Men in there 30's, hows dating for you at the moment?

[NLNFunKti0nz]

Hows dating at the moment for you guys? Definitely not good for me due to balding and took a hit on my confidence. Also don't have a social circle nowadays and if I do go out, its usually with the same friend or two and thats going out to eat only. Nothing fun and exciting and cant really meet new people this way.

So my only resources are dating apps which suck now. I get a decent amount of matches but I hate all that small talk that leads to nowhere. I didnt have this problem back in 2015-2018. I would get dates and sex and now Ive stopped trying to land a date.

Where are you guys meeting women if you don't have a social circle?

[TheIronAsylum]

women are completely ruined there is no dating

[kovalchuk71]

women are completely ruined there is no dating

It’s getting to that point, IMO. Thanks to lockdowns, it’s very tough to meet anyone in person these days.

Online dating has become a cess pool as well.

[FawkinJuicy]

women are completely ruined there is no dating

Online dating has become a cess pool as well.

Both of these. I'm 36, great shape, super successful, I'm ~3 months out of hanging out w/ a girl I saw off-and-on for about 6 months last year. I'm just enjoying being alone right now, but dating is complete chit. The COVID hysteria is just amplifying that fact.

[gesten]

Hows dating at the moment for you guys? Definitely not good for me due to balding and took a hit on my confidence. Also don't have a social circle nowadays and if I do go out, its usually with the same friend or two and thats going out to eat only. Nothing fun and exciting and cant really meet new people this way.

So my only resources are dating apps which suck now. I get a decent amount of matches but I hate all that small talk that leads to nowhere. I didnt have this problem back in 2015-2018. I would get dates and sex and now Ive stopped trying to land a date.

Where are you guys meeting women if you don't have a social circle?

Ask this dude

He’s 55 approaching 60

https://www.instagram.com/p/B1qgtDvB9tJ/

he can get any one of your wifeys to cheat on you in a heart beat lmao

[AestheticNoz]

Just turned 30 but I can pass from anywhere from 25-28. Much better than it was in my early 20s then again COVID isn't a cockblock here.

[luckyboy23]

If you're in your 30's and financially sound with your own house/place. You should be slaying left right and center.

[NLNFunKti0nz]

If you're in your 30's and financially sound with your own house/place. You should be slaying left right and center.

Seems like the opposite for me. I was slaying in my 20’s and even got into a long term 5 year relationship when I was 22.

Now that I don’t go out as much nor have a social circle like before, I don’t meet any women in public so my only choice is the dating apps. How is everyone slaying left and right and center and actually meeting women nowadays?

[sam212]

If you're in your 30's and financially sound with your own house/place. You should be slaying left right and center.

Yeah, but that slaying comes at a cost, all women between 27-35 are looking for a husband. Not single anymore, but when I was, after leaving quite a few women scorned, I became careful who to slay. I didn’t like that fall out/phase out. It was much easier with women in their early 20s, they really didn’t expect much other than a good time.

[iloveus]

Yeah, but that slaying comes at a cost, all women between 27-35 are looking for a husband. Not single anymore, but when I was, after leaving quite a few women scorned, I became careful who to slay. I didn’t like that fall out/phase out. It was much easier with women in their early 20s, they really didn’t expect much other than a good time.

Then get with women in their early 20's

Not that hard

[AestheticNoz]

Yeah, but that slaying comes at a cost, all women between 27-35 are looking for a husband. Not single anymore, but when I was, after leaving quite a few women scorned, I became careful who to slay. I didn’t like that fall out/phase out. It was much easier with women in their early 20s, they really didn’t expect much other than a good time.

18-24 are the glow years for women. Must be brutal for those still single in their early - mid 30s having an appetite for high status guys who want nothing to do with her but a quick pump and dump.

[devopsengineer]

If you're in your 30's and financially sound with your own house/place. You should be slaying left right and center.

Not true. I have a big house, good job... but I can't get a date.

[xvicknumber7x]

im just about 30 and just dumped my gf today because i literally cant keep women away from me thanks to good job/house/good physique. im not going to get involved with anyone though for quite a long time because spring is almost here and that means outdoor activities and whatever the fuuck i wanna do.

[iloveus]

Not true. I have a big house, good job... but I can't get a date.

Have you approached anyone?

Do you do or have anything besides a big house and good job?

[Briangumble]

Pretty much the same as it always has been, non-existent.

[skinnyfat88]

It's likely a different landscape than it was in your early/mid 20s. I've seen some dudes who were super successful in those years fail to adapt and get down on themselves & dating as they age thinking their prime is over or w/e.

Other hit their stride later on and it's mainly a confidence thing. Like others said, if you have a good job and haven't let yourself go you should be fine you just need to find that confidence and put yourself out there. Covid sucks so I can't comment to that hurdle but as always the key is to just not be afraid of rejection and approach thing as an equal (or even that you're the "prize") and don't put women on a pedestal.

[lllEZRAlll]

I'm 29 this month. So pretty close to 30.

It's fantastic. Right now I'm seeing an Atlanta Falcons cheerleader. Going pretty well. Covid didn't really take the wind out of my sails like I thought it would either. Actually met her through mutual friends on a trip to Mexico last year.

When you say things like "no social circle" and what not my initial thought is everything has a price. Including women. What I mean by that is if you ball hard enough women will naturally want to be on the team, and go out of their way to make sure of it. Not talking about escorts and the like.

[JuicedMayhem]

It mostly consists of trying to find the best spot to jump off the Grand Canyon

At least my 20’s were amazing.....but fuk this ghey earth right now

[Liberal3lite]

If you're not in the top 20% of men, it's pretty much over for you if you want a biological female. I now have my eyes set on trannies.

[solidus2k3]

If you're not in the top 20% of men, it's pretty much over for you if you want a biological female. I now have my eyes set on trannies.

this. it's all about trannies and twinks now

[thadderbox]

Quiet for the most part, but I also am working almost 24/7 and really don't want to interact with anyone.

Suppose the whole rona situation has made things a bit worse, we're all kind of hermits in some form.

[BlackHeart.au]

GF broke up with me 6 weeks ago. I'm 35 and it's a big blow. Saying that she was 20 LOL

Seems like woman in general are not even in the mood as much before covid.

You guys know you can still look sexy at 30. Just requires a different format and style.

My ex before hit me up right after the break-up. But screw that monkey brancher

Had a new woman make me food today which helped my self esteem a little after I got rejected the other day from another

[devopsengineer]

Have you approached anyone?

Do you do or have anything besides a big house and good job?

Yes I approached. They act offended when I approach.

I have my own IT company, with datacenter and stuff.

[alltrapbrah]

It’s basically gotten more retarded than it’s always been.

Online dating is utter dogchit. Tinder was legit only like 3 years ago but is basically a desert now. Very few matches, very weak convos, flakes, single moms who already have a fuk buddy yet they want you to take them out on dates, etc.

Meeting girls through cold approach is better, but not by much. EVERY girl is connected to social media. If they aren’t actively showing their bodies off or serial dating guys they meet online, then they are looking at or talking to other girls who do do that stuff and the poison rubs off on them that way.

If you go on ******** there are still tons of couples posting professional pictures of their engagements, vacations together, then with their dog, announcing that they are expecting a kid.

I am at my wits end trying to figure out where and how these couples meet. I never see it happening around me. Must be some kind of club somewhere where this stuff is arranged and I’m obviously not in that club.

What you’re basically saying here is that you’re a low-status guy, and that is indeed your main problem.

Online dating WAS a hack for low-status men, but as you’ve highlighted it’s a bust now.

[NotAware]

We're in full cuckdown mode here so it's difficult, matches are not a problem really, but progressing past a coffee+walk > smash is waaay more difficult now that a night out drinking is off the table.. Just keeping fwb rolling until things ease a bit

Seems here social validation is a big thing for the 8/10+, you need you ig loaded with pics of success/holidays/physique

[friesbruh]

absolute chit atm

women are completely ruined there is no dating

this.

[NitrogenWidget]

if you are going bald fuk'n own it.
trim it short like Jason Statham.
if you have some facial hair you can just shave it or use clippers with a #1 guard or no guard.

but don't shave your head if you don't have facial hair.
look at breaking bad, if he didn't have that small beard after shaving his head.....

women care less about a man's hair than he does.
what they care about is a whether a dude is in denial about going bald.
it screams insecurity.

[skinnyfat88]

if you are going bald fuk'n own it.
trim it short like Jason Statham.
if you have some facial hair you can just shave it or use clippers with a #1 guard or no guard.

but don't shave your head if you don't have facial hair.
look at breaking bad, if he didn't have that small beard after shaving his head.....

women care less about a man's hair than he does.
what they care about is a whether a dude is in denial about going bald.
it screams insecurity.

This. Balding buddy spent years wearing a hat and salvaging what he had left underneath. He saw the look on the faces of a few after he took it off and it crushed him.

He now knows to rock the super short hair look w/ facial hair.

[Kay4Kool]

Pretty much any woman at or above 7/10 is impossible to date or even meet these days. If you find one who isn't a bullsh*tter wife her up immediately. I'm successful, tall, in shape, handsome, have my own place, all that chit, and get ghosted by single moms lmao. It's crazy.

Doubt

[NLNFunKti0nz]

It mostly consists of trying to find the best spot to jump off the Grand Canyon

At least my 20’s were amazing.....but fuk this ghey earth right now

Amen bro, wish we can go back in time to relive those memories. I still think about it till now