What do women mean when they say they want a man who is "mysterious"?

[lupus002]

This is an important question.

[Ken-O]

I dont think i have ever heard women say they want a "mysterious" man.

They probably mean that they want a tall hot guy that wont talk to anyone except them

[AlexSays]

Its just a polite way of saying they don't want you OP

[Howiester]

Chad. They want Chad.

[BloodFireDeath]

mysterious as in wears a mask everywhere and doesnt reveal true identity

[stevemckenna]

A non-socially awkward good looking introvert.

[MiscMathematician]

a man who says "enough about me, tell me about you" at every opportunity

[Caldef]

I dont think i have ever heard women say they want a "mysterious" man.

They probably mean that they want a tall hot guy that wont talk to anyone except them

This

Im female and not one of my friends has ever said they want a "mysterious" guy

They all just want a nice guy who has his chit together.

[Evlve]

They want someone with his **** together that isn’t boring, lifeless, and can still surprise them from time to time

[zknarc]

Women have no idea what actually attracts them to men and come out with sociably acceptable chit like this. They want alpha chads, end of - the rest is just some justification.

Chad could have a giant warhammer 40k collection and play games and she'd find it "cute".

[superman704]

This is an important question.

Being mysterious is everything. A man may be poor, short, and not that good looking, but if he's mysterious women notice that and they fall in love with that

[didact117]

[Beararms]

Mysterious means a guy that doesnt show much emotion so they can bang their head against the wall getting frustrated and angry trying to figure the guy out but they stick around because they are on a mission to get the guy to open up.

[Eterniity]

it means they want someone who they can fantasise having more about them. So for example, they want someone that will show up on a date with a Rolex and but doesn't say what they do. This allows their imagination to go crazy with what they do, where did they get their riches? Another example, they see a huge scar on someones body but the guy doesn't say where they got it. It lets them speculate all this crazy **** and tell their friends that 'Oh my god, he was probably in some crazy fight.' They want someone who doesn't sleep with them at night (at first) they'll be thinking 'Where does this guy go at night' keeps shawty CURIOUS.

[ErnieMccracken]

Women have no idea what actually attracts them to men and come out with sociably acceptable chit like this. They want alpha chads, end of - the rest is just some justification.

Chad could have a giant warhammer 40k collection and play games and she'd find it "cute".

They just want a guy who can make them laugh!

[Ancient Olympia]

Its not that they seek it out, its that when they happen upon it, especially for the first time, it is very stimulating. They see a confident man that is well spoken. He spends more of his time in conversations asking questions and listening than he does talking about himself. He only speaks when necessary and is always evened out, not emotional.

Women love figuring things out. They will start developing scenarios in their head about who you are. Because you carry yourself with big dik energy, they begin to assume the best sexually about you. They see signs that their assumptions are right and want to get a hold of the D before anyone else figures it out

Its science

[rgnx]

This is an important question.

by mysterious they mean, "mysteriously large bank account" srs

[ErnieMccracken]

Its not that they seek it out, its that when they happen upon it, especially for the first time, it is very stimulating. They see a confident man that is well spoken. He spends more of his time in conversations asking questions and listening than he does talking about himself. He only speaks when necessary and is always evened out, not emotional.

Women love figuring things out. They will start developing scenarios in their head about who you are. Because you carry yourself with big dik energy, they begin to assume the best sexually about you. They see signs that their assumptions are right and want to get a hold of the D before anyone else figures it out

Its science

I think that makes sense. I do that. If they ask you about money or sex or anything private, just leave little breadcrumbs and let them fill in the gaps.

[SuperHercules]

I don't think it's a common request

If you meet a girl like that, smash and dash. it's obviously double speak for craving a new (mysterious) cock every night

[Eatforgains]

It's a mystery

[andrew28]

Rust Cohle

[rgnx]

I think that makes sense. I do that. If they ask you about money or sex or anything private, just leave little breadcrumbs and let them fill in the gaps.

Ya you do that, but does it work out for you? No or maybe just sometimes.

Most women want loud obnoxious dudes even if they are broke. Just my observation from someone who literally deals with 1000 people a week.

[AK1615]

This

[Woody-5]

they don't want to know everything about you in the first hour.
get them to talk about themselves the whole time, which they'll love (omg he's a great listener), then they're left wondering about you and it's a turn on

[ScannerDarkly]

Probably just means travel money.

[rgnx]

Its not that they seek it out, its that when they happen upon it, especially for the first time, it is very stimulating. They see a confident man that is well spoken. He spends more of his time in conversations asking questions and listening than he does talking about himself. He only speaks when necessary and is always evened out, not emotional.

Women love figuring things out. They will start developing scenarios in their head about who you are. Because you carry yourself with big dik energy, they begin to assume the best sexually about you. They see signs that their assumptions are right and want to get a hold of the D before anyone else figures it out

Its science

How old are you? 40+?

You greatly overestimate this new generation of females or males for that matter. Only thing that matters is flexin on the gram lol.

[jakobi]

A quiet, smooth talker guy (doesn't flaunt but keeps you guessing in a conversation) but has an interesting life.

[andrew28]

The best relationships are when the girl loves you and you just like her, according to Patrice O’Neal.

Jordan Peterson says women are attracted to bad/powerful men that they think they can tame. For women, these were the top 5 categories of men they fantasize about.

Wherewolf
Vampire
Billionaire
Surgeon
Pirate

[Better Unborn]

a somewhat quiet Chad who does not talk a lot about himself

[ElixanderVild1]

They want you to wear a balaclava