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Thread: Cougar/Cub Relationships
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03-07-2021, 06:17 AM #211
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03-07-2021, 07:22 AM #212
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03-07-2021, 09:34 AM #213
So my first cougar/cub relationship was back in 2006.
I had moved out and was living in a cute cottage. I was on this site called ratemybody.com where men from around the world would write me to talk or cam. Many wanted to visit me and I saw them on cam. Boy the guys were hot.
So one lived about an hour from me. I was 34 he was 22. 6'4, dark hair, green eyes and really good looking. He was rated #6 on the site. I got up to #2 on the site when I posted a bikini photo.
We talked on cam for a long time. Then he said if I drive out there he would pay for the hotel. We met and he was really nervous, as he said he had never been with an older woman before. I told him to get some alcohol. Then we had the most amazing sex. Even though he was young he was really experienced with oral and I still remember him dripping sweat all over me. He would stop during sex and give me manual or oral orgasms and then start up again. I think I had about 30-50 orgasms! We went multiple sessions, too.
I continued seeing him for 2 years. Even now he writes me on ******** and says that even though he has a live-in gf, he continues to think about us. He even wanted us to meet and I said no, not with a live-in gf. He confessed that he had many gfs that he cheated on with me back then, but he wouldn't tell me about them. No wonder he was evasive.Make It a Great Day! Just call me Dusty. It's a Clown 🤡 World out there.
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03-07-2021, 10:14 AM #214
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03-07-2021, 10:16 AM #215
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03-07-2021, 01:10 PM #216
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03-07-2021, 05:47 PM #217
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03-07-2021, 07:24 PM #218
So I got curious about Dustin as I knew a guy with that name.
Turns out a friends of our passed away. The guy was older, like 60, and had a crush on me. He sent me some nice messages in January asking about my broken nose as he was from across the country.
I saw Dustin's friend who was 13 years younger than me. Does that count as cougar/cub? He's writing me now.Make It a Great Day! Just call me Dusty. It's a Clown 🤡 World out there.
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03-07-2021, 07:28 PM #219
Dated a girl 8 years older than me YEARS ago. I was 19, she was 27.
Not alot of a gap in terms of mindset and attitude, but she was really keen to settle down and I was still a young man wanting to play Pokémon and lift weights, so it naturally ended.
Ended up marrying the very next girl and life is 10/10.It's all going to be ok, Kings
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03-07-2021, 07:28 PM #220
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03-07-2021, 07:37 PM #221
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03-07-2021, 10:10 PM #222
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03-08-2021, 02:25 AM #223
Of course this guy hits me up tonight after he and his ex break up. A mutual friend of ours passed away sadly. I am still in shock and grief as our friend was on his way up to Maine to get engaged, he only got there for a month before he had a heart attack. Now his fiancee is crushed. Still, at least they had a month together forever after years of long distance.
The younger guy left me in St. Petersburg by taking a bus to see his ex-girlfriend. He left me for her, and they had a baby. They were broken up when I was with him. Now they are broken up. He lives across the country but moved up north. Crazy story as I met him in the Florida Keys and then again in St. Pete's beach. His now ex-girlfriend was crazy and sent me all kinds of death threats.
Now he says in retrospect he should have stayed all week on the beach with me instead of going back to her, but then he wouldn't have his daughter. I said oh well that's destiny.
It was funny because the waitress we had said we looked so happy together that we should return there to get married. I was like wtf, that made me catch feels though if someone else could pick up on that.
He's 12 years younger than me, but I didn't think he wanted kids as he has a 20 year old. It wasn't planned. Why do I get in the middle of these crazy, drama-filled stories.
I guess I will look at these when I'm retired and realize that I lived an exciting life full of adventure!Make It a Great Day! Just call me Dusty. It's a Clown 🤡 World out there.
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03-08-2021, 05:24 PM #224
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03-08-2021, 05:32 PM #225
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03-08-2021, 05:45 PM #226
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03-10-2021, 03:34 AM #227
Now the 37 year old ex is getting in my head as we are communicating again.
We have long political discussions and I really like someone I can have intellectual conversations with. I forgot that about him.
HOWEVER, I asked him about the alcohol and he got defensive, which means he's still drinking. Why do I like these guys who are alcoholics or recovering drug addicts? Codependency. Hence why I have gone to Al-Anon meetings. He's probably great to talk to when he's drunk.
I'll just never forget sitting outside on a white sand beach looking at dolphins from our hotel balcony. Ugh why do exes have to return? I'm on a break from dating so I'm not talking to anyone else. He's across the country so it's not like I'm going to hang out with him.
inb4 dear diaryMake It a Great Day! Just call me Dusty. It's a Clown 🤡 World out there.
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03-10-2021, 08:01 AM #228
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03-10-2021, 08:03 AM #229
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03-10-2021, 08:04 AM #230
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03-10-2021, 08:47 AM #231
Oh, you were busy hanging out with your FWB
Well my ex who returned in the picture after 3 years of blocking is 37 and has a 20 year old so his son is older than my daughter. We had talked about him moving out here 3 years ago and getting a place together, but now he has a baby daughter, so that would be hard to do. Plus the fact that he blocked me right after I paid for his Uber, gave him free food and free lodging since he was broke after the hurricane sunk his boat.
Even though he's closer to my age, he went with a younger woman (his now ex) and she tried to trap him with a second baby.
Yeah these cougar/cub relationships don't work out, but then again, you and I try to date guys our age and don't get past the first date. Sigh.Make It a Great Day! Just call me Dusty. It's a Clown 🤡 World out there.
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03-12-2021, 10:33 PM #232
Still talking to the 37 year old although I've been off of dating apps for 2-3 weeks. It's nice. He's across the country, though, and even moved up north from where I normally travel to.
I don't understand why I get into interesting conversations with men on here and across the country, yet it's the same boring conversation with men on dating apps. I need intellectual stimulation.
The problem is that guys on here and the ones across the country are long distance and not viable options. The men here suck I swear. I have friends who did long distance relationships with guys in San Diego just to get away from the men in this area.Make It a Great Day! Just call me Dusty. It's a Clown 🤡 World out there.
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