do most miscers not want marriage or is everyone lying?

[ErnieMccracken]

Yeah that is actually one thing I really like about being single. I’ve traveled a lot the past 9 years and have moved twice without having to consult anyone. I actually do really appreciate that freedom. Another good thing is no forced socialization with people I don’t really want to be around.

tfw when not a single cringe wedding, wine tasting, NPC dinner party, or instagram photo session on my calendar hnnnnnng

[BigBallsMcgee]

nuclear family is not dependent on marriage


goddamnit lol


these boomers with white sneakers, obese and their Sunday evening barbeque with their fat wives, autistic children are the worst kind

should be jailed

The nuclear family is defined by people committed enough to get married and have kids.

Again, it makes no sense to be willing to have a fukin kid but not get married. Child support is a bad as any other kind of divorce payment

[fishnbrah]

Imagine telling a wife you're packing up and moving across the country to be near family... tomorrow. Won't even start with the money side of it, but I'd never be able to do it with a wife.

you aint moving though.

[ErnieMccracken]

you aint moving though.

I just did, renob. And I don't plan on being here forever. I'm just a transplant who complains about how fukkin hot the summers are.

Now that AZ is a blue state, it's time to move to the next one.

[Silencespeaks]

tfw when not a single cringe wedding, wine tasting, NPC dinner party, or instagram photo session on my calendar hnnnnnng

Yep my calendar is empty and I like it that way. Just do whatever I want without any social obligations. Yeah dinner parties are the worst lmao.

[Lollaff]

Marriage is something I never really saw the point of until just recently, and I'm halfway to 33. I found out that I'm capable of falling deeply in love, and if I do that again I'll want to get married.

[ErnieMccracken]

Yep my calendar is empty and I like it that way. Just do whatever I want without any social obligations. Yeah dinner parties are the worst lmao.

The last dinner party I went to, a wife ROASTED her PhD husband for being poor in front of everyone. Said, "Well it's not like we have to worry about the increased taxes on $400k earners, thanks to Tim!"

[Silencespeaks]

The last dinner party I went to, a wife ROASTED her PhD husband for being poor in front of everyone. Said, "Well it's not like we have to worry about the increased taxes on $400k earners, thanks to Tim!"

The only thing more cringe than a dinner party is when people start discussing money at the dinner party. How can these people live with themselves. And they actually think this is FUN. I just can’t even.

[Kev1972]

Yeah that is actually one thing I really like about being single. I’ve traveled a lot the past 9 years and have moved twice without having to consult anyone. I actually do really appreciate that freedom. Another good thing is no forced socialization with people I don’t really want to be around.

Your first nuthouse closed so they had to find you another inpatient facility?

[Silencespeaks]

Your first nuthouse closed so they had to find you another inpatient facility?

Why are you obsessed with me Kev

Think about it logically

[Merovingian11]

Why are you obsessed with me Kev

Think about it logically

I doubt he is obsessed with you it's just that you post so fukkin much, and it's always about you.

You do realize you come across as severely narcissistic, right?

[daveez]

As a certified chad, I can bang hot birds as I please.

Yet if you offered me a 7/10 wife, who was gauranteed to be loyal and had good values/morals for raising kids, I'd pick that no doubt and get married.

Unfortunately, that gaurantee is not possible. The odds of failure are incredibly high and the risk is also ridiculous. I don't think many realise you will be stuck paying out your ass child support, to fund the mums and new bf date nights, some cuck is there with your kid just because he wants access to the mums puss, you don't get to see your kid everyday anymore.

I'm not spinning the dice on that outcome with the odds being so high.

[xeron]

You have to go to a foreign country if you ever want marriage. Marrying a Western woman, you are sacrificing too much of your freedom and financial capability. The law is on her side 99% of the time.

Now if you find a woman in say Russia, and chit hits the fan, you just run away if the law sides with her, if it even does in the first place. Sloots will sloot everywhere in the world except places like Afghanistan, thanks to globalism so don’t buy the “western women suck, find a village girl” for one moment. It’s just a way to get around the potential legal repercussions

And if you have kids, you better do it with a girl in a country that doesn’t have reciprocal child support agreements with us. If you google it there’s a list. Also don’t ever think about bringing her back to the US and getting her citizenship as many do who marry foreigners

[Silencespeaks]

I doubt he is obsessed with you it's just that you post so fukkin much, and it's always about you.

You do realize you come across as severely narcissistic, right?

I’m narcissistic in the sense of being selfish and focused on myself instead of other people.

I’m not narcissistic in the personality disorder sense though because I’m honest and loyal and I have good morals and empathy and I strive to do the right thing.

[messomi]

another thread hijacked by autism speaks.

[Merovingian11]

I’m narcissistic in the sense of being selfish and focused on myself instead of other people.

I’m not narcissistic in the personality disorder sense though because I’m honest and loyal and I have good morals and empathy and I strive to do the right thing.

Selfish yet loyal.

Yea it looks like that's worked out really well for you. /sarcasm

[BigElephant]

I would love to get married, but it's not a likely scenario at this point IMO. I'm not going to settle for someone I'm not attracted to, and I rarely have opportunities to meet potential partners anyways so my odds aren't good.

[Silencespeaks]

Selfish yet loyal.

Yea it looks like that's worked out really well for you. /sarcasm

It’s true though. My ex was cheating, not me. I never even talked to any guy socially. I was completely loyal the entire marriage AND 4 years afterwards.

[katya422]

Donald Trump "Wrong!" Gif

Men are for providing and protection.

Who needs providing when you have old crusty sloots who make 150k per month off of onlyfans?

Protection in this day and age is not needed. Dudes are so scared of #Metoo that they wouldn't dare do anything.

Name some things that women "need" from men. We have sperm donors these days and most women have an army of simps they can call on if they ever needed anything. Stop pretending yourself as if you're needed. You're not.

Remember, she's not yours, it's just your turn.

I hope I'm never that bitter and cynical.

The number of women who would be willing to accept that, and not have "their day", is practically non existent.

misc outlier again. No big wedding. Didn't care.

For the few miscers who have replied that they are getting married congratulations.

For the ones who want to, but think maybe it won't work out, you might consider a matchmaker.

https://www.nytimes.com/2020/05/09/f...he-screen.html

From the graphic that another miscer posted ITT getting married @ 30 or older seems to greatly improve the odds. Maybe because the couple have both had enough of single life, or are older and have a better idea of what they really want. College educated people also have a lower rate of divorce.

Lastly- in support of marriage if you plan to have children. It does matter. Children born to parents who live together, but aren't legally married, are much more likely to end up in a broken family at a younger age.

Researchers have well established that children raised by married parents do better on a wide array of outcomes. They have stronger relationships with their parents, particularly with their fathers. They are also much less likely to experience physical, emotional or sexual abuse. They have better health, exhibit less aggression, are less likely to engage in delinquent behavior, have greater educational achievement, and earn more as adults. They are also far less likely to live in poverty.

While unmarried mothers are often cohabiting with the father of their child at the time of the child’s birth, cohabiting relationships are far less stable than marriages. In a 2007 study researchers found that 50 percent of children born to cohabiting parents experienced a maternal partnership transition by their third birthday, compared to just 13 percent of children in married-parent families. Thus, children born into households where the parents are not married are much more likely to see their parents break up.

https://www.jec.senate.gov/public/in...AXMqnwxnl-hL4A

[hailnorwood]

I just did, renob. And I don't plan on being here forever. I'm just a transplant who complains about how fukkin hot the summers are.

Now that AZ is a blue state, it's time to move to the next one.

wheres the best place to live these days?

i always thot it was scottsdale/greenwich or somewhere in florida/texas

[ErnieMccracken]

wheres the best place to live these days?

i always thot it was scottsdale/greenwich or somewhere in florida/texas

Trick question. The best place is multiple places. Somewhere like Montana or Washington in the Summer, AZ or Florida in the winter. All the MONEYMOGGERS around here leave town in July and don't come back until November.

[hailnorwood]

Trick question. The best place is multiple places. Somewhere like Montana or Washington in the Summer, AZ or Florida in the winter. All the MONEYMOGGERS around here leave town in July and don't come back until November.

hmm interdasting.

[ErnieMccracken]

hmm interdasting.

Otherwise the best place is in california because they have nice weather all year. But LITERALLY every other aspect about living in California sucks so much ass. Wood much rather snowbird.

[donblaximus]

Lmao probably the dumbest thing I've ever seen posted.

Here's the median income American women are earning at every age:

16 to 19 years: $404 weekly/$21,008 annually
20 to 24 years: $508 weekly/$26,416 annually
25 to 34 years: $727 weekly/$37,804 annually
35 to 44 years: $877 weekly/$45,604 annually
45 to 54 years: $851 weekly/$44,252 annually
55 to 64 years: $869 weekly/$45,188 annually
65 years and older: $800 weekly/$41,600 annually

Yeah bro, I can look up statistics too. You are too dense to get my message. There are girls out there like that. You have to put yourself in the position to get to know them. LOL at quoting median income. We are talking about the creme of the crop bro.

[donblaximus]

Oh, come on. I hate these type of arguments. "Oh i know a 5 foot 2 dude that slayed dozens of 10's and is now married to a rich heart surgeon 10/10 hbb"



What % of women are making 500k? Probably .001 of them? And these women at the top .001 that you know are also attractive and hot desired women? And they are ALSO submissive to their accountant husbands?



Lol. I mean, there is always exceptions to every rule, im not saying its impossible. But dont think for a second that this scenario is common. Only way i could be like "ok that makes sense" its if this accountant dude looked like a more muscular version of Ashton Kutcher.

Who said it was common bro? Where did I say that? I am saying they exist. I know at least 10 women in this category and if you read my response I said they are not dimes or even 8's but there are submissive women that make good money.

Im not saying they are easy to get (even when they are not dimes). You have to be in their social circle to even interact with these kinds of women then have something pretty extraordinary to offer to get their attention.

[optimisticAir]

i'm legit scared of being ****ed financially.

connor mcgreggor isn't married yet and keeps pulling the ole' "yeah we'll get married soon, it'll be extravagant".

edit: i'm not trying to be negative btw, women do have a financial incentive to divorce you if you're trash. personally, i'm a legit dumpsterfire

[Bracket199]

Why is it that the only quality women are foreign women (i.e. non-western women). Does that mean foreign men (i.e. non-western men) are better also?

Also, some of you guys have serious vendettas towards women. I wouldn't be surprised if some don't feel safe around you.

[donblaximus]

Yeah agreed.

That scenario he posted is possible but not common. Might as well talk about winning the lottery then. It’s not realistic.

The highest earning woman I know irl is a cardiologist so I assume she makes in that range. Her husband is a high earning businessman so together they make a lot.

BUT they work all the time and the kids are raised by a nanny. So idk if that is such a great life. They have a mansion and their kids go to private school but they are always at work.

You go to any top tier private school in any major city and you can find a lot of couples like this. Wife is a doctor or lawyer, husband is owns multiple businesses etc. I never said it was "common" per the definition of common but it certainly exist and its nowhere near as rare as hitting the lottery. I myself know at least 20 women (most associated or friends with my wife) who are doctors making more than $250k. I have never met a lottery winner.

[DBoyDaRealest]

You go to any top tier private school in any major city and you can find a lot of couples like this. Wife is a doctor or lawyer, husband is owns multiple businesses etc. I never said it was "common" per the definition of common but it certainly exist and its nowhere near as rare as hitting the lottery. I myself know at least 20 women (most associated or friends with my wife) who are doctors making more than $250k. I have never met a lottery winner.

she's full of chit, as per usual she has no clue wtf she's talking about outside of her own bubble. Lmao at thinking a girl that makes a lot of money is like winning the lottery.

In a place like ATX, Chicago, NYC, any modern hip to live place, there are TONS of women with great professional careers making 6 figures. I know plenty of dudes dating women who make good money and are on a path to make even more.

[Atlastrength]

she's full of chit, as per usual she has no clue wtf she's talking about outside of her own bubble. Lmao at thinking a girl that makes a lot of money is like winning the lottery.

In a place like ATX, Chicago, NYC, any modern hip to live place, there are TONS of women with great professional careers making 6 figures. I know plenty of dudes dating women who make good money and are on a path to make even more.

Stay away from those women. You'll end up in a relationship based on business, have broken kids raised by schools and daycares, and then wonder why your kids don't respect you and turn into tik tok whores and drug addicts.

These women nowadays have been brainwashed into putting their motherly instincts into careers for companies that couldn't give a flying fuk about them, but it is so empowering! There is a reason why most of them are on tinder and zoloft and are borderline functioning alcoholics.