Basically close female friend who I’ve been friends with longer than I’ve known my gf. Gf only recently found out about how we had met (at a party) and how this female friend had caught feels pretty hard for me and had a hard time being friendzoned.. but we’re still friends for a reason and I’m not gonna end that. I also have literally 0 intentions of cheating whatsoever so yeah
Actually curious on the miscs opinion on this... what would you do in my situation? I’ve already made up my mind and we’re studying/hanging out next week after not having seen each other in a while
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03-02-2021, 07:34 PM #1
Going behind Gf’s back to study with female friend (srs)
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03-02-2021, 07:53 PM #2
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03-02-2021, 07:56 PM #5
even if you don't fuk this "friend", what you're doing is as close to cheating on your girlfriend as you can get without actually sticking your dink in another girl.
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03-02-2021, 08:08 PM #10
Nothing wrong with hanging out with another girl if your gf is cool with it - but if you have to lie or go behind her back so that it can happen, you’re in the wrong. What you’re doing is manipulating your girlfriends reality to get what you want.
I’m not saying to not do it, as I get sometimes girlfriends get too jealous and it’s very offputting as well as I’ve cheated on my old old ex many times, just telling you like it is
From my experience the less lies or weird chit you need to contrive in a relationship the smoother it works. Eventually with enough lies it becomes this jumbled mess that is just based on fakeness
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03-02-2021, 08:11 PM #11
OP's GF: "OMG, yeah, so what if my guy friend has had the feeling for me for as long as I've known him. And so what if I lied and didn't tell you I was meeting him. I friendzoned him. It's totally cool. I had zero intentions on cheating on you. God, you're making me want to go meet him in secret again. Gawd."
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03-02-2021, 08:20 PM #12
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03-02-2021, 08:27 PM #16
This will end well .jpg.
Didn’t read responses opie, but your only option is to establish boundaries with your gf while still being respectful to her.
Not being friends with your friend will inevitable lead to resentment of your gf on your end, and hiding it from your gf is unhealthy.
Either your gf appreciates your honesty, trusts you, and accepts it, or she doesn’t, and you guys split up. Either way, it’s a good outcome.
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03-02-2021, 08:31 PM #17
Sure OP
There’s nothing wrong about hiding your female friend that is romantically interested in you from her and definitely nothing wrong with studying alone with her without telling your gf.
It’s not like you’re interested in banging your friend so it totally doesn’t matter how your gf feels about you spending time with her or you lying about it
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03-02-2021, 08:35 PM #18
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03-02-2021, 08:53 PM #23
No that is wrong.
At the very least you should tell her.
But I think it’s wrong to do it at all. Even if you are open about it. You shouldn’t be friends with a girl who likes you. It’s disrespectful to your gf.
And if you are spending time together and close emotionally then it’s emotional cheating which is wrong also.
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03-02-2021, 08:54 PM #24
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03-02-2021, 09:37 PM #30
Going out with a girl who you know wants your dink is pretty disrespectful IMO. Make sure gf brah knows she ain't your only option so she stays on her toes, but you don't actually have to follow through with this study sesh to make the dread game real.
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