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    Is it weird to be attracted to women who look similar to you? (hair, eyes, skin)

    One of my friends is an Italian guy with dark hair and tanned skin, he says he loves women with dark hair and tanned skin but other guys say he is weird because it is like smashing your sister.
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    Same colour hair, eyes & skin =/= looking the same, these are superficial similarities. I have similar colour skin, hair and eyes to Chris Hemsworth but sadly no-one is going to mistake us for identical twins. If you like people who look like yourself to the extent that wearing a dress makes you want to fap to yourself in a mirror, yes that's weird.
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    I had a friend who was super into neuroscience and apparently had studied a fair bit about human attraction (from a scientific viewpoint obviously)

    She always said that because of pheromones people are generally most physically attracted to someone who is similar but not too similar (blood relations obviously don't work well)

    So essentially what your buddy is doing is pretty standard in the eyes of science
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    I know at least 3 people IRL who married chicks who could be their sisters, same coloring, face shape and general look

    It's weird AF imo but then I'm white and love darker females. I smashed one blonde chick who looked a bit like me and it was a bit strange tbh
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    I almost feel like anyone who is not attracted to women of their own background, culture, and ethnicity is usually insecure and compensating in some ways. Like my friend says in his home country, guys are obsessed with blonde women because getting one shows status.
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    no, in fact it's normal. anyone saying it's like smashing your sister is lying or insecure. People obviously find similar people to be attractive. That's why the majority of people still date within their race.
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    No it’s ideal and I think those are the GOAT couples that last.
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    Originally Posted by Ninshark View Post
    no, in fact it's normal. anyone saying it's like smashing your sister is lying or insecure. People obviously find similar people to be attractive. That's why the majority of people still date within their race.
    I've always heard that what matters the most to attraction is similar face symmetry. Basically if your face shape is the same you're likely to be attracted. Doesn't matter their eye color, skin color, race or any of that. I've always been attracted to latinas and my last ex was a black girl, who had a similar face shape. Never personally cared about race or skin color or any of that.
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    Originally Posted by Ninshark View Post
    no, in fact it's normal. anyone saying it's like smashing your sister is lying or insecure. People obviously find similar people to be attractive. That's why the majority of people still date within their race.
    yeah well 2021 right?

    "ZOMG u don't date interracial, ur racist!"
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    I think it’s a little weird if that’s who you exclusively date. Would be weird if you went through your dating history and all your partners looked alike.
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