's not hard to physically mog the competition yet I struggled.

Somehow this dating culture extends from the Balkans all the way up to areas of Russia. And older Soviet OldCels claimed it wasn't that way in their prime. It's almost as if Slavic women got ruined by hypergamy / simping from foreign men.

[Immichaelski]

No idea how people meet people now days let alone get a GF srs

You probably just have high IQ and autism like myself that's why you can't relate to anyone

It’s

[regno]

So I have been working on myself.

I built a big house, I have my own IT consulting company. I make good money. And it will be even better. In free time I study and finish certifications. I go to gym regularly.

But I am still kisless virgin. And women are very standofish when I try to talk with them. Online they seldom even respond, if they respond, chat goes nowhere. I get very few matches. Maybe one a month.

Seems like some bug in the matrix.

You probably appear creepy around them. That's why they're so distant with you. Learn the game. Be funny, make fun of them, tease them, act like you don't give a fuk. Just don't cross the line too much. And never appear desperate. In fact, don't be desperate. This is what I learned. When women smell desperation, it's immediate turn off for them.

Going to gym regularly doesn't mean shiet. 90% of guys that go the the gym look like crap. I can't say for sure you're one of them but my gut tells me that you are. Jump on some light gear, fix your nutrition and get a nice toned body. No need to get massive or mans physique level body. Decent size and cut physique will do the job.

If you're bald or have a thin, receding hair that doesn't suit your face and head shape, consider a hair transplant.

Beard/facial hair. Try growing different lenghts of facial hair and ask as many people as possible which one suits you the best and which shapes your overall face the best. Some guys look ridiculous with any kind of beard and look good clean shaved. And vice versa. Others with short stubble. Experiment.

Smile. Women love bright, healthy smile. If you have rotten, yellow teeth, fix it asap. Doesn't need to be Hollywood level smile. A good rule of thumb to evaluate your smile is this: if a girl had a teeth like you, would you be repelled and disgusted to kiss her? If so, well, there you go.

If you dress like a grandpa or have absolutely no sense or taste in fashion, go on ig and look for some fashion pages for men. Try to find something you like and consider copying some of the styles.



Might be a generic advice but that's all I can think of based on the info you provide.

[devopsengineer]

Thanks for help...

Yeah, lately I don't put much effort into gym, and I go there 2-3 times a week. Simply can't justify spending time on it, and I stopped buying supplements as well. I used to cycle almost all FDA-approved supplements for years, now I am 100% wouthout supplements, although I still watch on diet. I simply can't justify spending the money on that anymore. So I went from ripped to a bit less ripped, but still looks fine.

I think looking ripped does not help with chicks if your face is subpar. And I don't want to do plastic surgeries, nor hair transplants. Simply I am not THAT desperate.

I have lack of hair on back of my head, and receding hairline. Also my remaining hair is incresingly gray.

[devopsengineer]

To be honest every Eastern European / Slavic thread are western men with stereotypes (who think it's a White Philippines) without ever living there.


I've lived for 2+ years in Eastern Europe. I financially mogged local men and was taller than them. Still got ghosted, flaked on, most matches were 25+ (if not 30+), etc. Very hard to find girls who were DTF. Slavic guys older than 30 almost never take care of themselves (overweight, bald, tacky dresses) so it's not hard to physically mog the competition yet I struggled.

Somehow this dating culture extends from the Balkans all the way up to areas of Russia. And older Soviet OldCels claimed it wasn't that way in their prime. It's almost as if Slavic women got ruined by hypergamy / simping from foreign men.

This is true. The chicks are very demanding here, they won't even talk with you if you are not perfect. Or at least you have to be a very good liar.

[eod8989]

It’s

It's probably higher than average iq + autism + high inhibition srs

[EctoPlasmic217]

So I have been working on myself.

I built a big house, I have my own IT consulting company. I make good money. And it will be even better. In free time I study and finish certifications. I go to gym regularly.

But I am still kisless virgin. And women are very standofish when I try to talk with them. Online they seldom even respond, if they respond, chat goes nowhere. I get very few matches. Maybe one a month.

Seems like some bug in the matrix.

are you saying you are a virgin at 33? or is that the wrong age?

[devopsengineer]

are you saying you are a virgin at 33? or is that the wrong age?

33 and virgin.

[EctoPlasmic217]

33 and virgin.

i wonder if there truly are more guys entering their 20s and 30s as virgins or older today than ever before

[devopsengineer]

i wonder if there truly are more guys entering their 20s and 30s as virgins or older today than ever before

I don't know. I only know about myself.

[NMS3]

Gotta try different tactics mayne. Like others pointed out, try some different clothes/shoes, different facial hair, haircut, etc.

[EctoPlasmic217]

to each their own, but i would have gone to an escort before 30

[nail clipper]

So I have been working on myself.

I built a big house, I have my own IT consulting company. I make good money. And it will be even better. In free time I study and finish certifications. I go to gym regularly.

But I am still kisless virgin. And women are very standofish when I try to talk with them. Online they seldom even respond, if they respond, chat goes nowhere. I get very few matches. Maybe one a month.

Seems like some bug in the matrix.

It's 2021. None of that matters anymore. Women can make their own money, or get simps to give it to them. All that matters is looks. You're probably ugly. Post pics if you want us to confirm.