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Thread: @Those of u who defend bullying
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03-02-2021, 10:43 AM #31
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03-02-2021, 10:45 AM #32
Bullying is no good, but kids need to be taught it's okay to defend themselves, not have to walk the other way.
As a kid I was allowed to stand up to my bullies. They would get in trouble, not me. These days both kids get in trouble, which just benefits the bully and teaches the kids that are being bullied to be passive and weak.Forever alone? Attraction and keeping the girl chasing you - http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=131498033
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03-02-2021, 10:53 AM #33
Do what I did anytime I was bullied: Throw hands till an adult pulls you off.
It's literally that simple, then you reward the kid for fighting back while acknowledging that they'll have to take their suspension.
"OMG what do we do about bullying where are the omnipresent sky gods that intervene for all bad things?!?!" Kids have to learn to handle themselves or it'll get much worse.
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03-02-2021, 11:15 AM #34
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03-02-2021, 11:17 AM #35
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03-02-2021, 11:18 AM #36
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03-02-2021, 12:29 PM #40
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child bullying is some brutal azz chit srs
- Kids have zero filter and will go 100% blackpill
- They will turn every1 against you, make you look like a loser
- Now nobody will want to make friends with you, thus becoming a loner
- Group activities becomes awkward cuz no1 wants you
- Spend your recess staring at a wall cuz no1 wants to play with you
- Lose all confidence in yourself, become timid and fearful, perpetuating a cycle of becoming more of a loser/loner
- Grades start to slip because you absolutely dread coming to school, parents on your azz now
- Feel like you have no one you can turn to because you think it will make things worse and you'd be the class snitch
- Imagine going through this 7-8 hours a day, 5 days a week
- No one recognizes your pain, just begin to hate school and hate life
- etc, etc
From there the kid is probably a few extra pushes from going completely off the edge. Would rather my kid if I had one beat the chit out of another kid then have him spiral to the bottom this way srs. Even if he loses at least he'll gain some respect for defending himself. But would probably put him in a karate/taekwondo class or sum chit.
I volunteered to head summer school activities for a few weeks with a bunch of 9 year olds. Noticed this one kid who wasn't exactly getting bullied, but the other kids would kind of avoid, not talk to and seemed like a loner. So I kept my eye on him a bit closer and tried to be extra nice and sociable to him. A week in it turned to full on bullying then pretty much told all the kids to cut the chit. Had a heart to heart with the littlebrah and found out he loves swimming and was good at it.
Made him team captain of a swimming competition so he would feel more involved and not be picked last. His team won (thanks to him), kids enjoyed themselves and forgot about the bullying and were actually mirin his swimming ability. Turns out all the kids learned he wasn't some weirdo so they all made friends with him and he enjoyed himself after.
His parents thanked me and said they never saw their kid so happy and excited (apparently he bragged about me to his parents lol ...) and they almost didn't sign him up for it because the kid was against it. Not to pat myself on the back or anything but it felt good seeing the littlebrah smile and that I prevented a future school shooter in the making (or so I tell myself, lol).positivity brah crew
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03-02-2021, 12:37 PM #41
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03-02-2021, 12:37 PM #42
I mean I guess but most kids aren't tough enough for that
yeah if I have kids I'm def telling them it's ok for them to beat the cht out of bullies, also have them in some kind of martial art. Also mirin your story brah, from my childhood memories all the teachers/adults when I was a kid were straight up npcs.
Wasn't a loner but whenever one of my friends would be disruptive in class i'd be the one to get in chit for it and vice versa. Just total npcs from my recollection.
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03-02-2021, 02:43 PM #43
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03-02-2021, 02:46 PM #44
Not true. The entire group supported him and lauded him as some hero for telling on the kid after he fuking baited the kid into it. And it is that bad. This kid can never run for office now. He probably will never get a scholarship. His reputation is ruined. All for what? Some piece of chit couldn't leave him alone.
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03-02-2021, 02:47 PM #45
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03-02-2021, 02:48 PM #46
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03-02-2021, 02:57 PM #47
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03-02-2021, 02:59 PM #48
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03-02-2021, 03:01 PM #49
It's funny because bullying is observed in many other primates as well. It seems to be the way social hierarchies are determined. However, what is interesting is that in the animal kingdom, those that are excessively bullied either turn around and murder the bully, establishing dominance, or are expelled or killed by the tribe. In our society, we don't really allow things to reach an extreme, so what happens is the weak little rich white popular kid maintains his status (like Trump) at the top of the chain because nobody straight took him down as a kid or beat any sense into him.
Then they get banned from taking the bus. That's how it should be. Let mom and dad drive their golden child to school. If they can't, too bad. Let the kid go become a drug dealer like he was going to anyway.
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03-02-2021, 03:01 PM #50
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03-02-2021, 03:03 PM #51
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03-02-2021, 03:03 PM #52
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03-02-2021, 03:03 PM #53
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03-02-2021, 03:05 PM #54
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depends on the kid and his resiliency, imo most kids don't respond positively to that. if anything a kid that grows up being bullied misses out a lot on social development and internalizes that negative energy through adulthood in some cases (some get past it).
there are ways you toughen up your kid without bullying lol ... discipline and morals for the most part.
as crude as it sounds sometimes fighting it out sounds nice, kids are too retarded to empathize and words won't reach them at times and they know not what they do. but they can prob understand a good ass whippin lol.positivity brah crew
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03-02-2021, 03:05 PM #55
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I don't think kids realize how fukking stupid all this chit is when they turn 18.
That being said, if my kid every bullied someone I'd take them straight to the other kids house and make them apologize in front of the parents and kid. If my dad ever caught be bullying someone else? Bro he'd kick my fukkin ass.*Mechanical Engineering Crew*
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03-02-2021, 03:07 PM #56
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