Feels like my girlfriend has fried my braincells

[5tfihsmgidarap]

Im starting to think shes bipolar or something, 6 months of roller coaster emotional crap from her and I always been there for her supporting her mentally but i feel like i cant do it another ****ing time, i just got off the phone with her felt dead inside for the 30 minutes i spoke to her. So sick of her crap

[AK1615]

Been there

If you really love her then deal with it
Or move on for your own sanity

[wessneijder]

im starting to think shes bipolar or something, 6 months of roller coaster emotional crap from her and i always been there for her supporting her mentally but i feel like i cant do it another ****ing time, i just got off the phone with her felt dead inside for the 30 minutes i spoke to her. So sick of her crap

bpd

[muralitharann]

Yes, of course that must be it...

Couldn't be the fact that you hate your major, will never be a Navy SEAL, have a Muslim parent or are just a weird kunt...

^^^monica keeping notes on OP.

[Destor]

Have you tried men?

[FrankGrimes29]

Never date or marry any girl with bdp or any major emotional issue like depression or major anxiety.

Your life becomes swallowed up in it. And because they have a puzzy in 2020 they feel entitled and expect you to accept them being absolute fukking psychopaths just because. As soon as you allow that up and down behavior, it's game over. They have you by the balls and know they can do what they want and you'll be a fukking cuck to them.

There's a difference between being emotional, and being insane and manipulative and living your life by an emotional disorder and expecting everyone to cater to you because of it.

Dump her OP. You're young. Move on and find a more stable chick. They are out there. Somewhere.

[5tfihsmgidarap]

Yes, of course that must be it...

Couldn't be the fact that you hate your major, will never be a Navy SEAL, have a Muslim parent or are just a weird kunt...

All love brotha

[5tfihsmgidarap]

6 months and already feel like that? wtf

2.5 years total but the last 6 months been ****ty

[5tfihsmgidarap]

Never date or marry any girl with bdp or any major emotional issue like depression or major anxiety.

Your life becomes swallowed up in it. And because they have a puzzy in 2020 they feel entitled and expect you to accept them being absolute fukking psychopaths just because. As soon as you allow that up and down behavior, it's game over. They have you by the balls and know they can do what they want and you'll be a fukking cuck to them.

There's a difference between being emotional, and being insane and manipulative and living your life by an emotional disorder and expecting everyone to cater to you because of it.

Dump her OP. You're young. Move on and find a more stable chick. They are out there. Somewhere.

repped

[5tfihsmgidarap]

^^^monica keeping notes on OP.

lmao i got love for him he hates on me all the time but i dont mind it

[ReyDelMundo]

I had a moment in a relationship where I realized we were fighting every single day, over literally nothing.

We were both on the way home from work, she asked me what I wanted for dinner, I told her X, she asked if I could pick up a certain cabernet sauvignon and rolling papers.

Store I went to didn't have that brand of cab so I picked up another red that was 3x as expensive and I grabbed blunt wraps instead of rolling papers. Got to her house and she had a full on breakdown, screaming "why do you do this to me" when I gave her the bottle and blunt wraps, thinking she'd enjoy the wine. She kicked me out, I was driving home and was halfway through texting her at a red light about how we could salvage the night by just calming down and going to the store and getting the wine she wanted and rolling papers. I then realized she didn't get dinner so it was kind of laughable that she freaked out over me picking up things for her, not getting exactly what she asked for, and even trying to surprise her with a nicer bottle. Then I realized that we were fighting literally every night over nothing, she found anything to make an issue, and that in my 4 relationships prior, there was never a serious fight, years with a few uncomfortable conversations sure, the occasional disagreement, but never an argument.

I deleted what I had typed out, texted her to have a nice day and enjoy the wine, and to get rid of my home key. Never looked back and it was the best decision of my life.

OP if you're having these thoughts, get the fukk out.

[Kiop]

its in your
user name
5HTP!

[Krackerjacked]

Dump the sloot.
Don’t date degenerates. Chit is simple.

[Ratfish]

maybe she just needs a paradigm shift, brehddy

have you tried just disregarding all of her bullchit?

"haha, nah, that's crazy. anyway, i'm gonna get claw dialed. peace" and then hang up on her

the only way to handle chit like that is to pretend you don't notice it or disregard it completely

[5tfihsmgidarap]

its in your
user name
5HTP!

lmfao

[5tfihsmgidarap]

maybe she just needs a paradigm shift, brehddy

have you tried just disregarding all of her bullchit?

"haha, nah, that's crazy. anyway, i'm gonna get claw dialed. peace" and then hang up on her

the only way to handle chit like that is to pretend you don't notice it or disregard it completely

Its impossible to ignore unfortunately especially in person

[ReyDelMundo]

Break up with her, srs.

Anal first of course, then break up.

[zknarc]

Store I went to didn't have that brand of cab so I picked up another red that was 3x as expensive and I grabbed blunt wraps instead of rolling papers. Got to her house and she had a full on breakdown, screaming "why do you do this to me" when I gave her the bottle and blunt wraps, thinking she'd enjoy the wine. She kicked me out, I was driving home and was halfway through texting her at a red light about how we could salvage the night by just calming down and going to the store and getting the wine she wanted and rolling papers. I then realized she didn't get dinner so it was kind of laughable that she freaked out over me picking up things for her, not getting exactly what she asked for, and even trying to surprise her with a nicer bottle. Then I realized that we were fighting literally every night over nothing, she found anything to make an issue, and that in my 4 relationships prior, there was never a serious fight, years with a few uncomfortable conversations sure, the occasional disagreement, but never an argument.

I deleted what I had typed out, texted her to have a nice day and enjoy the wine, and to get rid of my home key. Never looked back and it was the best decision of my life.

Good work bailing on that chitshow

[soberchuck]

Never date or marry any girl with bdp or any major emotional issue like depression or major anxiety.

Your life becomes swallowed up in it. And because they have a puzzy in 2020 they feel entitled and expect you to accept them being absolute fukking psychopaths just because. As soon as you allow that up and down behavior, it's game over. They have you by the balls and know they can do what they want and you'll be a fukking cuck to them.

There's a difference between being emotional, and being insane and manipulative and living your life by an emotional disorder and expecting everyone to cater to you because of it.

Dump her OP. You're young. Move on and find a more stable chick. They are out there. Somewhere.

Anxiety isn't a dealbreaker but BPD is a complete phucking nightmare. I know it's overdiagnosed but I'm 99% sure ex-gf had it. Never again.

[CrimsonSteel]

have you tried just disregarding all of her bullchit?

"haha, nah, that's crazy. anyway, i'm gonna get claw dialed. peace" and then hang up on her

the only way to handle chit like that is to pretend you don't notice it or disregard it completely

Fuk, this is accurate. If I take the drama seriously it always starts getting serious. But when I'm more flippant and just joke everything off, it sort of cools everything down.

[5tfihsmgidarap]

Break up with her, srs.

Anal first of course, then break up.

just had my finger in her ass yesterday it felt dry gonna need a lot of lube lol

I had a moment in a relationship where I realized we were fighting every single day, over literally nothing.

We were both on the way home from work, she asked me what I wanted for dinner, I told her X, she asked if I could pick up a certain cabernet sauvignon and rolling papers.

Store I went to didn't have that brand of cab so I picked up another red that was 3x as expensive and I grabbed blunt wraps instead of rolling papers. Got to her house and she had a full on breakdown, screaming "why do you do this to me" when I gave her the bottle and blunt wraps, thinking she'd enjoy the wine. She kicked me out, I was driving home and was halfway through texting her at a red light about how we could salvage the night by just calming down and going to the store and getting the wine she wanted and rolling papers. I then realized she didn't get dinner so it was kind of laughable that she freaked out over me picking up things for her, not getting exactly what she asked for, and even trying to surprise her with a nicer bottle. Then I realized that we were fighting literally every night over nothing, she found anything to make an issue, and that in my 4 relationships prior, there was never a serious fight, years with a few uncomfortable conversations sure, the occasional disagreement, but never an argument.

I deleted what I had typed out, texted her to have a nice day and enjoy the wine, and to get rid of my home key. Never looked back and it was the best decision of my life.

OP if you're having these thoughts, get the fukk out.

repped

[soberchuck]

just had my finger in her ass yesterday it felt dry gonna need a lot of lube lol

Use her tears, lawd knows she's got enough to spare.

[FAPhaggot]

I had a moment in a relationship where I realized we were fighting every single day, over literally nothing.

We were both on the way home from work, she asked me what I wanted for dinner, I told her X, she asked if I could pick up a certain cabernet sauvignon and rolling papers.

Store I went to didn't have that brand of cab so I picked up another red that was 3x as expensive and I grabbed blunt wraps instead of rolling papers. Got to her house and she had a full on breakdown, screaming "why do you do this to me" when I gave her the bottle and blunt wraps, thinking she'd enjoy the wine. She kicked me out, I was driving home and was halfway through texting her at a red light about how we could salvage the night by just calming down and going to the store and getting the wine she wanted and rolling papers. I then realized she didn't get dinner so it was kind of laughable that she freaked out over me picking up things for her, not getting exactly what she asked for, and even trying to surprise her with a nicer bottle. Then I realized that we were fighting literally every night over nothing, she found anything to make an issue, and that in my 4 relationships prior, there was never a serious fight, years with a few uncomfortable conversations sure, the occasional disagreement, but never an argument.

I deleted what I had typed out, texted her to have a nice day and enjoy the wine, and to get rid of my home key. Never looked back and it was the best decision of my life.

OP if you're having these thoughts, get the fukk out.

Alpha as fuk cuz.

[muralitharann]

I had a moment in a relationship where I realized we were fighting every single day, over literally nothing.

We were both on the way home from work, she asked me what I wanted for dinner, I told her X, she asked if I could pick up a certain cabernet sauvignon and rolling papers.

Store I went to didn't have that brand of cab so I picked up another red that was 3x as expensive and I grabbed blunt wraps instead of rolling papers. Got to her house and she had a full on breakdown, screaming "why do you do this to me" when I gave her the bottle and blunt wraps, thinking she'd enjoy the wine. She kicked me out, I was driving home and was halfway through texting her at a red light about how we could salvage the night by just calming down and going to the store and getting the wine she wanted and rolling papers. I then realized she didn't get dinner so it was kind of laughable that she freaked out over me picking up things for her, not getting exactly what she asked for, and even trying to surprise her with a nicer bottle. Then I realized that we were fighting literally every night over nothing, she found anything to make an issue, and that in my 4 relationships prior, there was never a serious fight, years with a few uncomfortable conversations sure, the occasional disagreement, but never an argument.

I deleted what I had typed out, texted her to have a nice day and enjoy the wine, and to get rid of my home key. Never looked back and it was the best decision of my life.

OP if you're having these thoughts, get the fukk out.

this happened.

[redraider86]

I had a moment in a relationship where I realized we were fighting every single day, over literally nothing.

We were both on the way home from work, she asked me what I wanted for dinner, I told her X, she asked if I could pick up a certain cabernet sauvignon and rolling papers.

Store I went to didn't have that brand of cab so I picked up another red that was 3x as expensive and I grabbed blunt wraps instead of rolling papers. Got to her house and she had a full on breakdown, screaming "why do you do this to me" when I gave her the bottle and blunt wraps, thinking she'd enjoy the wine. She kicked me out, I was driving home and was halfway through texting her at a red light about how we could salvage the night by just calming down and going to the store and getting the wine she wanted and rolling papers. I then realized she didn't get dinner so it was kind of laughable that she freaked out over me picking up things for her, not getting exactly what she asked for, and even trying to surprise her with a nicer bottle. Then I realized that we were fighting literally every night over nothing, she found anything to make an issue, and that in my 4 relationships prior, there was never a serious fight, years with a few uncomfortable conversations sure, the occasional disagreement, but never an argument.

I deleted what I had typed out, texted her to have a nice day and enjoy the wine, and to get rid of my home key. Never looked back and it was the best decision of my life.

OP if you're having these thoughts, get the fukk out.

Love a good borderline story.

OP, you've been given good advice. Only thing I'll add is that you don't actually have to be in relationships or friendships with people you don't like. That sounds "duh" but it's not always obvious when you're in the thick of it. I look forward to your "any female miscers in the northeast" threads after the breakup, let's do this.

[rgnx]

this happened.

Idk why you would say that. I mean reading his story gave me nostalgia of my past relationship as well.

Ah to be a young inexperienced incel (wouldn't know)

[FrankGrimes29]

does crying / overaly attached count? e.g. u cant see her so she cries or gets super mad if u dont respond?

I mean...I would say so. Dependence like that usually leads to spite. Spite usually leads to bad things.

Depends how bad. But usually not a good quality.

[Broady78]

Dude..Self preservation..Move on before you lose your mind..Been there...dumped her.

[ReyDelMundo]

this happened.

Yes. I can name the intersection, the bottles of wine, the blunt wraps, and the 115lb girl I picked up on the way home.

In life you make a few key decisions. They stick with you.

[SUPERH0T]

If she's on the pill, it's probably making her mental.