Is wanting a healthy weight woman too much to ask?

[MGTOWpulpit]

I'm on two different dating sites (not swiping apps), and it seems 80% of women are overweight and obese. Like look like a puffer fish, not a "few pounds over". It's to the point that I'm having to search a neighbor state just because a healthy woman with a few basic interests in common with myself come along so rarely.

I'm only getting a "hi" or wink from an obese woman once or twice per month. I'm 5'10 / 170lbs. I'm not even overweight let alone obese! I'm in decent shape.

What is going on? I'm not looking for a hottie or poster girl, just an an average woman of normal BMI.

It's such a low bar to pass.

[JaundiceBiscuit]

I'm on two different dating sites (not swiping apps), and it seems 80% of women are overweight and obese. Like look like a puffer fish, not a "few pounds over". It's to the point that I'm having to search a neighbor state just because a healthy woman with a few basic interests in common with myself come along so rarely.

I'm only getting a "hi" or wink from an obese woman once or twice per month. I'm 5'10 / 170lbs. I'm not even overweight let alone obese! I'm in decent shape.

What is going on? I'm not looking for a hottie or poster girl, just an an average woman of normal BMI.

It's such a low bar to pass.

I just want one without tattoos and a nose ring

[DustinTheHuss]

LOL I see you returned with the same recycled thread.

[GeezersPalace]

I'm on two different dating sites (not swiping apps), and it seems 80% of women are overweight and obese. Like look like a puffer fish, not a "few pounds over". It's to the point that I'm having to search a neighbor state just because a healthy woman with a few basic interests in common with myself come along so rarely.

I'm only getting a "hi" or wink from an obese woman once or twice per month. I'm 5'10 / 170lbs. I'm not even overweight let alone obese! I'm in decent shape.

What is going on? I'm not looking for a hottie or poster girl, just an an average woman of normal BMI.

It's such a low bar to pass.

Whats your Job?
What City are you in?
How tall are you?
Are you American? *Most Americans are beta losers with **** personalities, no wonder these chics don't wanna date the mediocre ones

[elterrible987]

u just said yourself you want the top 20%

Those belong to Chad.

There is a cheat code to this but most guys are scared to use it

[GeezersPalace]

u just said yourself you want the top 20%

Those belong to Chad.

There is a cheat code to this but most guys are scared to use it

Mogmax?

[eod8989]

Everyone is fat and bloated now days

And tall

Idk what happened. Just 20 years ago it wasn't like this i remember

[Kev1972]

Quality women aren't on dating sites. They are getting hit up constantly in real life and on social media. Get off trash sites like tinder and plenty of whales. All you will find are used up disgusting old fat cum buckets who aren't even worth using to bust a nut. Get into social activities and widen your social circle to meet quality women.

[DustinTheHuss]

Quality women aren't on dating sites. They are getting hit up constantly in real life and on social media. Get off trash sites like tinder and plenty of whales. All you will find are used up disgusting old fat cum buckets who aren't even worth using to bust a nut. Get into social activities and widen your social circle to meet quality women.

There's no "real life" now where you get hit up when females are sitting in their houses on the Misc or social media.. The guys who hit me up on IG are just 20somethings with no future.

Social activities are hard to come by in the pandemic. The county allows tennis, but the men are married or gay.

[MGTOWpulpit]

Quality women aren't on dating sites. They are getting hit up constantly in real life and on social media. Get off trash sites like tinder and plenty of whales. All you will find are used up disgusting old fat cum buckets who aren't even worth using to bust a nut. Get into social activities and widen your social circle to meet quality women.

The women offline are going for Chad as well.

[DustinTheHuss]

The women offline are going for Chad as well.

Well why don't you just date them and work together to maintain a healthier lifestyle? Maybe they are alone, sad and eating fast food?

Food is very addictive in our culture.

[iloveus]

Food is very addictive in our culture.

Not really

[DustinTheHuss]

Not really

Yeah it is. They put all kinds of additives, sugar and sodium in Western society. Sugar and sodium are definitely addictive. I'm addicted to both and have to steer clear late at night as I don't buy chips and Nutella, but my family does.

Nutella and frosting are like crack to me.

[iloveus]

Yeah it is. They put all kinds of additives, sugar and sodium in Western society. Sugar and sodium are definitely addictive. I'm addicted to both and have to steer clear late at night as I don't buy chips and Nutella, but my family does.

Nutella and frosting are like crack to me.

[DustinTheHuss]

Well the Nutella is my daughter's so she'll kill me if I eat it, and I don't buy sugary things. Sugar is known to be extremely addictive. Some say it's more addictive than Pepsi.

[iloveus]

Well the Nutella is my daughter's so she'll kill me if I eat it, and I don't buy sugary things. Sugar is known to be extremely addictive. Some say it's more addictive than Pepsi.

Pepsi is sugar and color dye and flavored syrup

[DustinTheHuss]

Pepsi is sugar and color dye and flavored syrup

I'm using a Misc. code name silly. Pepsi actually is very addictive to me. When I was training with an IFBB pro she had me do a cheat meal of Coke, pizza and ice cream. Just the Coke itself was weird as I always drank diet (which I stopped as that's also bad). The Coke made me feel like I was high and pumped full of happy feelings.

Why on earth would you think that sugar and salt aren't addictive? Why is America obese? The processed food is full of sugar, salt and additives. That's the stuff that tastes good and is addictive.

Did you see Supersize Me?

[snailsrus]

Yeah it is. They put all kinds of additives, sugar and sodium in Western society. Sugar and sodium are definitely addictive. I'm addicted to both and have to steer clear late at night as I don't buy chips and Nutella, but my family does.

Nutella and frosting are like crack to me.

im a salt person but sweets I don’t care for much. And I hate chocolate. Idk I find Netflix and work more addicting than food

[DustinTheHuss]

im a salt person but sweets I don’t care for much. And I hate chocolate. Idk I find Netflix and work more addicting than food

You are so fortunate! I have an eating disorder (anorexia, bulimia, compulsive overeating.....it changes over time), so food is what gives me dopamine highs and lows the most. That and men

My Dad would eat a whole bag of Oreos when I was growing up, but he was a runner so he never put on the weight.

[snailsrus]

You are so fortunate! I have an eating disorder (anorexia, bulimia, compulsive overeating.....it changes over time), so food is what gives me dopamine highs and lows the most. That and men

My Dad would eat a whole bag of Oreos when I was growing up, but he was a runner so he never put on the weight.

ohhhh ya well that’s different. Ya addiction is a bish. I’m a recovering alcoholic (5 years) and that was the hardest thing I’ve ever done. My step mom has an ED and she’s been trying to recover for 20 years but still struggles. I couldn’t imagine having to moderate drinking rather than quitting all together. But you can’t just stop eating. I think the only thing easier with an eating disorder recovery vs alcohol is the psychical withdraw of alcohol is absolutely horrible and deadly

[DustinTheHuss]

ohhhh ya well that’s different. Ya addiction is a bish. I’m a recovering alcoholic (5 years) and that was the hardest thing I’ve ever done. My step mom has an ED and she’s been trying to recover for 20 years but still struggles. I couldn’t imagine having to moderate drinking rather than quitting all together. But you can’t just stop eating. I think the only thing easier with an eating disorder recovery vs alcohol is the psychical withdraw of alcohol is absolutely horrible and deadly

Congrats on being sober!

When I was hospitalized for anorexia I developed horrific anxiety, so they prescribed benzos. Now I'm getting off of benzos years later, and the withdrawal can be deadly like alcohol. EDs are tough to really recover from as you have to eat, and it's hard to find the right balance.

I have some family members that jumped from alcohol to sugary treats because, well, alcohol is sugar. It's good that you didn't!

[snailsrus]

Congrats on being sober!

When I was hospitalized for anorexia I developed horrific anxiety, so they prescribed benzos. Now I'm getting off of benzos years later, and the withdrawal can be deadly like alcohol. EDs are tough to really recover from as you have to eat, and it's hard to find the right balance.

I have some family members that jumped from alcohol to sugary treats because, well, alcohol is sugar. It's good that you didn't!

I drank strait gin, no sugar in that. I didn’t even crave sugar when I quit, but I also had a lot of stomach issues, Kidney and pancreas. It’s good you’re getting off those too. It’s odd at this day and age those are the main thing to use for alcohol withdraw when there are non addictive anti-convulsants, I know cause I’m epileptic and take them

[DustinTheHuss]

I drank strait gin, no sugar in that. I didn’t even crave sugar when I quit, but I also had a lot of stomach issues, Kidney and pancreas. It’s good you’re getting off those too. It’s odd at this day and age those are the main thing to use for alcohol withdraw when there are non addictive anti-convulsants, I know cause I’m epileptic and take them

You're right, they talk about using benzos for alcohol withdrawal.

They have me on anti-seizure meds to help me get off of benzos.

You are lucky you don't like sweets

[Darkius]

Don't settle for a fat one. Imagine having to pay alimony to one. Many think they are owed it.

You don't have to sleep with fat to prove you are at least that good. Have some self respect. Be voluntarily celibate. Get hobbies, a good job, and enjoy your life.

[Darkius]

Quality women aren't on dating sites. They are getting hit up constantly in real life and on social media. Get off trash sites like tinder and plenty of whales. All you will find are used up disgusting old fat cum buckets who aren't even worth using to bust a nut. Get into social activities and widen your social circle to meet quality women.

This. I've been on lots of dating sites. Tons of fat women. No picture 100% means fat even if stats say 120 pounds. I met several in person. Don't waste your time.

[JaundiceBiscuit]

This. I've been on lots of dating sites. Tons of fat women. No picture 100% means fat even if stats say 120 pounds. I met several in person. Don't waste your time.

my buddy at work is 50yo former Coast Guard. Lined up a date at some local joint. Sat in parking lot and watched a land whale get out of her car and walk inside. lol he bailed and ghosted. She had a bunch of cut off head shot photos and deceiving selfies on her profile.

[Darkius]

Both sexes have obese people, but it seems to me there are far more obese women than obese men. That is just what I've noticed in several large sample spaces in person. I wonder why that is.

I also read that male escorts primary get two types of customers: older gay men, and obese women who want to be gone down on.

I hope the children of these obese women are not being molested by them since they can't get an adult.


Slim women have a line of slim guys waiting for them. They don't need to use dating apps. Be very careful asking them out at work. Too direct or too beating around the bush and you can get accused of sexual harassment. Employers don't want to pay for lawyers and will just get rid of you and say you were too slow or some other excuse. That's what I was told by someone who got fired. They can also get you fired if they have a friend who wants your job.

[Darkius]

my buddy at work is 50yo former Coast Guard. Lined up a date at some local joint. Sat in parking lot and watched a land whale get out of her car and walk inside. lol he bailed and ghosted. She had a bunch of cut off head shot photos and deceiving selfies on her profile.

I wish I would have done that a multiple times. I was too polite and non assertive and just bought them dinner and left it at that. I even get contacted by ones I did not contact.

It is true that slim, plane looking women are messaged a ton. But the obese ones don't get messaged, and don't get sex. Many even admit it. They are 90% of who is online.


So my question is, where are all the women at, if not online?
I think the answer is that with the obesity epidemic, it does not matter where they are. The thin ones are in relationships. You'd have to break one up to get one.

[Darkius]

Be careful with sleeping with a woman in a relationship. If the boyfriend finds out, he may pressure her to either admit to cheating or press charges for raping her to prove to him she did not cheat. He also feels entitled to his anger, since he is likely on the hook for alimony or child support if she dumps him. She also might need his money and do what he says.



Another reason many women are not dating is they get government benefits (your tax dollars) and so don't need your other money. Once they don't need your money, they no longer need to stay thin.


There also are professional women who don't need your money and let their looks go. It just depends on their sex drive. Some just hire male escorts to go down on them.

[RyanJLuu]

I mean big women can lose weight. As long as they have good personality, pretty, and are driven, you can push them to lose weight. If not they aren't the one.