I mean, I’ll probably do this anyway, but looking for opinions.
Long story short: Get along super well with girl at work. Chemistry is obvious. I’m not incel so I know when a girl is into me. I do well. Anyway, chemistry is legit. She’s an intern so leaving soon so I don’t mind going after her.
I haven’t asked for her number, I’d def get it, because i didn’t really need it. We’d spend a ton of time at work flirting so no reason to text after, didn’t want to overdo it. I never asked when her last day was and it “may” have been last week. Which I missed as I took the day off.
I know a coworker has her number(all my coworkers are women) if it was her last day, I plan on having my friend/coworker text the intern my number saying I’d love it if she kept in touch and had I know it was her last day we’d have exchanged contact info.
No social media so that’s out of the question. Good idea/bad idea. Not worrying about looking “beta” I feel confident shes into me, been so busy I didn’t even pay attention to even her last day could be.
Long story short, good idea to get my number to a girl through a friend?
If she’s in monday and it wasn’t her last day I intend on getting it Monday, but should I have ****ed up, I feel like this is my only way
Fwiw, I 100% know she was into me and all of that. It just totally slipped my mind and I never took her out before I didn’t want to date a coworker.....again
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03-20-2021, 04:19 PM #1Registered User
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Stupid embarrassing question
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03-20-2021, 04:22 PM #2Registered User
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If she's so into you then why didn't she ever ask for your number?Originally Posted by SSM12
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03-20-2021, 04:32 PM #3Registered User
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Valid point.Originally Posted by Imnew1
Regardless I can only play the cards as they lay now. Could have been the same reason I never asked her.
Don’t really care. I’d rather take a poor angle shot than no shot.Proof Angels exist: OzleyASMR
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03-20-2021, 04:36 PM #4Bonrard
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sounds like you just answered your own question, bro. The worst that happens is she says no, and you risk being embarrassed because of a girl you will likely never see again anyways.Originally Posted by SSM12
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03-20-2021, 04:53 PM #5Registered User
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I’m not really worried about her texting me if I ask/give her mine. I’m worried shed say yes to a date. I think that is why I wasn’t thinking about it before and I really want to get her number in person so I’m sorta pissed if getting it to her through a mutual acquaintance is my only way but I know there was something there. Atleast worth enough to keep in touch or try Atleast.Originally Posted by DolphinPilot
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03-20-2021, 05:13 PM #6Bonrard
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Yeah after I lost my job (long story; who cares) I started throwing out lines to a bunch of people I used to work with, on linkedin. Mostly made that profile so I can keep in touch with former co-workers. Sent out a few messages to a few women I casually flirted with. Things may or may not happen, but the line has been thrown out there. That's all that matters at this point.
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03-20-2021, 07:08 PM #7Registered User
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Lol all the stupid embarrassing questions that have been in this thing and you think that is a stupid embarrassing question? This is one of the few normal questions xD If there is obvious chemistry and you guys always flirted and stayed close at work, go for it. If she says no then it's not big deal. But she might say yes so just do it.
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03-21-2021, 05:43 PM #8Registered User
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Thanks. Just feels a little betaOriginally Posted by CheeseFreak
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03-22-2021, 07:32 AM #9Registered User
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Have your female co worker text her your number.
"Ssm12 wanted me to pass on his #."
When she hits you up with a "hey it's ****." You're in.Ol' 71st street. The devil that birthed me.
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03-22-2021, 07:52 AM #10Registered User
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Not at allOriginally Posted by SSM12
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03-22-2021, 01:10 PM #11Registered User
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No matter, she was in today. Number received. Shes here until mid April, so we are good!Originally Posted by CheeseFreak
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03-27-2021, 05:11 AM #12Registered User
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Great! I hope it's all going wellOriginally Posted by SSM12
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