Fwb has been celibate

[messomi]

Maybe he just couldn't find any tail that was old enough at college to satisfy his fetish

more likely he was so desperate that he restored to going back to his last option which is OP.

[Silencespeaks]

Nice what trailer park did you guys meet at?

Tinder

[Silencespeaks]

Why does it matter though? You wouldnt raw dog if he wasnt or something?

He can be a good looking dude and not slay for a couple months, because he never approached. If a guy doesnt spark up conversation first then typically he isnt slaying, but thats just cold approach idk about social media

Yeah we actually didn’t use a condom the last couple of times and we did pullout.

I got tested a few months ago at my annual physical and all clear.

[Silencespeaks]

more likely he was so desperate that he restored to going back to his last option which is OP.

Maybe idk

He is goodlooking to me and tall. He had a young gf last year.

[Silencespeaks]

he wants to creampie your decrepit smely vagine so its easier to say hes been celibate.

No cream pie but I would like to do no condom and pullout. That’s what we did last time.

[OT2000]

Maybe he is lying but I don’t want to be so jaded that I always assume people are lying.

I’m not lying myself about being celibate so it’s not really fair to assume that he is lying.

No he is lying. 99% of men will lie in this situation especially since you told him you haven’t got any. Only a dumbass, someone who doesn’t gaf or a geezus lover will be honest.

[drvillain]

He’s so nice though. I don’t want to assume he is lying.

Well you asked him something thay shouldn’t matter since you said you guys can do whatever you want.

So I wouldn’t be surprised if he took the road with less conflict

[Silencespeaks]

No he is lying. 99% of men will lie in this situation especially since you told him you haven’t got any. Only a dumbass, someone who doesn’t gaf or a geezus lover will be honest.

I asked him first and he said no first before he asked me.

But we also talked about it a while ago and I told him no then too so idk.

[propreffered7]

Just being authentic..

Pretty sure ive always said he likely doesnt have many options. It doesnt really make sense otherwise

I am not saying that late 40 yo's cant be hot, but the fact that he plays penpal and other things with you and has continued has always led me to believe he doesnt have options

I would think he would just bang and leave.

This goes for him trying to keep you around for sex too.


I think this is bigger chance, but its also possible hes lying manipulatively - think this is smaller chance though

[Silencespeaks]

Well you asked him something thay shouldn’t matter since you said you guys can do whatever you want.

So I wouldn’t be surprised if he took the road with less conflict

Yeah maybe

Is 6 months very long to be celibate for a young guy? Or is that common.

[ayyy]

i have yet to meet a <30 year old dude banging 45+ year old girls that were not grade a losers

so chances are op, even if he tried his damnedest to smash different girls he's telling the truth

[BagManOnSpdDial]

No cream pie but I would like to do no condom and pullout. That’s what we did last time.

how mad would you be if he creampied you without asking?

[EDMFloridaBrah]

this is so cringe

[messomi]

Maybe idk

He is goodlooking to me and tall. He had a young gf last year.

100% what kind of twenty something year old is going to want an almost 50 year old woman.

if you had any self respect you would know that's why it's so funny when you always point at other femiscers.

you are just pussy he shelved in case he got desperate.

[Nicklol]

probably couldnt get laid. not as easy for guys as it is girls

[Silencespeaks]

Just being authentic..

Pretty sure ive always said he likely doesnt have many options. It doesnt really make sense otherwise

I am not saying that late 40 yo's cant be hot, but the fact that he plays penpal and other things with you and has continued has always led me to believe he doesnt have options

I would think he would just bang and leave.

This goes for him trying to keep you around for sex too.


I think this is bigger chance, but its also possible hes lying manipulatively - think this is smaller chance though

This is the other one though. We talk probably every week or so but not all day.

The all day pen pal one is my other fwb. I have two of them. They look the same and they have the same first name lmao.

[Silencespeaks]

probably couldnt get laid. not as easy for guys as it is girls

Yeah I’m trying to figure out if that could be it idk. But he is goodlooking to me and tall. And high social status at school because he plays football.

[Celsus]

[Silencespeaks]

how mad would you be if he creampied you without asking?

Would kinda like it kinda not

[leoslayer1]

Yeah maybe

Is 6 months very long to be celibate for a young guy? Or is that common.

There has never been a time in my life that I have gone more than maybe 7 days unless there was some kind of extenuating circumstances.

For example my wife being out of the country for 18 to 20 mths.

[Silencespeaks]

i have yet to meet a <30 year old dude banging 45+ year old girls that were not grade a losers

so chances are op, even if he tried his damnedest to smash different girls he's telling the truth

He’s 6’4 and on D1 football team so how can he be a loser.

And he meets my looks standards for dating and marriage. And misc always says I’m too picky.

[drvillain]

He’s 6’4 and on D1 football team so how can he be a loser.

And he meets my looks standards for dating and marriage. And misc always says I’m too picky.

Now does it make sense that a 6'4 D1 football player isn't getting laid in nearly half a year? You sound silly now

[Silencespeaks]

There has never been a time in my life that I have gone more than maybe 7 days unless there was some kind of extenuating circumstances.

For example my wife being out of the country for 18 to 20 mths.

That’s crazy lmao

I don’t think that is normal either.

[Silencespeaks]

Now does it make sense that a 6'4 D1 football player isn't getting laid in nearly half a year? You sound silly now

Maybe because he’s fat? Or too nice? Idk

[propreffered7]

Now does it make sense that a 6'4 D1 football player isn't getting laid in nearly half a year? You sound silly now

At the same time why would a d1 football player want a relationship with a 50 year old woman?

Like i said before i get banging. But not a relationship. Id bang one but im definitely going younger for a relationship cause there are tons of complications with older. Especially with kids

Should be easy if i am a stud

And this dude has continued to keep in touch and stuff - meaning they were broken apart, etc.

[Silencespeaks]

At the same time why would a d1 football player want a relationship with a 50 year old woman?

Like i said before i get banging. But not a relationship. Id bang one but im definitely going younger for a relationship cause there are tons of complications with older. Especially with kids

Should be easy if i am a stud

And this dude has continued to keep in touch and stuff - meaning they were broken apart, etc.

It’s not a relationship. He’s free to date or hook up with other girls.

[propreffered7]

It’s not a relationship. He’s free to date or hook up with other girls.

He doesnt have other options or hes manipulative as fuk. The fact that hes let it linger means there are feelings on one or both sides - which again makes me believe he doesnt have many options. This is what i think is likely

Or he tries to keep you around cause free access to sex. So he obliges you by "breadcrumbing" you cause he doesnt want his free poosy going away

My 2 cents

From my stance,

You may be super hot but idc. Im not entertaining a 50 yo woman for a relationship when i can have 18 to 30 year olds. Just too many complications. Which means i bang and get out. And dont try to prolong it

[BagManOnSpdDial]

silencespeaks are you fat/htc? whats your ht/wt?

[Silencespeaks]

He doesnt have other options or hes manipulative as fuk. The fact that hes let it linger means there are feelings on one or both sides - which again makes me believe he doesnt have many options

He tries to keep you around cause free access to sex. So he obliges you by "breadcrumbing" you cause he doesnt want his free poosy going away

My 2 cents

From my stance,

You may be super hot but idc. Im not entertaining a 50 yo woman for a relationship when i can have 18 to 30 year olds. Just too many complications

I don’t think he is manipulative. He is super sweet and nice.

And again it’s not a relationship. Just fwb.

[Silencespeaks]

silencespeaks are you fat/htc? whats your ht/wt?

No I’m very fit. I have a good body which is why these guys like me I guess.

5’5 122 lbs before Christmas. Rn fatter because I’ve been eating too much lmao but I’ll cut back after I leave family.