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10-26-2020, 02:17 PM #31
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10-26-2020, 02:21 PM #32
go for the quiet guy
not the loud guy whos raising his voice, putting down his fellow man and bragging about his dink in public
women always pick the second guy
cons: might seem awkward at first
pros: strong relationship once you get past that awkwardness and wont cheat cuz he doesnt party and has too much anxiety to cold approach girls. Dating apps are always there for them thoughDoordasher crew (SRS)
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10-26-2020, 02:22 PM #33anonymousGuest
Loled at "You look autism." I thought my real life friends were just trolling me when they mentioned it but apparently not.
Thanks for the advice. I signed up for therapy to deal with my social anxiety so hopefully when life goes back to normal, I'll have fixed myself enough to be more comfortable doing social things.
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10-26-2020, 02:22 PM #34
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10-26-2020, 02:24 PM #35
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I'm there with you on the marriage bit unless it's a business transaction where I'm benefiting (sounds worse than it is - I just have a lot to lose) otherwise I enjoy long term companionship like you do.
What are some of the qualities you look for in a man? I think that would help narrow down to 'where to look'.
EX: Do you want a guy that .. enjoys cooking as much as you do and learning new things? (take group cooking classes - they're actually pretty fun)
Also.. parachute dresses are not the business.. please at least look like you care about the way you dress.R 1 35
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10-26-2020, 02:29 PM #36
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What is parachute dress?
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10-26-2020, 02:30 PM #37
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10-26-2020, 02:31 PM #38
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10-26-2020, 02:31 PM #39anonymousGuest
Almost 35.
I am naturally attracted to the quiet guys anyway. I have never dated the loud guy. But it turns out quiet doesn't mean decent character.
I am not promiscuous and I don't judge those who are as long as it's consensual and no one is lying to anyone.
I don't care if a guy doesn't like cooking, I like feeding people. I want a guy who's kind, and smart, and not a big party animal, preferably one who likes reading. Definitely someone who's a bit of homebody like me so we can chill together and spend hours talking about things. My only physical deal breaker is being fat. Maybe a little overweight but rolls and stuff, I can't do.
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10-26-2020, 02:31 PM #40
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10-26-2020, 02:35 PM #43
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10-26-2020, 02:36 PM #44anonymousGuest
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10-26-2020, 02:39 PM #45
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10-26-2020, 02:39 PM #46
OP, you can probably find your fellow LDAR chad playing WOW or some chit.
- guaranteed to wanna stay at home and not cheat on you
- probably has the same views as you (reddit brainwashing, etc.)
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10-26-2020, 02:40 PM #47
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10-26-2020, 02:41 PM #48
Agreed. Gonna be hard to find a long term man who doesn't want marriage or kids. The guys who don't want marriage or kids don't wanna be with just one woman either.
I don't agree about the political stuff. There are a lot of people who are socially conservative and don't agree with libertarian economics. If there was an American party who was socially conservative and economically centrist they'd get a chit ton of votes in poor conservative states. The reason the Dems do bad in the south has nothing to do with economics6'2"
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10-26-2020, 02:43 PM #49
I’d start by focusing on qualities that you like, rather than qualities you don’t. If you want a homebody who is well read, look for somebody who you can talk to about books you enjoy. It should be an easy way to meet somebody who you have stuff in common with, without coming off as your average basic sloot with a list of standards. The standards often follow interests anyway, or become irrelevant in the long run (bodies change and so do people). Also, good character is never a guarantee.
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10-26-2020, 02:46 PM #50
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10-26-2020, 02:47 PM #51
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10-26-2020, 02:47 PM #52
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10-26-2020, 02:47 PM #53
Yeah, that's not it.
Surprisingly accurate. A miscer that might actually like women vs. hate 'em, but wanna get laid.
I relate to your take on online dating.
I'm probably just as lame in this area or even worse. That said I would suggest dressing with a bit more individuality.
Doesn't have to be slooty or a lot of $$$, just coordinated and thought about. I get compliments on what I wear pretty often from men, women, and, yes, sometimes kids. I like cute/funny graphic tees w/jeans and faux Chucks or sometimes flattering dresses. Something as minor as matching your sneakers w/the color of your tee can draw positive attention.
Chances are there is a style of some type that you are drawn to or that is flattering for your figure.INTP Crew
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10-26-2020, 02:48 PM #54
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10-26-2020, 02:51 PM #56
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10-26-2020, 02:52 PM #57
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10-26-2020, 03:13 PM #58
All the major ones have been said. Definitely not wanting kids and a traditional marriage is going to make it hard to find and lock down a decent dude. Your social anxiety isn't doing you any favors either, but at least you say you're seeking therapy to help overcome it. GL with the therapy.
How did you end up like this srs? Most Africans, as I'm sure you know, are raised to have pretty traditional values and views when it comes to things like parenthood (especially for women). My family was not that way, however. Where are you from/did you grow up?
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10-26-2020, 03:18 PM #59
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10-26-2020, 03:20 PM #60
How high are your standards? If you are looking for the good looking in shape succesfull guy, you are going to be competing with girls in their mid 20's, so we better start there. What are your expectations?
If you are down to earth, you may find a companion for life that may aling with your personality, i just hope you arent expecting the type of guy that the rest of women are attracted to as well"The flowers bloom, then wither... The stars shine and one day become extinct. This earth, the sun, the galaxies and even the big universe, someday will be destroyed. Compared with that, the human life is only a blink, just a little time. In that short time - people are born, laugh, cry, fight, are injured, feel joy, sadness, hate someone, love someone. All in just a moment. And then, are embraced by the eternal sleep called death."
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