I suck with women. I dont even know where to start besides taking time out and just seeing them as people and trying to learn conversation skills.
I did okay when I was younger, I was a complete ******* and got sex that way. Now im older and I want something deeper and meaningful. Im just so lost.
Just wondering if anyone found any books helpful?
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02-22-2021, 11:21 AM #1Registered User
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Any books that really helped you out?
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02-23-2021, 09:22 AM #2Registered User
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How to be a 3% Man.
I was already pretty socially confident and "have my chit together" so to speak but that helped me understand the dating game a bit better.
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02-23-2021, 01:51 PM #3Registered User
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arite. paperback or audio?Originally Posted by skinnyfat88
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02-23-2021, 03:42 PM #4Registered User
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nope, selfhelp books are bull**** that you use to trick your brain into pretending to be productive instead of getting real life practice
Free Men Don't Ask
You Wouldn't Download a Gun
https://ctrlpew.com/
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02-23-2021, 03:44 PM #5#SemiLiftingBrah
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Mein Kampf, ups wrong thread
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02-23-2021, 05:24 PM #6Starvation Mode GO!
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No more Mr. Nice guy.
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02-24-2021, 02:57 AM #7Registered User
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already readOriginally Posted by NitrogenWidget
Very interesting how upbringing plays a big role in becoming a nice guy. this is me to a T.
I am naturally a very emphatic person and like helping people. Its hard finding a middle ground and having people see that. Im not a push over though. some girl had just moved her car at work while it was snowing and i go to tell her she left her lights on, she asks if I can turn them off and I laugh and say no.
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02-24-2021, 03:31 AM #8Registered User
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Models by Mark Manson.
It's all you will need.
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02-24-2021, 04:03 AM #9Registered User
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Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. You can also check out Epictetus and Seneca and some of the other great philosophers. Modern technology hasn't changed how our brains work and these guys had a lot of it figured out thousands of years ago. It's a shame so much of that knowledge is lost or ignored.
Better Bachelor and Coach Greg Adams on Youtube. Excellent advice on modern women and dating and red flags and what to avoid.
Jordan Peterson's personality and mythology lectures on Youtube. His 12 steps for life is basically a condensed version.
There's a ton of YouTube content out there that's mostly a rehashing of advice and trying to sell you what these guys give you directly for free.Motorcycle crew
Army veteran crew
One Meal a day crew
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02-24-2021, 11:24 AM #10Registered User
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gonna check out Meditations, thanksOriginally Posted by Kev1972
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02-24-2021, 01:32 PM #11Registered User
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Audio of How to be a 3% Man.
I also listened to No More Mr.Nice Guy but felt it wasn't as relevant because i couldn't relate to the traumatic experiences.
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02-25-2021, 11:15 AM #12Registered User
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Models by Mark Manson and youtube.com/socialanimal is where I would start
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