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    Question Is getting divorced while having little kids the worse thing that can happen to a man

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    Originally Posted by JayJ350 View Post
    Worse than what?
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    No, because any decent looking man will be able to score younger poon within 6 months of his divorce if he has even an ounce of confidence. It would be worse for the kids, who will likely grow up with developmental or behavior problems due to the psychological trauma of the separation (speaking from experience).
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    Originally Posted by GuineaDago585 View Post
    No, because any decent looking man will be able to score younger poon within 6 months of his divorce if he has even an ounce of confidence. It would be worse for the kids, who will likely grow up with developmental or behavior problems due to the psychological trauma of the separation (speaking from experience).
    A responsible dad will feel double the pain his kids go through, because his kids go through.. Cheers to all dads n mums who go through this and after divorce still try to make the best of it for the kids
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    Originally Posted by Silencespeaks View Post
    Terminal cancer
    Especially when you realize your corpse won't even be cold before your lovely wife is riding another dink and your kids calling some other ******* Daddy (and maybe get plowed by him, too).

    Yeah, that's worse.
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    Sounds like one of the worst situations to be in for a proper father.

    Originally Posted by GuineaDago585 View Post
    No, because any decent looking man will be able to score younger poon within 6 months of his divorce if he has even an ounce of confidence. It would be worse for the kids, who will likely grow up with developmental or behavior problems due to the psychological trauma of the separation (speaking from experience).
    But who was father caring foremost for his kids?
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    Originally Posted by GuineaDago585 View Post
    No, because any decent looking man will be able to score younger poon within 6 months of his divorce if he has even an ounce of confidence. It would be worse for the kids, who will likely grow up with developmental or behavior problems due to the psychological trauma of the separation (speaking from experience).
    most guys can't financially recover from that chit though.

    plus alimoney, child support, etc
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    I actually have been giving divorce a lot of thought this past year and my new opinion is that people should stay together for the kids. Only exceptions are physical abuse or addictions. Any normal problems or cheating etc I think you should just accept to keep the family together for the kids.
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    Originally Posted by Silencespeaks View Post
    I actually have been giving divorce a lot of thought this past year and my new opinion is that people should stay together for the kids. Only exceptions are physical abuse or addictions. Any normal problems or cheating etc I think you should just accept to keep the family together for the kids.
    that just builds resentment. especially while still in a marriage. kids pick up on that.

    all you're doing is teaching them that there aren't consequences to adultery
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    Originally Posted by Muscle2021 View Post
    You think kids don't pick up that mom and dad can't stand each other?
    I think you can hide it. I think it’s still better than divorce.
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    Originally Posted by Sarevoke75 View Post
    that just builds resentment. especially while still in a marriage. kids pick up on that.

    all you're doing is teaching them that there aren't consequences to adultery
    You can hide it. You don’t have to tell them anything.

    Divorce is pretty much the worst thing that can happen to kids. It should be avoided at almost any cost.
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    Originally Posted by Silencespeaks View Post
    You can hide it. You don’t have to tell them anything.

    Divorce is pretty much the worst thing that can happen to kids. It should be avoided at almost any cost.
    Most people aren't award winning actors/actresses. No way would I be able to hide my feelings on an ongoing basis. Plus your kids are growing up seeing a loveless marriage and that's not good modeling for them.
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    Originally Posted by Silencespeaks View Post
    I actually have been giving divorce a lot of thought this past year and my new opinion is that people should stay together for the kids. Only exceptions are physical abuse or addictions. Any normal problems or cheating etc I think you should just accept to keep the family together for the kids.
    Yes, people should stay together through cheating. I think the majority of couples in past generations probably knowingly did this.
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    Originally Posted by Silencespeaks View Post
    You can hide it. You don’t have to tell them anything.

    Divorce is pretty much the worst thing that can happen to kids. It should be avoided at almost any cost.
    What if the husband is a SNIFFMAXXING miscer??
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    Originally Posted by Muscle2021 View Post
    I'll be honest I don't think you know chit about raising kids if you think you can hide things like that
    True idk anything about raising kids but I feel like I could hide it.
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    Originally Posted by Legz422 View Post
    Most people aren't award winning actors/actresses. No way would I be able to hide my feelings on an ongoing basis. Plus your kids are growing up seeing a loveless marriage and that's not good modeling for them.
    Idk I think I could do it.
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    Hope you’re not going through it op but I would imagine it’s one of the worst things a man can go through other than a terminal illness at a relatively young age.
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    Especially when you realize your corpse won't even be cold before your lovely wife is riding another dink and your kids calling some other ******* Daddy (and maybe get plowed by him, too).

    Yeah, that's worse.
    I don't know about that. A very close friend of mine just lost his battle to stomach cancer (barely made 3 yrs) the week before Christmas. He was only 44. Left a wife, (together a little over 20 yrs, married for 15) and a 13 yr old daughter.

    They are completely lost and devastated. I can't even imagine ever having to go through anything so heart breaking...
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    Originally Posted by mesobuild View Post
    Yes, people should stay together through cheating. I think the majority of couples in past generations probably knowingly did this.
    Yes

    If you get married there’s probably a 50% + chance that there will be cheating. I think it should just be accepted as part of the risk and cost of marriage.

    This is a new opinion btw that I formed last year. Prior to 2020 I believed people should break up after cheating.
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    Originally Posted by kimm4 View Post
    I don't know about that. A very close friend of mine just lost his battle to stomach cancer (barely made 3 yrs) the week before Christmas. He was only 44. Left a wife, (together a little over 20 yrs, married for 15) and a 13 yr old daughter.

    They are completely lost and devastated. I can't even imagine ever having to go through anything so heart breaking...
    I’m sorry about your friend.

    There will be new men orbiting her right away to provide “support” though. It’s a common strategy to prey on vulnerable grieving widows. Wish I was joking but srs.
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    Originally Posted by kimm4 View Post
    I don't know about that. A very close friend of mine just lost his battle to stomach cancer (barely made 3 yrs) the week before Christmas. He was only 44. Left a wife, (together a little over 20 yrs, married for 15) and a 13 yr old daughter.

    They are completely lost and devastated. I can't even imagine ever having to go through anything so heart breaking...
    Obviously I'm generalizing, but of the 3 young married family men I've known who died, all were replaced within 3 months despite their wives being "devastated." I'd be shocked if this guy's wife wasn't already interviewing 2 or 3 new orbiters on the down low. That's life, son.

    I don't really consider it a character flaw srs. It's part of female DNA that goes all the way back to the days men were crushing each other's skulls in with rocks. The women who survived were the ones who disregarded the last guy and quickly moved on to a new one. Loyalty is primarily a male trait, not a female one.
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    Originally Posted by mesobuild View Post
    Yes, people should stay together through cheating. I think the majority of couples in past generations probably knowingly did this.
    Hell no. The last thing a woman should do is teach her daughter to be low value. A mother needs to put self esteem in her daughter. I don't think staying with a cheater it showing a young girl you have more value then your pussy....
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    Originally Posted by ErnieMccracken View Post
    Obviously I'm generalizing, but of the 3 young married family I've known who died, all were replaced within 3 months despite their wives being "devastated." I'd be shocked if this guy's wife wasn't already interviewing 2 or 3 new dudes on the down low. That's life, son.

    I don't really consider it a character flaw srs. It's part of female DNA that goes all the way back to the days men were crushing each other's skulls in with rocks. The women who survived were the ones who disregarded the last guy and quickly moved on to a new one. Loyalty is primarily a male trait, not a female one.
    Pls explain why I didn’t date at all for 4 years after my divorce. I feel like this is very atypical. I wish I was normal and could have just monkey branched like a normal person. Why am I so weird.
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    Originally Posted by mesobuild View Post
    Yes, people should stay together through cheating. I think the majority of couples in past generations probably knowingly did this.
    Yeah, no.

    Originally Posted by Silencespeaks View Post
    Idk I think I could do it.
    Add that to the normal stress of raising kids then have to be an award winning actress around those kids 24/7? Doubt it.

    Originally Posted by kimm4 View Post
    I don't know about that. A very close friend of mine just lost his battle to stomach cancer (barely made 3 yrs) the week before Christmas. He was only 44. Left a wife, (together a little over 20 yrs, married for 15) and a 13 yr old daughter.

    They are completely lost and devastated. I can't even imagine ever having to go through anything so heart breaking...
    That's awful. So sorry for them.

    Originally Posted by Silencespeaks View Post
    Pls explain why I didn’t date at all for 4 years after my divorce. I feel like this is very atypical. I wish I was normal and could have just monkey branched like a normal person. Why am I so weird.
    I didn't have nearly the trauma you did and I didn't even think about dating for an entire year after separation.
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    Originally Posted by user3657 View Post
    Hell no. The last thing a woman should do is teach her daughter to be low value. A mother needs to put self esteem in her daughter. I don't think staying with a cheater it showing a young girl you have more value then your pussy....
    Single mother is a death sentence for most people. You have to play your hand.
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    Originally Posted by user3657 View Post
    Hell no. The last thing a woman should do is teach her daughter to be low value. A mother needs to put self esteem in her daughter. I don't think staying with a cheater it showing a young girl you have more value then your pussy....
    Staying together shows you value family, stability, and finances more than your personal ego pride. I think staying together is the correct choice srs.

    Again this is new. Prior to 2020 I believed people should break up.
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    Originally Posted by Silencespeaks View Post
    I’m sorry about your friend.

    There will be new men orbiting her right away to provide “support” though. It’s a common strategy to prey on vulnerable grieving widows. Wish I was joking but srs.
    Originally Posted by ErnieMccracken View Post
    Obviously I'm generalizing, but of the 3 young married family men I've known who died, all were replaced within 3 months despite their wives being "devastated." I'd be shocked if this guy's wife wasn't already interviewing 2 or 3 new orbiters on the down low. That's life, son.

    I don't really consider it a character flaw srs. It's part of female DNA that goes all the way back to the days men were crushing each other's skulls in with rocks. The women who survived were the ones who disregarded the last guy and quickly moved on to a new one. Loyalty is primarily a male trait, not a female one.
    I'll make sure to let you both know when it happens...

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