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    Angry Slooty Girl Wants To Go Exclusive With Me (SRS) (wat do?) (PICS)

    Met a girl off Tinder a few weeks ago, been on four dates with her, had some sex0rs etc. She comes across as very nice (gives money to beggars, is always very sweet in person, saying how handsome she finds me etc.) However, also incredibly slooty (we literally just go for coffee and fukk, at her suggestion, though I've asked if she doesn't want to head for dinner or do something different too). She only texts me around the time of her dates, or random sexting chats.

    She also flirts with a LOT of her male friends, there's this one male friend who comments on a lot of her pics and in return she's liked a lot of his and commented "You're such a bad boy " on one of them. (Yes, shamelessly detectived him lol). He's her "type" (tattooed, bald etc.) so I do see him as a worry. The only thing is that he lives far away in London, but still I don't want to go exclusive with a sloot.

    Anyway, she called me this morning (we were going to go on a date, but her cousins are visiting so we just talked on the phone instead), and had a long chat about where this is headed, if we're going FWB or what. I said I didn't want to keep things too casual but also didn't want an exclusive relationship probably. She started really pushing the whole exclusive thing, saying she feels "a connection" with me, if I date other girls she wants to be "my priority," she's busy at work so won't have time to date other guys anyway, etc. I said (knowing she sloots on social media) I expect girls to not flirt with guys on social media etc. if I'm exclusive and she said "Oh, I'd never do that! I'm not that kind of girl" but ofc I know she does.

    So in the end she (grudgingly) agreed to discuss going exclusive later. However, as we were saying goodbye I stupidly mentioned something like "I only want you," and she said "I only want you too... FOR NOW!" and then started giggling.

    It would be a mistake to go exclusive with her or make her "my priority" (wtf does that even mean?!) right?

    Cliffs:

    -Tinder girl literally just meets up with OP to phuck/go for coffee, however she's very nice and clicks with OP
    -OP knows girl sloots with other guys on social media, including often liking one particular guy who's her type comments on her photos, and commenting chit like "You're such a bad boy " on his photos
    -Girl suggests going exclusive with OP or at least wants to be his "priority" girl
    -OP is not sure, mentions to girl he expects his girlfriends to not sloot on social media and she says "I'd never do that tehe!"
    -wat do?


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    If she's already lying about not flirting with guys on SM, as you've seen she does, then it doesn't sound promising.
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    not worth the headache. keep banging until you find a replacement.
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    I would nope out of that situation OP. Keep banging, but please don't take her offer to be exclusive.
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    She looks so fake. What does she look like without all of the makeup/hair?

    These Instagram sloots all look the same. What happened to natural beauty?

    It doesn't sound like she's mature enough for an exclusive relationship.
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    I did the insta model flings for a while. That is until I embarrassingly caught feels for one and let her move in with me. Ended horribly. Would not recommend/10 SRS brah run.
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    Originally Posted by George2100 View Post
    I did the insta model flings for a while. That is until I embarrassingly caught feels for one and let her move in with me. Ended horribly. Would not recommend/10 SRS brah run.
    dude I want to hear this, do you have a link to your post or cliffs?
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    Okay let’s take one step back here. What evidence do you actually have that she’s a sloot? A lot of girls who look like her and have social media post flirty messages to the guys commenting. They love the attention.

    If she pushing for exclusivity that would show me she’s not that interested in being a side piece.
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    You posted earlier this month in regards to adding girls then finding out they’re instasloots and I’m assuming this might’ve been the girl you were posting about, you seemed pretty ticked off at it then so you should still feel the same way and should in no way shape or form consider going exclusive. A lot of instasloots are the same, I would stay far far away from making anything with her exclusive unless you like the taste of other dudes cum. Everyone here has said do not go exclusive with her and I hope you’re one of the ones that listen. There’s some nice girls on these dating apps that aren’t social media attention whore craving braindead sloots like this one, don’t forget lockdown has just hit too so there’s gonna be a rise in girls getting on these apps. Keep smashing and use her as a side piece but please don’t make her anything more than that. I’ve found girls that are 7/10 and don’t use social media the same way instasloots do. Taking into account you can get one of these dolled up girls that only go for chads I’m gonna assume you have no problem matching up with women so just keep playing the numbers game until you match with one that doesn’t behave this way.
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    Everything was cool until "I only want you". OP you dun goofed. Have you not heard the phrase "people want what they can't have". She's only playing ball because you haven't given her what she wants. The broad even told you "I only want you FOR NOW...". If her intentions aren't clear from that statement....abandon all hope for OP
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    I'm actually in a quite similar position as you OP. I got a what appears to be slooty girl 10/10 looks, and another nice but akward 5/10 girl interested in me. For me there is a trade-off I will lose one or both depending on my actions.

    First question to you is, what do you lose going exclusive? If you are interested in the girl you could give it a shot and just gtfo if it is a headache, given that you don't get too attached early on. It has been said before by others in this thread but flirty messages are not a guarantee shes a sloot, however it is highly likely.

    All in all if you got nothing to lose and want to give it a shot, then why not. Worst case you NC her and move on.

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    Okay let’s take one step back here. What evidence do you actually have that she’s a sloot? A lot of girls who look like her and have social media post flirty messages to the guys commenting. They love the attention.

    If she pushing for exclusivity that would show me she’s not that interested in being a side piece.
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    We all have to keep in mind there is no way to judge someone before actually knowing them. We live in a world now that a hot girl can get thousands of likes or comments about her body a day. You either are okay dating these girls or not. What I have noticed is anyone under 30 years of age now is pretty much married to their phones and this type of behaviour.

    When it comes to determining if a girl is promiscuous or not I wouldn’t take her flirting on Instagram as an indicator of this or not.

    I once was dating a cute, fun, girl next door type who wore reserved clothes and was well balanced. If I had to guess her body count was less than 5 from getting to know her. After a few weeks I came to learn she was once tagged teamed by two guys after a bar outing one night. Her ex boyfriend never knew this about her and probably thought she was a snowflake. Point is, you never really know and at some point this stuff just gets in the way of being happy.

    I used to look around at couples and think those guys have the perfect woman... as I have aged I have come to realize probably all of those couples have struggled, have things they don’t like about each other and lots of stuff they don’t know about each other also. I think a lot of us hold out for that perfect person that never ends up coming.

    Another thing to keep in mind is people’s behaviour changes once in a relationship. People can shut off attention from the outside and be loyal. Something to think about.
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    A lot of good advices in this thread. Imo, if you're making a, topic about it, it's because you're not sure, otherwise you would had went for it. As mentioned, you can't blame a single girls to flirt around if she's isn't exclusive to you, on the other side, will that change if you guys get exclusive? Who knows.
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    Originally Posted by dolvioblue View Post
    We all have to keep in mind there is no way to judge someone before actually knowing them. We live in a world now that a hot girl can get thousands of likes or comments about her body a day. You either are okay dating these girls or not. What I have noticed is anyone under 30 years of age now is pretty much married to their phones and this type of behaviour.

    When it comes to determining if a girl is promiscuous or not I wouldn’t take her flirting on Instagram as an indicator of this or not.

    I once was dating a cute, fun, girl next door type who wore reserved clothes and was well balanced. If I had to guess her body count was less than 5 from getting to know her. After a few weeks I came to learn she was once tagged teamed by two guys after a bar outing one night. Her ex boyfriend never knew this about her and probably thought she was a snowflake. Point is, you never really know and at some point this stuff just gets in the way of being happy.

    I used to look around at couples and think those guys have the perfect woman... as I have aged I have come to realize probably all of those couples have struggled, have things they don’t like about each other and lots of stuff they don’t know about each other also. I think a lot of us hold out for that perfect person that never ends up coming.

    Another thing to keep in mind is people’s behaviour changes once in a relationship. People can shut off attention from the outside and be loyal. Something to think about.
    this is what blows my mind

    you never know what your girl's past has REALLY involved. kind of sick really. the only way to find out is to come across like you'll never judge her for anything and then out of the blue bring it up when she's drunk or something.

    otherwise you'll always get lied to. it really fukks with my head to know that any girls i get with my age or older has probably done extremely depraved things

    meanwhile girls being girls, they expect to get treated like innocent princesses when they've had their face defiled with jizz and tag teamed in their college days
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    What about something like this?

    "How about we agree to be monogamous for 6 weeks so we have peace of mind on that front and agree to re-visit the situation after those 6 weeks are up?"

    If all you want is sex then you get it.

    If you're worried you're gonna fall into a trap and catch feelings and it will end bad for you then just leave now.
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    Originally Posted by skinnyfat88 View Post
    What about something like this?

    "How about we agree to be monogamous for 6 weeks so we have peace of mind on that front and agree to re-visit the situation after those 6 weeks are up?"

    If all you want is sex then you get it.

    If you're worried you're gonna fall into a trap and catch feelings and it will end bad for you then just leave now.
    i think smash her a few more times without addressing it

    not because what she wants doesn't matter, but instead because he's undermining his own desires to fulfil hers by saying sure let's be together

    once he's hit it a few more times he might care less about the outcome - and will be able to tell her 'no i dont want a relationship, this is what i want' and she can be on board with it or not
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    Originally Posted by smashedurgfx10 View Post
    i think smash her a few more times without addressing it

    not because what she wants doesn't matter, but instead because he's undermining his own desires to fulfil hers by saying sure let's be together

    once he's hit it a few more times he might care less about the outcome - and will be able to tell her 'no i dont want a relationship, this is what i want' and she can be on board with it or not
    I think he might already be all aboard the feels train by the way this was written. If the feelings are there op you need to pull the trigger and get rid.
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    Originally Posted by Austin317 View Post
    I think he might already be all aboard the feels train by the way this was written. If the feelings are there op you need to pull the trigger and get rid.
    Its all a mental thing

    He can reverse his feels by distancing himself and focusing on what he really wants. Just takes discipline.
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    She's way out of ur league op so are u sure this isnt just some fantasy u made up in ur mind
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    Originally Posted by smashedurgfx10 View Post
    Its all a mental thing

    He can reverse his feels by distancing himself and focusing on what he really wants. Just takes discipline.
    But why does he need to reverse his feelings? If he likes her what's really the problem here?
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    Originally Posted by dolvioblue View Post
    But why does he need to reverse his feelings? If he likes her what's really the problem here?
    Luckily I’ll never get the chance with a girl like this so I will not have to go through this emotional turmoil op is going through lol. BUT if I was to start seeing a girl like this I wouldn’t want it to be permanent or let myself catch feels for her. All insta girls like her seem the exact same and I wouldn’t want to delve too deep into anything with one of them.
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    Originally Posted by dolvioblue View Post
    But why does he need to reverse his feelings? If he likes her what's really the problem here?
    Because she's obviously not relationship material. If you can't see that I don't know what else to say
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    Originally Posted by smashedurgfx10 View Post
    Because she's obviously not relationship material. If you can't see that I don't know what else to say
    Okay can you break down why this girl isn’t relationship material?
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    Originally Posted by dolvioblue View Post
    Okay can you break down why this girl isn’t relationship material?
    cake face
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    you think a girl like that is happy staying home and looking after children? c'mon lol

    if you don't want a family then sure knock yourself out
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    Originally Posted by savageoldman View Post
    cake face
    "Take me back" pics
    loves to travel
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    you think a girl like that is happy staying home and looking after children? c'mon lol

    if you don't want a family then sure knock yourself out
    Lol that “ take me back pic”
    Nothing more watered down generic empty soul than that

    Op don’t waste your time these people have no light nor fire inside them . They accomplish nothing in life
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    Originally Posted by dolvioblue View Post
    Okay can you break down why this girl isn’t relationship material?
    are you trolling?
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    You know the answer to this OP, think you just wanted reassurance from the misc on your decision.

    #1 rule of dating = go with your gut instincts. You know this girl isn't LTR material.
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    Originally Posted by JUGGERNAUT1333 View Post
    You know the answer to this OP, think you just wanted reassurance from the misc on your decision.

    #1 rule of dating = go with your gut instincts. You know this girl isn't LTR material.
    I actually gave it some thought and I was gonna consider FWB, but this dude above is right too:

    Originally Posted by Austin317
    I think he might already be all aboard the feels train by the way this was written. If the feelings are there op you need to pull the trigger and get rid.
    Wouldn't say I've totally fallen for her but I'd be lying if I'd say I weren't rustled by the fact she flirts with her male friend a lot, probably thinks of him while I bang her too. Plus while she's a good lay she is a lot of effort. Dates are usually what she wants to do not me - and she makes no effort

    So I'm going to end things with her. Now how to do so w/o her becoming emotional..
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