Anyone else just become completely disinterested in women (srs thread)

[lexbishop]

Anyone else feel like there's no sense of wonder with them anymore? That they're just completely empty shells with nothing to offer? That they feel like a complete drain of resources, time, and energy? That the only thing that you're even semi interested in is the way they look but you've been there done that, and you're over it? You've gotten laid enough times by enough women; nice ones, crazy ones, fun ones, sweet ones, bitchy ones, hot ones, average ones, big/small tits/ass, thick, thin, smart, dumb and even different ethnicities and literally you just would rather lift, jog, play video games, and read instead of wasting your time with them?

Maybe I'm just getting old, but I am completely disillusioned by them, the spectacle is gone, and I've come to the realization that I don't need them and I never did anyway.

Is something wrong with me or is this natural?

[Polaris]

To a very large extent, yes.

[JonV10]

try men

[lexbishop]

try men

I knew this would be a response which is why I put srs.

So we don't waste time with it, that's absolutely disgusting

[JonV10]

I knew this would be a response which is why I put srs.

So we don't waste time with it, that's absolutely disgusting

sorry someone had to do it

[ErnieMccracken]

I look back on all the dumb chit I used to get dragged to - weddings, wine tastings, 2 hours across town in traffic to see a chit tier local band she likes, crazy overcrowded overpriced restaurants with $20 cocktails, friend's birthday parties, and on and on...

And I think, I could die without ever going to a sloot pack event again.

[Gios]

I wish, because they are disinterested in me.

[4everalone]

Never

I dont Even know how brahs Can go a week without sex. Brb tinder+ & hit up 100 different girls to try to fuk after a few days.

Married now but dont miss being single. Chasing pussy took over my life. Clubbing, tinder, sending thirsty messages to female coworkers etc etc

[wasp9166]

Pretty much

[lexbishop]

To a very large extent, yes.

I think what did it for me is that they're soulless and uncaring. Literally the opposite of what they pretend to be.

And I'm talking about all of them too. The nice part is a facade, they're wretched and extremely self centered.

They dish it out, yet they can't take any criticism at all when you throw it back at them.

Sugar spice and everything nice is not only a relic of a bygone era, but when it comes down to it, your male friends are more understanding and have your back.

And since I'm not gay, I just literally don't give a **** about them anymore.

Like follow me here, besides their pussy, the whole point of them is supposed to be the fairer, sweeter sex, but they're legit not at all.

So besides the place to park my dick inside, what incentive do I even have to waste time energy and resources on any?

Especially one! That's the other thing. I literally cannot comprehend being with one. They're all a waste of time, imagine investing time and energy into a wailing banshee that gets worse over time.

Am I missing something here? Can I reverse this? I kind of hate being this way. Is there anything I can do to turn back the clock? I find myself not even being able to fake being nice to them anymore.

[ErnieMccracken]

Never

I dont Even know how brahs Can go a week without sex. Brb tinder+ & hit up 100 different girls to try to fuk after a few days.

Married now but dont miss being single. Chasing pussy took over my life. Clubbing, tinder, sending thirsty messages to female coworkers etc etc

You sound like a sex addict, brah. It's literally thrusting in a moist hole of a person who you'd otherwise want nothing to do with.

[mk2kh]

Have u been burnt by women in the past? Then ur post would make sense

[DrugsToGetBig]

i've accepted i'm far too different and incompatible with the modern day woman in my generation so i'll be living out the rest of my days happily alone

[lexbishop]

Have u been burnt by women in the past? Then ur post would make sense

I definitely have but not in a damn long time. The last time I got truly burned was a decade ago.

Instead, I'm just disillusioned by them. Besides sex, they offer nothing I can't do for myself. And now that I know from experience that their niceness is a facade and comes with negotiations or they will do **** behind your back or just to piss you off, or that they're not into partnerships or holding up their end of the bargain, that I ask myself why?

It's a genuine question that I would love to know the answer to.

How can I actually be interested after knowing that they don't offer anything aside from the physical? In actuality, they're a net drain. A huge one!

[MikeLowrrrey]

You gay op?

[lexbishop]

You gay op?

Thread is marked serious you illiterate jackass

[KirkMcquest]

I think you are right for the most part. A man's life can be pretty sweet if he stays single and keeps life simple just enjoying the little things every day.

The problem is once you figure that out and start making yourself happy and satisfied, women can smell it on you and they come at you hard. For years when I was chasing women I didnt have too much luck, but as soon as I gave up and started making myself happy they came out of the wood work like hungry jackals.

[ayyy]

itt op hasn't gotten any matches on tinder

[DavidEaslea]

That's because you listened to all the anti nuclear family MGTOW losers on here.

[Polaris]

I think what did it for me is that they're soulless and uncaring. Literally the opposite of what they pretend to be.

And I'm talking about all of them too. The nice part is a facade, they're wretched and extremely self centered.

They dish it out, yet they can't take any criticism at all when you throw it back at them.

Sugar spice and everything nice is not only a relic of a bygone era, but when it comes down to it, your male friends are more understanding and have your back.

And since I'm not gay, I just literally don't give a **** about them anymore.

Like follow me here, besides their pussy, the whole point of them is supposed to be the fairer, sweeter sex, but they're legit not at all.

So besides the place to park my dick inside, what incentive do I even have to waste time energy and resources on any?

Especially one! That's the other thing. I literally cannot comprehend being with one. They're all a waste of time, imagine investing time and energy into a wailing banshee that gets worse over time.

Am I missing something here? Can I reverse this? I kind of hate being this way. Is there anything I can do to turn back the clock? I find myself not even being able to fake being nice to them anymore.

I agree with most of this.

I do think some its just a personal thing too, as far as the level of BS you have the patience for. If you value doing your own thing/your personal time/space/etc. then even good quality/relatively low maintenance women can get tiresome fast. Most of the time I like to be left alone and I hate getting nagged about "not being affectionate enough" or them getting butthurt because you aren't talking/texting/spending enough time with to appease them/etc. Also, I'll admit I've grown become pretty sexist and hold an overall pretty low opinion of women - if you're really honest and objective, I think its pretty hard not to be.

Additionally, when it comes down to it I think sex is pretty damn overrated - and imo most women don't have much to offer besides that. My willingness to jump through hoops, or "jestermaxx" is practically non existent now.

There's a lot more I could say on this topic, but don't feel like rambling on endlessly. I certainly can't say I've completely 100% lost interest in women, but its pretty damn low, and the amount of effort I'm willing to put into one or investment I'm willing to make is super low. Perhaps there's some exceptions out there, but I wouldn't hold my breath - nor am I looking for them if they do exist. I much prefer just doing my own thing and only having myself to worry about. I HIGHLY value simplicity and peace of mind.

[mesobuild]

I agree, except I still feel enough youthful explosiveness to care for some of the extreme attraction more or less regularly.
Also, I'd only spend effort to build a good family, which sounds nice. Not falling for any of the rest after seeing some of the ones I do not find attractive playing the soulless games they play.

Socially, people will push you around more if a long-term girlfriend is not around to keep people in line against you. I would not say it's worth the tradeoff unless she's super smart and connected to make me enjoy talking to her.

[lexbishop]

I agree with most of this.

I do think some its just a personal thing too, as far as the level of BS you have the patience for. If you value doing your own thing/your personal time/space/etc. then even good quality/relatively low maintenance women can get tiresome fast. Most of the time I like to be left alone and I hate getting nagged about "not being affectionate enough" or them getting butthurt because you aren't talking/texting/spending enough time with to appease them/etc. Also, I'll admit I've grown become pretty sexist and hold an overall pretty low opinion of women - if you're really honest and objective, I think its pretty hard not to be.

Additionally, when it comes down to it I think sex is pretty damn overrated - and imo most women don't have much to offer besides that. My willingness to jump through hoops, or "jestermaxx" is practically non existent now.

There's a lot more I could say on this topic, but don't feel like rambling on endlessly. I certainly can't say I've completely 100% lost interest in women, but its pretty damn low, and the amount of effort I'm willing to put into one or investment I'm willing to make is super low. Perhaps there's some exceptions out there, but I wouldn't hold my breath - nor am I looking for them if they do exist. I much prefer just doing my own thing and only having myself to worry about. I HIGHLY value simplicity and peace of mind.

Out of everything I've read so far, I resonate with this the most. I'm doing a back workout right now, so I'm answering quickly between sets.

If you have more to add I'm all ears. This is kind of filling in the blanks for me.

[EmmaW4tson]

try men

Plenty of men with bolt ons so I guess they are.

[lexbishop]

I agree, except I still feel enough youthful explosiveness to care for some of the extreme attraction more or less regularly.
Also, I'd only spend effort to build a good family, which sounds nice. Not falling for any of the rest after seeing some of the ones I do not find attractive playing the soulless games they play.

Socially, people will push you around more if a long-term girlfriend is not around to keep people in line against you. I would not say it's worth the tradeoff unless she's super smart and connected to make me enjoy talking to her.

Can you expand on your first sentence? I'm not sure what you mean by that.

[ErnieMccracken]

That's because you listened to all the anti nuclear family MGTOW losers on here.

Some of us were never meant for that life. I remember the exact MOMENT I red pilled myself as a 12 year old before there was even a movement.

I come from a large family (mostly married with kids now) and my parents have been married for 40 years, but I always knew it wasn't for me.

[GordonXXX]

what scares me is when you start stripping away the makeup, hair dye, shapewear, and fake personalities, what do you have left?

[NMS3]

Yeah. It’s more-so that I’m just over having to put so much effort only to eventually get ghosted. Most are just playing silly games. I’m over it.
I’m noticing a trend in a lot of guys sharing the same sentiment. I hate the FA talk but there’s some truth for sure.
I try not to complain though. Just doing my thing.

[lexbishop]

what scares me is when you start stripping away the makeup, hair dye, shapewear, and fake personalities, what do you have left?

A complaining, selfish, unnecessary, emotional vampire child.

But they do it to themselves by going all defensive and ******* when they're in the wrong. I wouldn't be the way I am now if they didn't bitch and complain about everything and never just shut the **** up when they're acting foolish or selfish. When daddy lexbishop is talking stfu and take it. Not my fault their dad's didn't do their job.

I don't bother apologizing anymore either and I stopped giving extra chances too. Once my emotions turn off, its a wrap.

[roughinhouse]

if you're not in the top 20% of males, there's no point in pursuing women.

[mesobuild]

Can you expand on your first sentence? I'm not sure what you mean by that.

I mean I have not been laid enough times that it is not still worth it to go all out sometimes. Just an itch to scratch.