Female friend keeps contacting me after rejecting me

[sv722]

I'd like some advice on a girl that i am / used to be friends with. We met about 4 years ago and have been close. I've had several chances to smash and she always flirted with me but I failed to do so as she was dating a buddy of mine at the time.

I have since fallen out with that buddy and we no longer speak. Looking back on it, i should have smashed when i had the chance as my "buddy" turned out to be a jealous Piece of chit. I moved cities to start a new career in 2017 and haven't looked back since.

I messaged her in summer 2018 and asked her to come see me but she ended up ghosting me for 9 months. I was lowkey butthurt and a few friends suggested that she wasn't interested so i left it at that and focused on living my best life. From April 2019 she has been messaging me trying to meet me but i had lost interest and was still a little upset so i just carried on with my career and focused on other chit.

So i've been dodging her meet-up requests but keeping my text replies civil and not going apechit at her as i'm too polite to say what i really feel. She keeps on attempting to get into contact with me and even rang lat month but i didn't respond.

I get the feeling i'm being bread-crumbed and im certain she is on someone else's cock and only wants attention. I'd smash if i found her naked on my bed but i certainly am not going to put my neck out on the line to get rejected again and have my ego bruised.

What is the best way to proceed? Try and smash or just go NC?



No pics, but thank you for your time

[WishIWasJawBrah]

Move on

[Trillical]

Shes a whore for taking pics wearing that. I would 100% no contact her.

[BraneyGumble]

Assuming this is not a roll bread

I messaged her in summer 2018 and asked her to come see me but she ended up ghosting me for 9 months. ]

You were never friends, you're just fueling her attention seeking, as we can see, now that you've made this thread.

North Carolina.

[sv722]

Assuming this is not a roll bread



You were never friends, you're just fueling her attention seeking, as we can see, now that you've made this thread.

North Carolina.

Why would you assume this is a roll bread? Also we were friends lol but i lost interest after she refused to come meet me. Is NC enough or should i delete her number too?

Shes a whore for taking pics wearing that. I would 100% no contact her.

Lol that's not her, just a random sloot i found online.

[sv722]

Bump

[Hartley110]

Why would you be friends with a girl?
You were never friends... You wanted to sex her, but you settled as a just another male orbitor who she attentionwhoremaxxed.

You make **** happen by taking action, which you tried, and she ended up not being serious.
Now, she wants to leach out some more attention from you.

The solution is simple. You text her "I've learned a lot since I first started being friends with you. And well, I have absolutely zero desire to be friends with a female who I'm physically attracted to. I've attempted to hangout and make something happen between us, but you disrespected me by ghosting me after my invitation. If you want another chance with me, you'll have to make this up to me. When are you free? You can bring some food over and cook me dinner and then I'll get you naked."

Stop being friends with females and do not give any free attention, ever. Always make **** happen with females, they either comply or disappear. PERFECT.

[Burgerbuger]

You are putting way too much thought into a sloot who didn't give two ****s about you.

Go NC. End of story

[grandmoloch]

Hey man I appreciate the pics.

If you have the discipline not to start zimping, you can see what's up and if she is coming to suck your dink after a bit of chatting let her do it. Else it's time to book a ticket to Charlotte, NC.

[NMS3]

You clearly want more than just a friendship, and you should make that very clear to her.

[Hector002]

Should have went NC after she ghosted you.

[notbadnotbrad]

You obviously have feelings for this girl or you wouldn’t be posting about it.

If you feel you can’t smash without catching feels don’t smash. Otherwise go ahead and smash.

[Krackerjacked]

I’d invite her to your place and smash
Then on to the next boyo

[MikeLowrrrey]

Imagine how pathetic and beta you have to be to dwell over some woman after she's ghosted you for 9 months. Billions and billions of gals out there and you're stuck on 1 attention whoring retard. 2011 joins date, you obviously know what most of the guys here are gonna say.

The best advice is go no contact. Put her number under ignore. It's not that hard you cuck

[DDSF1]

First off, you did the right thing not having sex with another dude’s girl even if you found out later he was not a good friend. As far as getting with her now—that’s a no my boy. She is either going to fuk you over by playing around and not fuking (being a tease) or she will fuk you over after fuking. Go no contact.

[Better Unborn]

sloots use men for attention and favors

if you got ghosted even once it means that you are not sexually attractive to her and most likely never will be. so just give up on her ass. manipulative women gonna manipulate

[notbadnotbrad]

sloots use men for attention and favors

if you got ghosted even once it means that you are not sexually attractive to her and most likely never will be. so just give up on her ass. manipulative women gonna manipulate

Lol it doesn’t mean she’s not attracted to him sexually.

There could be a variety of different reasons that have nothing to do with OP. Strong jumping to conclusions.

[propreffered7]

id say tell her to fuk off. SRS

i know you're gonna think that's harsh. but if she likes you i bet you 10 to 1 it's exactly what you need to flip the script

kinda depends on what she says.. but i'd say something like "if i can't have you romantically then i dont want anything to do with you. sorry"

look at it less as "getting back at her" cause that's not what you're doing. you're establishing grounds and are standing for it

then if she says any bitchy ****. just leave it at that. dont budge at all

again, i promise you if she likes you she'll do something. if you were in the friendzone it will definitely flip the script. cause you'll turn into that masculine caricature she prob wanted. if not, you've already been living without her.. so what

[whitepaper]

Move on

Shes a whore for taking pics wearing that. I would 100% no contact her.

Assuming this is not a roll bread



You were never friends, you're just fueling her attention seeking, as we can see, now that you've made this thread.

North Carolina.

Why would you be friends with a girl?
You were never friends... You wanted to sex her, but you settled as a just another male orbitor who she attentionwhoremaxxed.

You make **** happen by taking action, which you tried, and she ended up not being serious.
Now, she wants to leach out some more attention from you.

The solution is simple. You text her "I've learned a lot since I first started being friends with you. And well, I have absolutely zero desire to be friends with a female who I'm physically attracted to. I've attempted to hangout and make something happen between us, but you disrespected me by ghosting me after my invitation. If you want another chance with me, you'll have to make this up to me. When are you free? You can bring some food over and cook me dinner and then I'll get you naked."

Stop being friends with females and do not give any free attention, ever. Always make **** happen with females, they either comply or disappear. PERFECT.

You are putting way too much thought into a sloot who didn't give two ****s about you.

Go NC. End of story

Hey man I appreciate the pics.

If you have the discipline not to start zimping, you can see what's up and if she is coming to suck your dink after a bit of chatting let her do it. Else it's time to book a ticket to Charlotte, NC.

Why would you assume this is a roll bread? Also we were friends lol but i lost interest after she refused to come meet me. Is NC enough or should i delete her number too?



Lol that's not her, just a random sloot i found online.

Bump

You clearly want more than just a friendship, and you should make that very clear to her.

Should have went NC after she ghosted you.

Never hook up with someone who has already rejected you unless it's just a smash and dash

She won't magically change her opinion on you, she just has no better options at the moment

You obviously have feelings for this girl or you wouldn’t be posting about it.

If you feel you can’t smash without catching feels don’t smash. Otherwise go ahead and smash.

I’d invite her to your place and smash
Then on to the next boyo

Imagine how pathetic and beta you have to be to dwell over some woman after she's ghosted you for 9 months. Billions and billions of gals out there and you're stuck on 1 attention whoring retard. 2011 joins date, you obviously know what most of the guys here are gonna say.

The best advice is go no contact. Put her number under ignore. It's not that hard you cuck

First off, you did the right thing not having sex with another dude’s girl even if you found out later he was not a good friend. As far as getting with her now—that’s a no my boy. She is either going to fuk you over by playing around and not fuking (being a tease) or she will fuk you over after fuking. Go no contact.

sloots use men for attention and favors

if you got ghosted even once it means that you are not sexually attractive to her and most likely never will be. so just give up on her ass. manipulative women gonna manipulate

Lol it doesn’t mean she’s not attracted to him sexually.

There could be a variety of different reasons that have nothing to do with OP. Strong jumping to conclusions.

Why are you all wasting your time?


He didn't even post pics (those aren't of the girl, just some random he found), and here you guys are analyzing his problems.


This is why the misc is shiit now. You've all become emotional estrogen soaked tampons, and ignore any and all rules. This is why shiit posters feel they can post their garbage.

[Tomohokk]

This is why the misc is shiit now. You've all become emotional estrogen soaked tampons, and ignore any and all rules. This is why shiit posters feel they can post their garbage.

Exactly. Stop caring and just do you.

[anonkunbrah]

Didnt read but do what u do playa

[G0nzo72]

TLDR

- female
- friend

Pick one

[Brotatoch1p]

Send her this

"Hey shawty. lemme holla at you right quick ya know what im sayin. checkin you out over there you lookin kinda good, ya know what im sayin. so i was wondering ya know how about you and me go back to the place, get comfortable, probably sip on some of this henney, you know what im sayin, and after that, you know what im... sayin, we can do the grownup and you can let me clap on dem cheeks, ya hear me"

[tank2003]

IMO, if your gut tells you something you should follow it. But it doesnt hurt to ask for a second opinion. I still think you've got your answer though

[northernlights7]

You are putting way too much thought into a sloot who didn't give two ****s about you.

Go NC. End of story

This. If she didn't want to advance your relationship with her to a romantic/physical one years ago, that's not going to change now. Especially if she left you hanging on some other random meet up you had planned with her in between then and now. She's just looking for free attention, and wants you to be one of the suckers who gives it to her.

Let's be honest, you were never really her "friend". At least not in the sense you would have been with a guy where there was zero physical attraction by either party. She was your "friend" you secretly/subconciously hoped to get in the sack one day. Clearly, she was never down with that, and that hasn't changed. Time to let it go and move along, breh. You've already wasted far too much energy worrying about it. srs.

[sv722]

IMO, if your gut tells you something you should follow it. But it doesnt hurt to ask for a second opinion. I still think you've got your answer though

My gut tells me that she's after something whether it's attention or something else like money, i dunno. I want to rage smash her but i don't wanna catch feelings. I'm still a lil salty about being rejected.

I don't have my answer as there are several conflicting opinions in this thread.

[deriktheman]

Dude wtf. Move on. She is getting banged into a coma and then text you for attention after. And youre there waiting like a good boy.

Learn from this and do better.

[kauseemcee]

Two options


OR



FR I'd be finding out her motives with a straight up question like "why are you tryna get back in my life after you basically ghosted me"

Don't be afraid to be UPFRONT about it man

[CopeFear]

JFL @ jestermaxxing srs

[ChewYourFood]

Stop being a nice guy. It makes women dry.

Ask her directly what she wants. Proceed based on response. I’d pump and dump, you’ll probably marry her and she will cheat on you because you make her dry as fuk.

Stay safe.