my bf broke up with me

[RoxyFoxy22]

how to avoid breaking the NC ?

he really broke my heart, called me batchit crazy and all the qualities in the world are not worth the stress i cause him

the stress i cause him= his own thoughts about me looking for a better man

the relationship was on and off with the breaks he wanted bcuz i wanted him to actually date other women and see that he ll return

always returned and complained about how everything would be ok if i wouldn´t be looking for someone better

blablabla i just want to get over

[Ratfish]

you call frequent customers boyfriends?

[DrugsToGetBig]

stfu

[BritishTwit]

Not to worry OP, he's been making multiple threads a day on here about how you were the best, man.

[drvillain]

how to avoid breaking the NC ?

he really broke my heart, called me batchit crazy and all the qualities in the world are not worth the stress i cause him

the stress i cause him= his own thoughts about me looking for a better man

the relationship was on and off with the breaks he wanted bcuz i wanted him to actually date other women and see that he ll return

always returned and complained about how everything would be ok if i wouldn´t be looking for someone better

blablabla i just want to get over

What did you say/do that would make him think this way? Something happened

Wish we could get his perspective

[shmobin]

There is only one thing left to do at that point.


Post nudes.

[PassiveLearner]

ITT: OP dates an insecure man and is surprised he harasses her about other men

Just move the fuk on and find a guy who has inner strength not some boastful loser.

Also fuk you - noods or negs your avatar sucks

[ErnieMccracken]

Change your name to Sandwoman

He was the best.

[Thegainswarden]

It’s not you OP, it’s him.

[DDSF1]

The fuk are you babbling about bitch? Get to the fuking point...

[SamIAm1892]

You are what you attract. NO ****ing surprise there.

[Titansfan08]

Try women

[outfoxxed]

you call frequent customers boyfriends?

only if they tip her bruh

[keyboardworkout]

called me batchit crazy and all the qualities in the world are not worth the stress i cause him

[IlChosenOne]

Odd, calling your “manager” your boyfriend

Cheers

Not to worry OP, he's been making multiple threads a day on here about how you were the best, man.

Lol’d

[Silencespeaks]

I’m sorry

If you were on/off then it was not meant to be anyway.

Take some time off from dating to focus on yourself and do self care and think about your goals and what you want from a man. And then after that recovery time you can date new people and find someone who is a better fit for you.

[PassiveLearner]

I’m sorry

If you were on/off then it was not meant to be anyway.

Take some time off from dating to focus on yourself and do self care and think about your goals and what you want from a man. And then after that recovery time you can date new people and find someone who is a better fit for you.

Also OP pls take advice from this 50+ forever alone susan

It'll workout great

Promise.

[Silencespeaks]

Also OP pls take advice from this 50+ forever alone susan

It'll workout great

Promise.

She is young so she is in a way better position than me. She can actually move on and find someone better. It’s realistic for her because she is only in her early twenties so she still has max dating options.

[atgbrahsrs]

come to the UK to be with me


no simpology

[PassiveLearner]

She is young so she is in a way better position than me. She can actually move on and find someone better. It’s realistic for her because she is only in her early twenties so she still has max dating options.

just playin SS

[kimm4]

the relationship was on and off with the breaks he wanted bcuz i wanted him to actually date other women and see that he ll return

This^^is never a good sign.

All I can say is focus on yourself, try to keep busy and move on.

[drvillain]

I think he's right considering you LITERALLY posted in one of my dating topics saying something like "the hard part about being a female is that we're always looking for something better". SRS

good to know. Now imagine how this made a guy with confidence issues feel sensing this IRL

[Avalanche3319]

She is young so she is in a way better position than me. She can actually move on and find someone better. It’s realistic for her because she is only in her early twenties so she still has max dating options.

Mental illness doesn’t care what age group you’re in

[RoxyFoxy22]

What did you say/do that would make him think this way? Something happened

long story short: 1 of my exs is a good friend of mine and a surgeon. he works with my friend who is a nurse. we met some time ago at the hospital and he performed a treatment that is very low for his job description (injected capillaries-broken blood vessels) just because he wanted to see me, while i should have been treated by my nurse friend. bf knows my ex still loves me

now bf believes i will always be obsessed with dating/marrying guys with ´prestigious careers´ but not this guy because he cheated, however, i will waste his time while looking for a better man to settle

which is not true, i sometimes push him to do better for himself, not for others to see and also i don´t compare him with others, the socio-economic environment plays a huge role in becoming a surgeon for example. my ex comes from wealth, not like my actual bf. i don´t care to compare

[OLawdQuan]

Post pics of bf ****git

[DigDeeper1]

long story short: 1 of my exs is a good friend of mine and a surgeon. he works with my friend who is a nurse. we met some time ago at the hospital and he performed a treatment that is very low for his job description (injected capillaries-broken blood vessels) just because he wanted to see me, while i should have been treated by my nurse friend. bf knows my ex still loves me

now bf believes i will always be obsessed with dating/marrying guys with ´prestigious careers´ but not this guy because he cheated, however, i will waste his time while looking for a better man to settle

which is not true, i sometimes push him to do better for himself, not for others to see and also i don´t compare him with others, the socio-economic environment plays a huge role in becoming a surgeon for example. my ex comes from wealth, not like my actual bf. i don´t care to compare

How about you send me noodz and I will give you constructive criticism into where it all went wrong

[Kiop]

sell more
anal dildo videos
u stupid sloot

[RoxyFoxy22]

I’m sorry

If you were on/off then it was not meant to be anyway.

Take some time off from dating to focus on yourself and do self care and think about your goals and what you want from a man. And then after that recovery time you can date new people and find someone who is a better fit for you.

I have to stay away from him rn, because I saw him as my best friend in the last period of time and he isn´t, i am again alone with all my plans and thoughts about the future. Nobody to talk to like I could talk to him. He was great about that, always encouraged all my dreams no matter how stupid they were.

I think he's right considering you LITERALLY posted in one of my dating topics saying something like "the hard part about being a female is that we're always looking for something better". SRS

I pushed him to do better for himself, not for others to see. Also yes, females are attracted to men that can be providers, this is science, not me.

This^^is never a good sign.

All I can say is focus on yourself, try to keep busy and move on.

I tried to think about my hobbies and to restart some. Never wanted him to feel caged, but free and see himself how most people are. I think I offered him much more than he deserved, not sorry for it, but this is why he returned and maaaaaaybe the reason why he never appreciated anything.

[atgbrahsrs]

long story short: 1 of my exs is a good friend of mine and a surgeon. he works with my friend who is a nurse. we met some time ago at the hospital and he performed a treatment that is very low for his job description (injected capillaries-broken blood vessels) just because he wanted to see me, while i should have been treated by my nurse friend. bf knows my ex still loves me

now bf believes i will always be obsessed with dating/marrying guys with ´prestigious careers´ but not this guy because he cheated, however, i will waste his time while looking for a better man to settle

which is not true, i sometimes push him to do better for himself, not for others to see and also i don´t compare him with others, the socio-economic environment plays a huge role in becoming a surgeon for example. my ex comes from wealth, not like my actual bf. i don´t care to compare

uwot mate?


Medical school base and then you make a doctor salary whilst you train for surgeon? dafuq do the do it in NL, should be like rest of EU

brb barring certain people from surgeons

[DSTEE]

long story short: 1 of my exs is a good friend of mine

No need to say anything else. Anyone who has the slightest respect for their partners won't be "friends" with any exes. You reap what you sow