Do you actually think you'll find your soulmate?

[Jaltonto]

For real, yea we've all heard it....there's a million fish in the sea. But if you look at it realistically, you date a few people and while you're dating them you really don't meet anyone else. You probably flirt with a couple hundred girls in your time. But if you think about it there is someone out there perfectly compatible with you (personality wise) but you'll probably never meet them. So when do you settle?

[A-GAME]

I don't think there is any such thing as a "soul mate" bro. I think you attract the kind of women you deserve on a vibrational level, and I think there are innumerable matches for whatever frequency you're emitting srs.

[H00J]

I 100% believe I fukked the opportunity up


**** fukin kills me everyday brah


Not even joking

[Jaltonto]

I 100% believe I fukked the opportunity up


**** fukin kills me everyday brah


Not even joking

Go get her brother...she's not gone. But is she really the one or are you blinded by your past?

[Supaduck0]

'Soulmate' is an esoteric concept. It seems unlikely to me, considering there are babies that get run over and stuff

[H00J]

Go get her brother...she's not gone. But is she really the one or are you blinded by your past?

good question brah

[anonymous]

disney should have to pay reparations to every person that thinks there is such thing as a soulmate half srs

[denrocks1]

The internet ruined the possibility of finding a soulmate.

You are competing against the world. Why should she think you could be "the one" when there might be a better guy one swipe away? What if she really does like you how you are but other people don't? Then she can't use you for social status and attention, she'll jump ship to the next guy she can find.

[Danny09876]

disney should have to pay reparations to every person that thinks there is such thing as a soulmate half srs

This. It’s a concept that was sold to young people (mainly teenage girls) in movies.

You just need to find a girl that you get on with and find attractive.

In my opinion a lot of the problems that the misc seem to have (and incels) is that they don’t actually like women (not in the physical sense but personality wise).

[GlassMoon]

I 100% believe I fukked the opportunity up


**** fukin kills me everyday brah


Not even joking

This. 10/10 rope fuel

[wave_length]

I had this feeling on the first date with my now wife. Still the same feeling. Not saying it's an absolute but i consider myself lucky for such a perfect match.

[ClivesTriceps]

Been with mine for over 9 years now

[PelvicThrustBP]

if you go based on actual astrology personality types, there are 1728 possible choices. if you're going for your soul mate, then you're looking for the 1/1728.

3.9 billion women in the world, say every 1 out of 1728 women is your exact match - thats 2,256,944 women.

if you then calculate based on your city's female population %, divided by world female pop (mine for example - .0003) and multiply that by the above, then you get 677.

677 women in your city that could be your possible soulmate.

[anonymous]

if you go based on actual astrology personality types, there are 1728 possible choices. if you're going for your soul mate, then you're looking for the 1/1728.

3.9 billion women in the world, say every 1 out of 1728 women is your exact match - thats 2,256,944 women.

if you then calculate based on your city's female population %, divided by world female pop (mine for example - .0003) and multiply that by the above, then you get 677.

677 women in your city that could be your possible soulmate.

MILF hunter

[hoganrulz]

Too many Disney films my son. Relationships are just basically friends that fuk

[tnel00]

Half you alls soulmates are showing off their butthole on onlyfans

[R3nmazuo]

I am positive that the last one was the one but my insecurity got the best of me.

[bfdehewdbyywhn]

No. most women hate me. but Anime girls will love me forever

[FAPhaggot]

It's more about seeing if there's a woman out there who would settle for me. I don't have a lot of bargaining power on my own end.

Once you realize that 50% of men in history died childless, the whole concept of a "soulmate" or "a lid for every kettle" starts looking pretty naive. Human nature is polygynous. We lived in a socially-enforced Christian bubble in the West that fought that natural tendency for 1500 years, much like how the Hindus organized an entire vegetarian society that fought the natural human instinct to eat meat.

With the invention of birth control and the subsequent loss of those Christian sexual norms, the name of the game now is "fuk whoever you find attractive!" Someone missed the memo that women inherently do not find 50% of men very attractive.

Nature intends for low-status men to rage against this and do anything they have to to get laid, but the advent of HD porn (almost as big of a game changer as birth control pills IMO) gives us a drug that can just numb that instinct on command. Low-status men will just pop that chit like **** to cope until they literally die off in a couple decades.

Cliffs:
-The 21st century is going to be a crazy, fukked up ride.
-Anyone who thinks that "there's one woman out there for you, you just need to look for her!" is thinking of a different world that ended 20-50 years ago.

[aleeboy]

I hear a lot of people saying they have found their soulmates. As a result of this, my interpretation of soulmate now is: “some ugly, dumb, poor degenerate that can’t stand being lonely, so they forcefully decided to settle down with another like-minded individual”.

Cheers

[R3nmazuo]

It's more about seeing if there's a woman out there who would settle for me. I don't have a lot of bargaining power on my own end.

Once you realize that 50% of men in history died childless, the whole concept of a "soulmate" or "a lid for every kettle" starts looking pretty naive. Human nature is polygynous. We lived in a socially-enforced Christian bubble in the West that fought that natural tendency for 1500 years, much like how the Hindus organized an entire vegetarian society that fought the natural human instinct to eat meat.

With the invention of birth control and the subsequent loss of those Christian sexual norms, the name of the game now is "fuk whoever you find attractive!" Someone missed the memo that women inherently do not find 50% of men very attractive.

Nature intends for low-status men to rage against this and do anything they have to to get laid, but the advent of HD porn (almost as big of a game changer as birth control pills IMO) gives us a drug that can just numb that instinct on command. Low-status men will just pop that chit like **** to cope until they literally die off in a couple decades.

Cliffs:
-The 21st century is going to be a crazy, fukked up ride.
-Anyone who thinks that "there's one woman out there for you, you just need to look for her!" is thinking of a different world that ended 20-50 years ago.

are you hopeful yourself?

[ilovelifenow]

100% I did. I met a cute wife material belarussian girl and we're getting married soon. She's changed me so much, I am even going to the gym for once, so i'm a miscer who actually does lift, lol.

[wave_length]

I hear a lot of people saying they have found their soulmates. As a result of this, my interpretation of soulmate now is: “some ugly, dumb, poor degenerate that can’t stand being lonely, so they forcefully decided to settle down with another like-minded individual”.

Cheers

This might be though because people who feel the urge of communicating their happiness to others are rarely the ones who are truly happy.

[Stm782]

I can easily say I found the perfect girl who fits me perfectly, call it what you want but after being through a few demons I can comfortably say that.

I truly feel bad for people in bad relationships and the ones that never find a good partner that elevates their life.

Granted some people are pieces of **** and don't deserve a good relationship. Especially all the attention seeking males and females on social media.

[Brosnbroccoli]

Soulmate.
Someone you are head over heels in love with, who you also:
- Find sexy.
- Get along with greatly and have fun.
- Align with regarding core values.

[Ninshark]

I do, I just broke up with my soulmate, not trolling, I'm serious, inb4 not actually my soulmate, fk off, yeah she is, it's just logistics. We're polar opposites, perfect compatibility due to mutual respect. In this way, we're literally able to get the most of each other respectively. If you have too much in common then you don't learn anything, you just do the same thing, but we each push each other out of the comfort zone. Also there's love, I literally cannot name a thing I like about her, I hate literally everything about her, but I still love her - this in my opinion is as unconditional love as I've ever experienced and it's amazing. I did not think I was able to love again after my 2nd relationship 4 yrs ago, esp since my 3rd relationship 2 yrs ago failed miserably since I didn't love the girl. But somehow I was able to fall hard for this girl and it rips me to shreds that we can't be together. The two things holding us apart were distance and her age. That's it, otherwise, we would be perfect couple. The 14 months we spent together were the best I've ever had with any other girl I've been with. I never once got tired of her. Even though we are long distance, due to covid, she moved in with me for 3 months (before she had to go back to work again) and that was just amazing. I did get comfortable and didn't take her out much during that time, but tbh, I was happy the whole entire time she was just there sitting in my room. I could get up from w/e I was doing, turn around and see her, and just be happy, srs sh*x, I was just happy with her beside me. damx... def soulmate got away.

[plebmaximus]

Soulmate? what are you??? female??

[Kiop]

[steeler505]

We all die in the end anyway

[Casca]

I do believe in "soul mates". I get a lot of opportunity, I always hold back.