Fwb has been celibate

[messomi]

LMAO this is silence speaks? that's a certified cow mate

that's not her but still she is 55.

[zhengterry]

that's not her but still she is 55.

some gay dude larping as a female

[leoslayer1]

that's not her but still she is 55.

Lol it is her. Years ago she described herself as a PAWG.

What do you think PAWGS look like?

[messomi]

some gay dude larping as a female

nope and that's not her in the pic 100% I have absolutely nothing to gain from lying.

[wutevs]

Would you date him if he wanted a relationship with you? Maybe you care more than you think you do if you're overanalyzing whether he's sleeping with other girls or not.

[Silencespeaks]

A lot of big D1 football players like older women. Same with NFL players.

My 40something HTC FWB matched with several NFL players and D1 football players on Bumble. They were all linemen, though, except for one black running back at Stanford who went on to play NFL.

It sounds like he has feels for you if he's Snapchatting every day. It could be true that he's not banging others if he's shy and doesn't have game.

Give it up already! Just post as yourself DLB.

[Silencespeaks]

He might have feelings for you.

That's the only other reason besides he doesn't have options.

No because we don’t even talk that much. My other fwb I talk to all day long but not this one. We keep in touch and talk regularly but not every day.

[drvillain]

No because we don’t even talk that much. My other fwb I talk to all day long but not this one. We keep in touch and talk regularly but not every day.

the more info you give, the less believable him being "celibate" sounds

[Silencespeaks]

Would you date him if he wanted a relationship with you? Maybe you care more than you think you do if you're overanalyzing whether he's sleeping with other girls or not.

Yessss ofc but that is not realistic at all.

I feel affection for him and I definitely like him but not strong feelings and I’m not in love with him.

[Silencespeaks]

the more info you give, the less believable him being "celibate" sounds

Yeah idk what to believe. He seems so nice and sweet though.

[CeBKa]

well a 22 year old with a 49 y.o as fwb speaks volume, he surely doesn't slay so it's probably true

nothing personal just facts too

[Silencespeaks]

The misc doesn't know what a big booty truly is.

He def has DAT ASS

[Silencespeaks]

I posted it.

No way a d1 football player is putting in the effort to travel out of state to bang dusty ass ss

He’s not traveling for me, his family lives in my area. So I see him when he’s home from school staying with his family.

[dianabawlecter]

It's a safer response to say to you to keep you as a fwb. If he said he was with other girls there's more risk in you wanting to stay fwb. So he could be thinking of it like that. Obviously you cared enough to ask him.

Or he could just be telling the truth who knows

[whitepaper]

Do we really think he's lying?


He's willingly meeting up with, and sleeping with a late 40s, mentally maladjusted female miscer......he's clearly not getting any other pussy.


No offense, Op.

[DustinTheHuss]

Give it up already! Just post as yourself DLB.

You're the one who is DLB, not me.

Regardless, listen to my advice and stop accusing me of being DLB. You could learn a lot from me.

[Ken-O]

Why would he lie to you?

[zhengterry]

Do we really think he's lying?


He's willingly meeting up with, and sleeping with a late 40s, mentally maladjusted female miscer......he's clearly not getting any other pussy.


No offense, Op.

Even if he is getting other pussy and still wants to bang, most likely he's going to say whatever to convince.

This is on the premise that Ss is speaking the truth, ofc.

[Silencespeaks]

Why would he lie to you?

Misc has me paranoid idk

[Silencespeaks]

Even if he is getting other pussy and still wants to bang, most likely he's going to say whatever to convince.

This is on the premise that Ss is speaking the truth, ofc.

He doesn’t have to convince me though. I want to sleep with him either way. I told him he is free to sleep with other girls and I just assumed that he was.

[aket221]

subtle brag thread by washed up grandmother

[Silencespeaks]

Btw a few months ago we were talking about sex and I told him I hadn’t been with anyone else since him. I didn’t ask him if he had seen anyone else but he didn’t say anything back. So then I just assumed that he had seen other girls.

[bigdownunder]

I see no reason to think that he’s lying.

[Postmort3m]

I’m late forties and he is early twenties.

So he couldn’t get any and you just didn’t feel like it.

Got it.

[Silencespeaks]

I see no reason to think that he’s lying.

I wish I had made a poll.

[Silencespeaks]

So he couldn’t get any and you just didn’t feel like it.

Got it.

Theoretically possible but he is so hot to me so it’s hard for me to understand. Would date would marry if I was his age. Pretty much ideal looks for me.

Not saying he is super handsome or model looks or anything like that. But goodlooking in a 7/10 kind of way.

[Ken-O]

You are idealizing this guy because you feel super lonely. You shouldnt be caring about whether a 22 year old dude that is single is fuking other girls or not. I know you are very self-aware of your situation but that doesnt mean you can just keep digging yourself deeper into that hole just because you realize you are doing it

[lnvictus]

LOL at thinking early 20's unattached guy in college didn't try to get some. Unless incel of course.

[Silencespeaks]

You are idealizing this guy because you feel super lonely. You shouldnt be caring about whether a 22 year old dude that is single is fuking other girls or not. I know you are very self-aware of your situation but that doesnt mean you can just keep digging yourself deeper into that hole just because you realize you are doing it

It’s fine if he’s sleeping with other girls. Just wondering if he is lying idk. You’re right that it doesn’t really matter.

Actually it does matter as to STD risk but that’s not really the main reason I’m wondering.

[Silencespeaks]

LOL at thinking early 20's unattached guy in college didn't try to get some. Unless incel of course.

Yeah I assumed he was seeing other girls until he said no.