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11-26-2020, 05:23 AM #31
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11-26-2020, 05:23 AM #32
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11-26-2020, 05:30 AM #33
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11-26-2020, 05:34 AM #34
Thread title should include q-ball too.
Only takes 1 in 100, fukn miscer PUA lmao...
His approach kinda sucks, he's lacking confidence.
Check out Chuck Paluhniuk's 'Choke' for some tips on random encounters... (puns intended).
Also don't open with an apology followed by a compliment on their beauty, Is this guy joking?
Better off negging but women respond best to authenticity and/or a man that is good at listening/responding, IMO, YMMV.
Also the man purse/satchel isn't helping at all, maybe try a fanny pack instead, lmao...
Good luck boyos, we all gonna make it.
I hope this helps at least one of you.Last edited by Merovingian11; 11-26-2020 at 05:50 AM.
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11-26-2020, 05:36 AM #35
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11-26-2020, 06:04 AM #37
i don't think it's strange.
nor do i think women think it's strange. now, there are times when it's probably better not to - funeral? and he definitely shouldn't have been chasing in certain scenes
but if you see a bish you really want i don't think women DONT want you to talk to them. i think it would be fairly silly to be completely enamored by a girl, like she's your 10/10 and you make up an excuse NOT to talk to her. does it happen a lot? probably, because i don't think most men are walking around with the nuts to approach their 10/10.
he just needs to clearly state why he's there. i think women are, maybe if even incorrectly, taking offense because while he's introducing himself he's doing it reluctantly so there's a sense of "not being good enough" on their end. like "this guys not even into it"
i do think that is at least partly insecurity on their part because i think the guy is just unconfident but his lack of confidence definitely allows for that type of miscommunication
idk how to explain but i also agree with wanks up there. you have to be kinda spontaneous. doing this type of thing doesn't seem to be forbidden to me but i think it might solely be due to confidence and "know how". you walk around with a now how and gumption and are able to turn any moment into something worth somethingLast edited by propreffered7; 11-26-2020 at 06:10 AM.
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11-26-2020, 06:11 AM #38
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11-26-2020, 06:14 AM #39
it's funny. i literally edited that into my response a second ago. i def. don't think that was good
what i'm saying is i don't think "approaching" is weird. i do think the guy we're talking abouts execution was bad
i was just talking about the idea of approaching in general
i think you can meet lots of people that way and it's not inherently weird
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11-26-2020, 06:21 AM #40
No it is definitely strange
By all means smile at women or make chit chat/flirt at appropriate times or venues, but it is not normal behavior to ambush/stop people when they are walking down the street and haven't shown any interest in interacting with you. No normal person does that.
Nobody likes being stopped in the street. If a promoter or sales guy does it to me and I'm walking I literally shove them out of my way. It is the same for the average woman except more so because they are bothered by random guys constantly.
By all means do it if you want, there's something to be said for putting yourself out there and getting hardened to rejection etc. Just don't expect to get laid much or for people to not think you're wierd.Gymnastics / Oly Lifting / BJJ / Kickboxing /
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11-26-2020, 06:24 AM #41
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11-26-2020, 06:25 AM #42
I get numbers/dates from cold approach regularly, can confirm a high percentage flake.
Buddy in the vid is also a noob, so things were bound to be brutal lmao. He has a lot of work to do - pack on 10lbs of muscle, dress better, charismamax and desensitize himself to rejection.
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11-26-2020, 06:29 AM #43
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11-26-2020, 06:32 AM #44
Talking to her is fine, I chat to women all the time in cafes, bars, events etc - especially if she has given you some indication of interest
Stopping people while they are walking/busy and then trailing after them is wierd, borderline pest behavior - and quite entitled too
If you really want to do this I would recommend just standing somewhere, making eye contact with attractive women and smiling at them and saying 'hi' if they smile back. Then see if they will stop and have a convo. Christ just typing that out it sounds creepy as fuk lol
Tinder/bars is much better either way
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11-26-2020, 06:40 AM #45
ok, you seem to be isolating it and sticking specifically to the point about women looking in a hurry/ rush/ they need to be somewhere. again, i agree. if that were the case it's prob not a good time to approach. again all im saying is i don't think talking to a bish is inherently weird
i'm also telling you his success would have increased if he stopped them. had a stern point of view and told them what's up. maybe not 100% but definitely more than he had
it's all good, though. you have your way and style. i have mine. you can choose not to believe me or any of my points
i'm also telling you i've done it
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11-26-2020, 06:49 AM #46
Fair enough, I'm sure it can work sometimes but I stick by it being wierd. And there's nothing wrong with talking to women obviously I would just advocate doing it in "normal" settings. If it works for you then by all means go ahead lol
The reason I personally would never do this is because I absolutely hate being bothered or stopped by people when I am out and about, so I would not inflict that on somebody elseGymnastics / Oly Lifting / BJJ / Kickboxing /
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11-26-2020, 06:55 AM #47
from what i ascertain, it seems like you live in a bigger city than i do. transport on foot a lot?
lol i hardly do.i am mostly by car. however, i can't say that i particularly felt cut off in NYC. i met lots of people willy nilly just walking around. girls just walking by our group and our friend was drunk and making a fool of himself when they commented. at the bathroom at a restaurant when two girls started a conversation with me, etc. just stuff like that happens in day to day life
i DO remember women being really stand offish to approaching at night in nyc. at the same time, i wasn't doing it and my bro was drunk and fuking around, so that might have something to do with it
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11-26-2020, 07:19 AM #48
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11-26-2020, 07:26 AM #49
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11-26-2020, 07:27 AM #50
In all fairness, that guy had nothing going for him and height was the least of his problems.
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11-26-2020, 07:36 AM #51
aww, the guy is actually pretty nice and cool. I was actually going to cringe. He shouldn't have a problem finding girl even as a manlet and baldcel.
But fkn lol at cold approaching. That chit is reserved for losers. A true Chang gets introduced to hbbs through parents or through other hbbs.*Catholic Crew*
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11-26-2020, 07:44 AM #52
His technique was also terrible, but this is definitely true. If I get stopped by a random on the street I assume they are trying to scam me immediately. I'm sure women just assume the guy is trying to pick them up and 99% of the time they are going to put up a shield, unless you're high tier good looking and they are already interested just by seeing you. This guy has nothing going for him at all looks or conversation wise.
Also, he was approaching women WAY out of his league. Younger AND hotter, so he was swinging for the fences. He needs to get his feet wet with less attractive girls. If he had decent game he might have a chance but whoever is supposedly teaching him (if he says he's working on it) sucks at their teaching.
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11-26-2020, 07:51 AM #53
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11-26-2020, 08:26 AM #54
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11-26-2020, 09:07 AM #55
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11-26-2020, 09:09 AM #56
This dude needs to come to the misc, needs a few pills.
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11-26-2020, 09:17 AM #57
Or amazing social skills? Lol
If youre referencing the vid, no. But it takes some skill to turn something from nothing
I can tell you guys are hesitant and "wait back". Its not always about signs but making them
Imo. Male = see what you want , and get it
Not make up a bunch of rules to limit and confine yourself. Yes, there is tact and social nuance. I just think from a psyche standpoint you should be unlimited and then restricted, as opposed to limited and therefore restricted. But if you want my personal opinion i believe those self-limiting beliefs are due to inadequacy and or subservience
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11-26-2020, 09:20 AM #58
when you have to run up to someone, interrupt them and get their attention while they are walking somewhere, you are already going to fail 99% of the time unless you're a giga chad
you catch eye contact, smile like a normal person, if they smile back, then you cold approach...and why do this on the street? chill in a bar ffs at least somewhere where people are relaxing and likely looking for convversation
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11-26-2020, 09:25 AM #59
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11-26-2020, 09:27 AM #60
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So many things I found that could easily have been picked apart, outside of his height and bald head (like another miscer said).
1) Randomly approaching people on the street/busy areas IMHO will work rarely. First thing anyone would think is they are trying to sell you something. It doesn't matter if they are good looking or ugly, that's the first instinct people have when they are going towards a destination. Good looking people will have more success, but people will still think they are being used to try and sell something to anyone outside (as good looking people will get attention).
Even standing in the middle of busy areas and waiting to talk to someone will obviously raise some questions for why it's happening. It's better to just go to areas that have women congregated (bars, coffee shops, etc.) so it'll actually give you better chances.
2) His attire, while carrying a satchel, didn't do him any justice.
3) He didn't seem confident when he spoke, but I assume that'll be corrected with more experience.
4) This PUA in the video is also just as useless. I wouldn't be surprised if a girl gets freaked out by him.++ Positive Crew ++
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