Going behind Gf’s back to study with female friend (srs)

[justgenetics]

Basically close female friend who I’ve been friends with longer than I’ve known my gf. Gf only recently found out about how we had met (at a party) and how this female friend had caught feels pretty hard for me and had a hard time being friendzoned.. but we’re still friends for a reason and I’m not gonna end that. I also have literally 0 intentions of cheating whatsoever so yeah

Actually curious on the miscs opinion on this... what would you do in my situation? I’ve already made up my mind and we’re studying/hanging out next week after not having seen each other in a while

[Chadimus45]

It is weak to lie.

If you truly thought you led this relationship you could tell your girlfriend that you were hanging with this friend without it being a problem due to your value.

Cheers

Get your mind straight.

[Isolift]

Riiiiighhhtt...

[Kaliconic]

Don't lie to you girlfriend you dumbass.

[tnel00]

even if you don't fuk this "friend", what you're doing is as close to cheating on your girlfriend as you can get without actually sticking your dink in another girl.

doubt you'll have a girlfriend for very long

[Evening7]

I'm sure you'd be cool with her doing the same

[kimm4]

I would hope you and your gf trust each other enough to be open about it. In a trusting relationship there shouldn't be a need to hide things like this.

[BallsDeep3]

Well.. she wont be your GF after she finds out. You'd be better off cheating on her, shes gonna think you did anyways.

[CanuckGame]

No pics of GF or friend?

Negged.

[Sevenlionz]

Nothing wrong with hanging out with another girl if your gf is cool with it - but if you have to lie or go behind her back so that it can happen, you’re in the wrong. What you’re doing is manipulating your girlfriends reality to get what you want.

I’m not saying to not do it, as I get sometimes girlfriends get too jealous and it’s very offputting as well as I’ve cheated on my old old ex many times, just telling you like it is

From my experience the less lies or weird chit you need to contrive in a relationship the smoother it works. Eventually with enough lies it becomes this jumbled mess that is just based on fakeness

[markkillerings]

Basically close female friend who I’ve been friends with longer than I’ve known my gf. Gf only recently found out about how we had met (at a party) and how this female friend had caught feels pretty hard for me and had a hard time being friendzoned.. but we’re still friends for a reason and I’m not gonna end that. I also have literally 0 intentions of cheating whatsoever so yeah

Actually curious on the miscs opinion on this... what would you do in my situation? I’ve already made up my mind and we’re studying/hanging out next week after not having seen each other in a while

OP's GF: "OMG, yeah, so what if my guy friend has had the feeling for me for as long as I've known him. And so what if I lied and didn't tell you I was meeting him. I friendzoned him. It's totally cool. I had zero intentions on cheating on you. God, you're making me want to go meet him in secret again. Gawd."

[PassiveLearner]

If this friend is hot, you’ll fuk her - your GF is right to be a bit worried. But perhaps you’re a righteous man and won’t cheat - who knows I am cyclops

[YouSmokeToMuch]

[QUOTE=greenwichmogger;1632792253]Love that for you


Weird that's what brad was saying over and over again before his ban 😁

[roughinhouse]

Invite her over while your gf is there and study. Why are you going out of your way to study with this girl anyways? I don't believe guys and girls can be friends if the girl thinks the guy is attractive unless the girl is too ugly to fuk for the guy.

[RyanT7]

lol op dont be a fukin scum.

[Hmatt330]

This will end well .jpg.

Didn’t read responses opie, but your only option is to establish boundaries with your gf while still being respectful to her.

Not being friends with your friend will inevitable lead to resentment of your gf on your end, and hiding it from your gf is unhealthy.

Either your gf appreciates your honesty, trusts you, and accepts it, or she doesn’t, and you guys split up. Either way, it’s a good outcome.

[Evlve]

Sure OP

There’s nothing wrong about hiding your female friend that is romantically interested in you from her and definitely nothing wrong with studying alone with her without telling your gf.

It’s not like you’re interested in banging your friend so it totally doesn’t matter how your gf feels about you spending time with her or you lying about it

[TuskV]

lel

[wincel]

[DDSF1]

I hope you are trolling.

If not, you are a scummy mental gymnast.

[AverageKenneth]

Nice pics *******!
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[portamoral]

negged ***got

[Silencespeaks]

No that is wrong.

At the very least you should tell her.

But I think it’s wrong to do it at all. Even if you are open about it. You shouldn’t be friends with a girl who likes you. It’s disrespectful to your gf.

And if you are spending time together and close emotionally then it’s emotional cheating which is wrong also.

[jimberee]

so you value the other girl over your girlfriend. You're either open about meeting her or you don't do it. Sneaking will ruin any trust she has

[SweetDreamz]

Men and women can’t be friends.

Grow up

[8PointBuck]

thread about 2 women, 0 pics. negged.

[DrumsNotDead]

tell her you're going to fist a man and she'll forget all about this other chick

[eatmycrackers]

Yeah I used to hang out with my work wife all the time. My gf would get a bit jelly but it is what it is she was my coworker for a few years can’t do much about it.

She was the best man.

[Ochosiete]

what are you studying???

[FAPhaggot]

Going out with a girl who you know wants your dink is pretty disrespectful IMO. Make sure gf brah knows she ain't your only option so she stays on her toes, but you don't actually have to follow through with this study sesh to make the dread game real.