Girl at gym killing my vibes to workout

[Olympia2018]

Theres this girl at my gym who literally is there 4-5 hours a day 7x a week, she wears basically a brah and legging every day and looks like she spent at least 3-4 hours getting ready for the gym.

Now normally I don’t care and do my own thing but she almost daily tries to get my attention by bending over, working out next to me, just staring at me obviously across the gym. Theres been a few times Shes tried to make small talk to me too but I literally show no interest answer her question quick and get back to working out


The worst part about it is she’s like the gym rat/gym attention whore.

she talks to EVERY single dude in the gym, I’ve seen her hug old creepy guys, young guys, middle aged married men, you name it.

It’s become recent to where I see her clearly talking to other people in gym about me now as it’s been over a year and it’s a daily routine of hers to do this, not sure if sht talking or what but literally am annoyed to the point I’ve been cutting workouts short just to avoid any drama.


I’m not god but I know I’m definitely better looking then any dude she talks to in the gym I seen and can tel she’s salty now I didn’t give her my attention or an opportunity to reject me like all the other dudes.

I’m 80% confident she’s wanting me to approach her so she can turn me down, I been with enough girls to understand this type, her ego is definitely a priority and mine is just to workout


My vibes going in and working out feel out of whack because of it again lately


I prefer not to change gyms as I been going here over 10 years n she’s been here about a year and again, 4-5 hours average daily. And maybe spends an hour actually working out.

I’m in 30-45 n in out


Should I confront her n tel her to fuk off? Feel like if I do she’ll play stupid n call me crazy. If I tell her let’s just fuk she’ll definitely reject me cause she lives for this attention at the gym literally


What do?


Cliffs;

Op been going same gym 10 years

Attention whore girl goes 4-5 hours a day

Solid 9.5/10 minus the attention whoring

Knows everyone in gym and their life except me

Girl purposely tries to get ops attention EVERY time I go and is obvious

OP gets plenty of girls and doesn’t need or want

Op vibes getting thrown off after a year of this nonsense, and girl is getting worse by gossiping purposely doing it while looking at me to see if I’ll watch or listen

Want to confront but pretty sure she’ll deny and is clearly wanting attention

[AlphaMentality4]

Yo if you ain’t interested then ignore her lol

[20Mavs11]

Report her for harassment.

If not then not sure what you think others can do for you.

[EagleOfWar]

Know exactly the type she is. Don’t even think about her. Odds are whatever she’s saying is something small and out of her insecurities. You know the guys are gonna validate her to her face cuz they want to smash but they don’t care either way about you. 4-5 hrs a day??? Srsly???

[Cite]

The fact you said you are better looking than the rest shows you’re jealous that she’s giving other men more attention than you.

[koloxid]

what is wrong with you. that is a lot of words for someone you dont know or care about

reflect on how you will view this post in 2 years

[gmenfan40]

If she is gossiping about you, just keep ignoring her. If she really is a whore, eventually she will have enough of you ignoring her and probably drop her panties wanting to get railed out by you. (Ded fkn Srs)

Ignoring a woman is the easiest way to attract them...

[TheBannedBrah]

lmao why are you letting this affect you, just do your regular **** and go home. Who tf cares if she's trying to make you jealous you're not interested.

[badbl00d]

OP is just looking for us to give him a reason to stop being a ******* and talk to her.

[0rders]

Ignore her man, do your own thing and be the opposite of her


...but who was pics

[nattyandweak]

How do you know she spends 4-5 hrs a day at the gym ?

[justgenetics]

-Gets plenty of girls

-Rustled by a sloot giving old men attention

Choose 1, tbfh...

[Olympia2018]

Know exactly the type she is. Don’t even think about her. Odds are whatever she’s saying is something small and out of her insecurities. You know the guys are gonna validate her to her face cuz they want to smash but they don’t care either way about you. 4-5 hrs a day??? Srsly???

Yeah man... swear to god she walks around the gym 3 hours minimum a day gossiping. It’s insane.

One time I went last week she was at the front talking to the dude at check in for 45 mins straight, when I left she didn’t even move.

**** irks me

[Olympia2018]

Report her for harassment.

If not then not sure what you think others can do for you.

I don’t have proof she’s talking about me that’s what I’m stumped on what to do

[Olympia2018]

The fact you said you are better looking than the rest shows you’re jealous that she’s giving other men more attention than you.

Bro my girl makes 6 figures and has my name tatted on her and I’ve been with other woman while she stayed loyal to me. I don’t care lmao. I actually HATE girls/guys who socialize at the gym, I go there to train and get away from all that crap

[GM54]

what an absolute garbage thread. Pics? IG? come on. in the good old days you would be negged to oblivion

[aceroa]

I've had that happen too, girls staring at me through the mirror or doing their workouts close to me so I can see them. It's pretty lolzy sometimes.

Anyway, you should just put your headphones on and do your workout. You don't have to give them any attention, just ignore them.

[Olympia2018]

How do you know she spends 4-5 hrs a day at the gym ?

Because I see her nearly every single day and she never leaves, I’ve gone back because I left my card or go get protein when I realize I don’t have any at home and she never leaves lmao.


Literally two days ago I went at 2 pm my girl met me at gym we took my car n left the bmw and came back around 6 n went in to grab a shake n saw her talking to someone on the treadmill

Trust me, she never leaves other then to prepare for next day

[MadNinjaSkills]

Ignore as best as humanly possible. If she’s within vision range, face the other direction so she doesn’t keep catching your attention. Get in, focus on lifting, leave and don’t give her a second thought.

[Olympia2018]

what an absolute garbage thread. Pics? IG? come on. in the good old days you would be negged to oblivion

This thread not about a girl I want lol or I’d have that posted

[Olympia2018]

Ignore as best as humanly possible. If she’s within vision range, face the other direction so she doesn’t keep catching your attention. Get in, focus on lifting, leave and don’t give her a second thought.

Imagine doing that for nearly a year and when you do sometimes she’ll come to other side n ask me if I’m using something I’m clearly not, or when I walk past her she stares without looking away

For a year lol

[iwant2beswole]

Join the 5 am crew


Everyone is serious and is just getting a workout in before work. When I go in the evenings you get people that want to talk and socialize.

[ISmokeTooMuch]

you don't care about her yet you made a thread about her

she's probably lonely opie

just smash already and quit being a ******* and pretending you don't want to (dead fkn srs)

[MadNinjaSkills]

Imagine doing that for nearly a year and when you do sometimes she’ll come to other side n ask me if I’m using something I’m clearly not, or when I walk past her she stares without looking away

For a year lol

Is there a time frame she’s not there you could squeeze in your workout? Either super early or super late?

Unfortunately there isn’t much you can do other than avoid or change your schedule.

I know it sucks, but at least you can be thankful you don’t have to interact with her in any other aspect of life.

[yewotm8]

Sounds like she is mogging the absolute fuk out of you. And you definitely are being too friendly with her if she keeps trying to talk to you.

As for what she says to other people, caring about that is really dumb. And lol at being angry that people like to socialize in the gym. Why even go the gym if not for the other people? Just make a home gym and be an autist if that bothers you.

[Olympia2018]

Join the 5 am crew


Everyone is serious and is just getting a workout in before work. When I go in the evenings you get people that want to talk and socialize.

Honestly man that was the best, only issue is when you’re done and NOTHING is open lol. I may try to resort to early mornings I just feel like I don’t get much as a pump if not fully hydrated/fed

[Olympia2018]

Is there a time frame she’s not there you could squeeze in your workout? Either super early or super late?

Unfortunately there isn’t much you can do other than avoid or change your schedule.

I know it sucks, but at least you can be thankful you don’t have to interact with her in any other aspect of life.

She’s here pretty much 12-5 but I’ve tried 6-8 n seen her here n also 11 n seen too. I’d have to go super early or late to avoid which hasn’t been my schedule in years

[Olympia2018]

you don't care about her yet you made a thread about her

she's probably lonely opie

just smash already and quit being a ******* and pretending you don't want to (dead fkn srs)

Bro I’d have to see her every day after that lol and she literally talks to every single female and 80% of guys here. That would be a Terrible idea

[Zackad]

honestly brah who cares

if you aren't interested, ignore her. I would just remain polite and courteous and not confront her about it, or she def gonna spread some BS rumor that you're angry/gay/antisocial/weird/awkward or whatever.

Some people have so little going on in their life that the gym is literally their social time. I was guilty of this once myself. Sounds like she is one of those as well.

[Olympia2018]

honestly brah who cares

if you aren't interested, ignore her. I would just remain polite and courteous and not confront her about it, or she def gonna spread some BS rumor that you're angry/gay/antisocial/weird/awkward or whatever.

Some people have so little going on in their life that the gym is literally their social time. I was guilty of this once myself. Sounds like she is one of those as well.

That’s the vibe I’m getting is she’s telling other girls at the gym I’m prob gay because I don’t entertain her attention wh0ring.

She acts like the mom of the gym and knows everybody except me and can tell she’s prob more bothered by that then of me of her

Killing my vibe lifting for sure tho when she’s around.