Would you rather have a 9/10 gf or multiple 8/10 fwbs?

[justgenetics]

^^^why did u guys break up?



Gf and it's not even close. Never have to worry about if she's with you for the money and will be free to pursue even more riches without the stress of relationships.

Very long story short I dated her for 2 years and had undiagnosed bpd that got worse and essentially I ruined the relationship by pushing her away. Got in/out of treatment, now back in and we’re gonna try making it work soon when I feel ready enough.

I agree though I’ve pretty much already made up my mind but there’s a small part of me that’s sort of scared of the commitment cause I can see us being together potentially forever, never had more chemistry with someone else before.

[memcop]

^^^why did u guys break up?



Gf and it's not even close. Never have to worry about if she's with you for the money and will be free to pursue even more riches without the stress of relationships.

This makes no sense if youre only there to blow their back out. All women are out for your money anyway. You're fooling yourself if not.

Well for clarity ugly women have to work just like fat women have to **** hard and do nasty things.

[memcop]

Very long story short I dated her for 2 years and had undiagnosed bpd that got worse and essentially I ruined the relationship by pushing her away. Got in/out of treatment, now back in and we’re gonna try making it work soon when I feel ready enough.

I agree though I’ve pretty much already made up my mind but there’s a small part of me that’s sort of scared of the commitment cause I can see us being together potentially forever, never had more chemistry with someone else before.

Lawd you better be staying on a multi week shot

[BerserkGrom]

multiple 10/10s

[justgenetics]

Lawd you better be staying on a multi week shot

I wish there was such a thing lol, I’m just in a lot of therapy rn.

It’s my biggest ‘flaw’ to say the least though.. she is aware of it now and is still willing to try making it work, I think it’d be very hard finding another girl as understanding as she is (srs)

[memcop]

I wish there was such a thing lol, I’m just in a lot of therapy rn.

It’s my biggest ‘flaw’ to say the least though.. she is aware of it now and is still willing to try making it work, I think it’d be very hard finding another girl as understanding as she is (srs)

Goodluck. Dont slip when your healthy. Keep it going.

[Hmatt330]

Rather have 2 9/10 gfs

[justgenetics]

Goodluck. Dont slip when your healthy. Keep it going.

Thanks brah, I appreciate it. I was in therapy for almost a year straight after the breakup and only got out due to lockdowns.

[justgenetics]

Rather have 2 9/10 gfs

Sloots gonna sloot (srs)

[BorderPatrol505]

2-3 8/10 fwbs

[Ravishing_Rick]

now days the 8 fwbs

cant get bored with that

but if i was from some village than the 9 or from the 1940s

[BritishTwit]

Meh, I've had multiple hawt women (in b4 username to post) and yes, it's very fun having new smashes but at some point if you're growing up and have self awareness you'll want something more serious or nothing at all.

9/10 easily. Plus 8/10s are more common, whereas a 9/10 is a straight up brag piece.

[LargePeter]

8/10 FWBs
Raw Dog Crew

Life on epic mode

[smashedurgfx10]

9/10 gf easy as long as she ls loyal

Fuk bros girls cheat like the sun comes up in 2020

[soberchuck]

wood take a 7/10 loyal gf over multiple 8/10 fwbs

no white knight no simp no homo

Came to post this.

Plenty of HBBs are boring, in bed and in conversation.

inb4 cope

[Vascularmanlet]

Probably multiple fwbs purely for the bragging rights plus I like variety, but then again can imagine I'd just feel empty after a while.

[justgenetics]

Meh, I've had multiple hawt women (in b4 username to post) and yes, it's very fun having new smashes but at some point if you're growing up and have self awareness you'll want something more serious or nothing at all.

9/10 easily. Plus 8/10s are more common, whereas a 9/10 is a straight up brag piece.

Yeah agreed. Only have 1 fwb who most miscers think is better looking than my soon to be gf again but tried to make this thread to deal with my insecurities of committing lol.

Some responses ITT + some soul searching (no homo) on what I want in life have made me realize I need to stop questioning this chit

[SuperHercules]

We are talking strictly appearance right?


Depends on the personality of the 9/10

If I like being around her, I'll take that. If I don't I'll take the multiple 8/10s

[justgenetics]

We are talking strictly appearance right?


Depends on the personality of the 9/10

If I like being around her, I'll take that. If I don't I'll take the multiple 8/10s

Nah you get along very well with her, enjoy being around her etc. Similar values

Subjectively she’s better looking to you than any of the fwbs

[ScramFranklin]

Rather take a new 6/10 sloot every other day because my dopamine recepters are f'd and I need variety. Feelsbadman. I want the trad family life, but I stop getting excited for sexors with the same girl.

[Adnim]

Anyone who wouldn't take a 9/10 that will stay loyal for life is probably a porn-addict, srs.

[ScramFranklin]

Anyone who wouldn't take a 9/10 that will stay loyal for life is probably a porn-addict, srs.

yes. All i watch now our amateur sloots getting gangbanged and creampied.

[BritishTwit]

Anyone who wouldn't take a 9/10 that will stay loyal for life is probably a porn-addict, srs.

That's possibly the majority of young guys around my age these days then srs.

And I say this as a guy who watches pr0n myself - it's important to also get IRL experience with women, and that should be the majority of young guys' experiences. Not some random sloot on a screen doing unrealistic chit. Even if it's autistic cold approaching HBBs on the street it's still better than the cheap, easy fix.

It's like thinking video gaming is the same as fighting an actual war lol.

[justgenetics]

Anyone who wouldn't take a 9/10 that will stay loyal for life is probably a porn-addict, srs.

Would you still have the same opinion if you didn’t make it though no fap November? Semi srs

[W1LLW]

The reality is most men would love to have 1 solid attractive girlfriend with the option to get that primitive "hunt-random" nut off once a business quarter without it completely destroying his life.

I'm too old and busy to be single and have to hunt for fuks fulltime. But I would like the option to decide to return to former degeneracy and try to slay a bar ting every once in a blue moon.

[frutistafreeze]

FWB are nice but that chit gets old after a while. I'll take a loyal girl that I actually enjoy being around at this point in my life

[DBoyDaRealest]

The reality is most men would love to have 1 solid attractive girlfriend with the option to get that primitive "hunt-random" nut off once a business quarter without it completely destroying his life.

I'm too old and busy to be single and have to hunt for fuks fulltime. But I would like the option to decide to return to former degeneracy and try to slay a bar ting every once in a blue moon.

it is possible and you'd be surprised by the amount of married chads who get this agreement, although the girl usually gets what she wants on the side as well.

[Adnim]

Would you still have the same opinion if you didn’t make it though no fap November? Semi srs

(I didn't make it through the whole month of no-fap, but I was successful in doing no-porn)

Regardless, I would have taken the 9/10 before no-fap. It's just an easier decision now.

If you can't be happy with one 9/10, then you're not going to be satisfied with three 8/10's either. Porn trains your brain to continuously search for more novelty. Try no-porn (no stimuli that comes from an electronic device whatsoever while fapping) for a month and you'll see how much healthier your thinking is.






edit: (warning, I have read that for some people, doing temporary breaks from porn is worse than quitting altogether at once, because they end up going back into it even more hardcore and becoming more addicted than before)

[DrumsNotDead]

both

[BigElephant]

Easy 9/10 gf