Found out oneitis has been getting beaten her new boyfriend

[WiseOldApe]

So I just heard that my oneitits has been experiencing domestic violence at the hands of the new guy.

Really s*cks, because I wish I could be there for her to comfort her - but we're not together, and she basically chose him over me.

My dad used to beat on my mom and my sisters and me, so I just wish I could comfort her.

Why do girls always stay with the bad boys?

[BigBoyPants]

Sloots gonna sloot

[MyBaddBrah]

So I just heard that my oneitits has been experiencing domestic violence at the hands of the new guy.

Really s*cks, because I wish I could be there for her to comfort her - but we're not together, and she basically chose him over me.

My dad used to beat on my mom and my sisters and me, so I just wish I could comfort her.

Why do girls always stay with the bad boys?

If she stays with a guy that beats her, she has mental issues, something you want to stay clear from. And they do it because they're addicted to those low feelings. It's like the fat person that keeps eating, they know it's bad but they're subconsciously bent on self-destruction.

Also, she' probably your oneitis because you're familiar with victims of domestic violence.

[xeron]

once was seeing a girl for a month who use to sob about how her ex use to beat her and all this chit. I use to get heated thinking about it wanting to find the dude and do some crazy chit

Went away on vacation for a week, she got back with him after going on and on about how she’s never loved someone so quick like me, and they’ve been together ever since and this has been a couple years

Now every time a girl says she’s being physically abused I kind of laugh and think they’re full of it. Lying btches all of them

[DesiredUserphag]

Because they are retarded children

[Sinan09400]

lol 'oneitis' I assume you are 17 yo, dont bother with that kid.

she chose him. She chose to be treated that way. Good for her, move tf on before you waste your late teens.

[wagtail]

Stay out of it

Repped

[blissful88]

Because they are retarded children

[blissful88]

As a young fox I whiteknighted a girl in a bar that had just got punched by her boyfriend

Knocked him out cold





She hits me in the back of the head with a beer bottle in return









































Lesson learned phaggot

[MiniManletBrah]

Lol

[littlecaesars59]

u should go beat him up and save her op

[MEDITATE]

And this concerns you why?

[WiseOldApe]

Because I love her and it triggered me to think back to the days of my parents fighting and my dad being a douche, 'solving problems' with violence.

Just sucks to see it happen to another women I love.

Especially because domestic violence was one of the things I was traumatised by.

[8pieces]

What was your relationship with her? Friendzoned or just liked her from the distance?

As much as a bash sloots on here it takes a pretty weak man to beat a severely weaker person.

[plebmaximus]

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[ExPatriot]

[dabbmw2002]

If she stays with a guy that beats her, she has mental issues, something you want to stay clear from. And they do it because they're addicted to those low feelings. It's like the fat person that keeps eating, they know it's bad but they're subconsciously bent on self-destruction.

Also, she' probably your oneitis because you're familiar with victims of domestic violence.

This guy nailed it

[EarlA]

You should help him

[atgbrahsrs]

nice roll bread

if she aint your property she aint ur problem

[etet1919]

So I just heard that my oneitits has been experiencing domestic violence at the hands of the new guy.

Really s*cks, because I wish I could be there for her to comfort her - but we're not together, and she basically chose him over me.

My dad used to beat on my mom and my sisters and me, so I just wish I could comfort her.

Why do girls always stay with the bad boys?

I didn't read the responses. But do you feel comfortable shooting her a text or calling her and just asking her 'how she's doing?' without implying that you know anything?? You know, playing it cool (you don't want to anger this guy, obviously). See what her response is- if SHE brings it up. This would need to handled very delicately on anyone's part right now. Even calling the cops will infuriate an abusive guy like this. Tricky situation... Does she have a lot of male friends or brothers that can have a talk with him?

[NLnemesis]

So a girl chose a wife beating POS over you
And you still want to help her
Lel
Might as well ldar its over boyo

[DSTEE]

Lmao remember my first time a chick sobbed about how she gets beaten by her bf. Just told her to break up with him


Strong cuck op

[Silencespeaks]

Look up trauma bond if you want to understand the dynamic op.

[etet1919]

Look up trauma bond if you want to understand the dynamic op.

He wants to help her like any normal man would. He dosen't want to understand dynamics.

[samsbolton]

seen too many true crime shows about crazy ex's annihilating their gfs new partner..

go for it op, i dont like you anyway

[Silencespeaks]

He wants to help her like any normal man would. He dosen't want to understand dynamics.

He specifically asked:

Why do girls always stay with the bad boys?

The answer to why people stay in abusive relationships is trauma bonding.

[tnel00]

Dodged a bullet OP. Be grateful and no contact her ass

[etet1919]

He specifically asked:

Why do girls always stay with the bad boys?

The answer to why people stay in abusive relationships is trauma bonding.

How the f*ck cares why people stay? He already knows- he's seen it with his family. His ex could be in danger and he wants to help.

[MyBaddBrah]

How the f*ck cares why people stay? He already knows- he's seen it with his family. His ex could be in danger and he wants to help.

As you've seen ITT, there is no helping. When it comes down to it she's going to attack OP over the other guy. She needs to see a therapist for help. It's a complete waste of time. In fact it will probably further emotionally damage OP.

[Kev1972]

You realize it's hardwired into their dna to be with an alpha abuser over a beta simp?